If you don't like what he's proposing then don't get together with him. It might be hard, but if you feel like it's not going to work out then it's probably for the best.This conversation below is absolutely mind blowing:
They're redditors.
That was the real twist for me, I was certain the guy writing it was the cuck. Who knew that the bulls had such emotional depth?"I was there like a third"
"I mean they are the primary couple in our triad"
Your partner gave you a hall pass. What an idiot. So here's the thing: if you're so compatible why can't you just go back to shtupping your one and only and stop being a whore? I mean, you claim to love your partner but I'm not seeing it if you're not willing to sacrifice.
Hahahahaha! So the bull is being cucked and the only advice these idiots can give is "Bro, you should totally be a boner killer!" How about you move on and find someone else? Either that or make peace with getting cucked and putting on a Superman outfit and just watching.
Well first, ex-wife is absolutely right. Marriage is between one man and one woman, full stop. It's a religious sacrament. So here's the secret: she'll never understand and either stop being whores and save the friendship or keep on doing what you're doing and the ex will do what she does.
I think this one speaks for itself.
The boyfriend looks like the grandson of the other three.
>I get everything I want out of the relationship except for love
If you want to be slightly generous about it you can just imagine the type: young, socially retarded, easily influenced, and overly-empathetic - type of person who goes through life being tricked into one thing after the other and in this case, lefty/post-modern shit that begets the type of mindset where you go "sure, might as well decolonize relationships and sex while we're at it, nothing more radical than rejecting social norms that every Marxist teacher I've ever had (all of them) taught me to hate - FUCK YOU DAD". It's their fault but not totally because it takes two (or more) to tango and there are always plenty of other similarly minded people to help paddle that ship to Crazytown.
Why did you let the relationship go on, so she could send you stuff? I have never been in the situation, but my theory is anyone asking for permission to cheat on you, will cheat on you. Instant breakup.
Yeah, I concur. Maybe if I loved the person enough I would still continue the relationship after a mere request to be non-monogamous, but there's no way in hell I would put up with it for long enough to be manipulated by her and her poly friends. Maybe I'm just heartless/inconsiderate, but I find it very hard to imagine getting stuck in that kind of situation myself.
Remember that emotional manipulation si considered abuse. Kinda funny how they think that = love.
I'm glad the one mother decided having her child around this poly woman was concerning, but I'm also asking myself why her husband was trolling Tinder in the first place...
