Reddit Femdom Community - r/gentlefemdom and r/FemdomCommunity

[Monika H.]

Original thread is here.
the subreddits are there

r/FemdomCommunity

r/FemdomCommunity: Welcome. This is a place for dominant women, and all those who get butterflies around them, to discuss anything related to …

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r/gentlefemdom

r/gentlefemdom:

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Hallo!
r/gentlefemdom and r/FemdomCommunity are what you get when you make a kink your entire identity and lifestyle. While they aren't as toxic as other kink communities, they are fairly lolcowish for a number of reasons that we'll see in detail now.

First of all, let's make the fundamental distinction - those two communities are so similar yet to so different at the same time, bound to each other by similar guidelines and by the same, immovable autism.

r/GentleFemdom is generally made up of huge weebs and this type of art is not uncommon in the sub

r/gentlefemdom - death by snu snu💚

103 votes and 3 comments so far on Reddit

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Spoiler

There's also a lot more drama and since they have their own GentleFemdom personals (here: https://www.reddit.com/r/gentlefemdompersonals/) to hook up. One glance at the post list shows that there is a huge disparity between men and women (a bit like in polyamory) and that most of them are male virgins in their mid 20's with mommy issues.

Spoiler: List

Some of the announcements

Spoiler: MOMMY UwU

Spoiler: I'm not desperate

lol sure pal

However, some bad stuff happened and they had to make strict rules about it:

r/gentlefemdompersonals - Pedophilia masquerading as Gentle Femdom

13 votes and 11 comments so far on Reddit

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Spoiