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"You need longer to groom potential mates."
"I'm fine. I'm totally fine."
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"You need longer to groom potential mates."
"I'm fine. I'm totally fine."
Seasoned News Reporter
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I genuinely believe that coomers are more well adjusted adults than anybody who is polyamorous "aka retarded whore". Has there been a post yet where one of these poly freaks complains about getting humilated by some "virgin loser" yet? I want to read it if it exists.
Enemigo434
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Or just practice self control like a functional human being
Seasoned News Reporter
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You really expect self control from people that apparently can't stop fucking anything that walks on two legs? Hell, speaking of legs, I am genuinely surprised there hasn't been a poly post complaining about getting cucked by a fucking animal or something.
Enemigo434
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No I don't so but I like to think that every man can seek a better ideal every day
To be cleared of one's own ignorance is truly a beautiful thing you see.
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I know the subject is controversial here but: bi people and polyamory. I joined an online community awhile back about being bi because the memes were amusing. But over time the posts and memes became the walking stereotype of “bi people are horny sluts 24/7”. And, any mention of poly was celebrated and monogamy was shit on.
There are two main arguments I’ve seen people use to justify their dislike of monogamy. Firstly is that “monogamy is unnatural.” As if ancient humans were all poly and society over the years has forced people into mono relationships against their true nature of free love. There may well be studies published about whether or not that is true, but I haven’t read any. What I do know is that there very much are people (me included) who are disgusted and/or uncomfortable with being poly and only want to date one person. And they didn’t become that way because “society”. Also using unnatural or natural implies a reference to animal nature or how we evolved to be. In the animal kingdom things like rape, cannibalism, incest, etc. are all “natural” so it’s quite a slippery slope to go down.
Another argument is that “poly people were and still are oppressed so it’s only fair to insult monogamous people.” Polygamy has seen many fluctuations in use and popularity throughout human history and cultures (especially if you were rich and/or owned a lot of cows). Perhaps in modern history it’s been judged a lot. But reading this thread, isn’t it a little warranted tbh? Regardless, it’s pretty shitty logic to swing the pendulum in the opposite direction and push the hate onto other people instead of a balance of acceptance between the two. It’s like SJWs who hate on men and want them to suffer because women were oppressed for years. That’s not how it works. You’re just an asshole.
There are two main arguments I’ve seen people use to justify their dislike of monogamy. Firstly is that “monogamy is unnatural.” As if ancient humans were all poly and society over the years has forced people into mono relationships against their true nature of free love. There may well be studies published about whether or not that is true, but I haven’t read any. What I do know is that there very much are people (me included) who are disgusted and/or uncomfortable with being poly and only want to date one person. And they didn’t become that way because “society”. Also using unnatural or natural implies a reference to animal nature or how we evolved to be. In the animal kingdom things like rape, cannibalism, incest, etc. are all “natural” so it’s quite a slippery slope to go down.
Another argument is that “poly people were and still are oppressed so it’s only fair to insult monogamous people.” Polygamy has seen many fluctuations in use and popularity throughout human history and cultures (especially if you were rich and/or owned a lot of cows). Perhaps in modern history it’s been judged a lot. But reading this thread, isn’t it a little warranted tbh? Regardless, it’s pretty shitty logic to swing the pendulum in the opposite direction and push the hate onto other people instead of a balance of acceptance between the two. It’s like SJWs who hate on men and want them to suffer because women were oppressed for years. That’s not how it works. You’re just an asshole.
blablabla
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bi people are horny sluts or attention whores, pick a line.
supremeautismo
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Incredible cognitive dissonance from the poly clan. “I’m sad that my loving partner currently getting plowed by another man took a selfie with him naked in bed and blasted it all over social media.” So are you sad because you got outed as a cuck or have you finally recognized that your woman getting deep dicked by someone who isn’t you might be a bad idea? (I went back and reread and realized she was with another girl. So a tranny, got it.)
Couldn’t get through this whole supportive comment. The cognitive dissocance was breaking my brain.
“It’s okay that you feel cucked...” Yeah, no shit.
The update is even more dire. “I called my LOVING POLY PARTER WILL NOT LEAVE ME I SWEAR and she told me that she doesn’t even like her bull and that she’s breaking up with him at the end of the week (after getting dicked down publically some more of course.)” My bad, it’s two girls. He’s plain stupid if he thinks (if this is actually a woman and not a troon) that this girl won’t dump him for an emotionally exhausting pseudo lesbian relationship.)
The near honesty in the comments on this one is a nice touch. These people are legally retarded.
I first read “Anotherpolyuser” as “Anotherpolyabuser.” Fitting.
Couldn’t get through this whole supportive comment. The cognitive dissocance was breaking my brain.
“It’s okay that you feel cucked...” Yeah, no shit.
The update is even more dire. “I called my LOVING POLY PARTER WILL NOT LEAVE ME I SWEAR and she told me that she doesn’t even like her bull and that she’s breaking up with him at the end of the week (after getting dicked down publically some more of course.)” My bad, it’s two girls. He’s plain stupid if he thinks (if this is actually a woman and not a troon) that this girl won’t dump him for an emotionally exhausting pseudo lesbian relationship.)
The near honesty in the comments on this one is a nice touch. These people are legally retarded.
I first read “Anotherpolyuser” as “Anotherpolyabuser.” Fitting.
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a man who lets his girl fuck around with another girl is the dumbest motherfucker alive.
if you want a threesome just pay two strippers or escorts for fuck sake
if you want a threesome just pay two strippers or escorts for fuck sake
supremeautismo
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The cycle always goes like this:
>Bi girl dates guy
>Gets bored
>Asks to “open up relationship”
>Dates another girl
>Her and other girl get into a clingy u-haul lesbian relationship and obsess over each other
>Girl breaks up with guy
>Relationship with other girl becomes a bed death lesbian one/abusive
>Girl cheats on her with a guy
>Girl leaves other girl and vaguebooks on social media about how she escaped a narcissists’ grasp
>Girl dates guy
>The cycle continues
I’ve seen this happen so many times, from high school through college. Some figure it out and settle around their 30s because they realize they can’t babymake with a naïve lesbian. Some never do and just ride the cock + clit carousel for life. It really expands from Gen X to Milennials and based on these TikToks and Twitters and SubReddits the Zoomers are doing it too.
Inshallah to bisexual women. Get your shit together.
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The cuck cope is insane. They always have the same three or four talking points whenever you point out how weird it is.
"At least she loves me." "Well, I'm the one she comes back to at the ene of the night." "Heh. At least I get laid."
It's the same shit every time.
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It's funny how polyamorous people are the same type to soapbox about relationship abuse on social media all day long, because having to keep two or more people constantly apprised of your whereabouts and other interactions sure sounds like a humiliating control issue that wouldn't be tolerated in most monogamous relationships.
Likewise, because this mentality boils down all other humans to disposable fucktoys, you would end up with the opposite problem that normal couples sometimes have where your SO gets angry that you have an opposite sex friend because they're worried you might be fucking them. Instead, it seems you'd be faced with suspicion and anger for having a friend who you aren't having sex with. This brings me to one of my biggest annoyances with polyshit, which is that it erases the meaning of friendship. That's pretty self evident so I won't expand on it much, but I'll add that people hold onto friendships because we care about the other person, not because they meet their weekly quota of dicksucking.
Likewise, because this mentality boils down all other humans to disposable fucktoys, you would end up with the opposite problem that normal couples sometimes have where your SO gets angry that you have an opposite sex friend because they're worried you might be fucking them. Instead, it seems you'd be faced with suspicion and anger for having a friend who you aren't having sex with. This brings me to one of my biggest annoyances with polyshit, which is that it erases the meaning of friendship. That's pretty self evident so I won't expand on it much, but I'll add that people hold onto friendships because we care about the other person, not because they meet their weekly quota of dicksucking.
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I noticed a pattern of speaking and rationalization with these types. That Tikva Wolf comic does the same thing. IDK if the men do it, but the women have a habit of using oddly academic or "scientific" language. EX: "I checked in with him regularly to assess emotion and jealousy..." or they often emphasize and repeatedly mention that polyamory is "communication heavy."
Like... who the fuck talks like this--even on a post? They do!
She could've easily just said: "I call him about one or twice a week. Sometimes we make plans to meet, but sometimes he just wants to talk." Normal speech. But women who push this polyamory stuff always couch it in such strange psychobabble. Like everyone around them are lab rats, or NPCs...
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>"I was experiencing lots of gushing"
Ewwwwwwww
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I read the "advice" in the comments and it's amazing how they just completely misunderstand what this prick is really doing. The last edit gives the game away:
Translating from fat redditor, we can clearly see this poor wife mentioned a PG scenario and OP's degenerecy-suppressor short circuited. Both are fat, but wife is one of those who used covid to get their shit together.
He's mad she's not playing by the rules of the game he decided to play by himself.
Look at the way he talks about the idea of polyamory, like a kid in a candy store. But we're supposed to believe this discussion arise organically and was actually precipitated by the wife??
Lmao you feel hoodwinked or duped?
How many indications that she was not happy with this do you think the wife actually put out? 100? 200? Certified mail?
God, I love that the date, who has almost certainly just been rejected by their tinder date for being a fatty, ends with the line "well, I'm still hungry" lmao of course you are!
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It's a juvenile and hormone-addled state-of-being that most people grow out of or quit after they've managed to find someone who puts up with their shit enough to settle down with and start building a long-term life with. The typical retort from them would be that these relationships are sexual and romantic and fulfilling and that they're no different than any other monogamous one, but we all know it's about dicking/getting dicked by strange and trying to justify it post-hoc . For every long-term relationship there's another several goddamn random tinder/OKcupid/whatever hook-ups when you were bored on a Saturday.
I'm at the stage now where I'm more curious about the mindset of a person that knowingly gets involved with the poly-types. I can see some young dude who's excited to get his dick wet and might even be turned on at the idea of cucking some schlub, but the mentality of the sidepiece women fascinates me. I have first-hand knowledge from one(!) of the people I know that's had multiple girls he's been fucking on the side try to pull the 'you should break up with your wife and join me' card, which makes sense considering they've got a shelf life and banging some married dude isn't going to result in a lasting relationship with children and a house.
Autists don't know how to communicate without sounding like a robot or an impulsive, inarticulate child. The clinical degenerate graduate level lingo is a key aspect of the obnoxiousness that is polyamory.
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That's a "female to male", right?
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absolutely. you can tell from the babyface. probably pre-testosterone or barely started using it.
also this polyamory shit is a big reason that i'm just not interested in dating anymore. people are too obsessed with sex, sex, sex. it's depressing.
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Those women don't seem very poly to me. Odds are they were already into the guy before this and when they found an opening they went for it. Since he's poly they have nothing holding them back from pursuing him but since they want him and not just sex they try to pressure him to break up with his wife. And him being married and "put together" probably makes him more attractive to them. And as long as he isn't giving them false hope then this behavior is all on them. The mistresses/side chicks at least are fooled into thinking he is in love with them and is going to leave his wife for them.
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Beta cucks and shecucks definitely share an insecure mindset which leads them to believe polyamory will protect them from betrayal. Just like soycucks say "she's still coming home to me, win win, so epic" their female counterparts cope their way into polyamory because "he would have been cheating anyway, at least now I will be aware of it". Of course, that mostly applies to the main/original partners, and I also fail to see any motivations for sidepiece girls beyond security, resources, or possibly that they think it's a less embarassing way to be a ho.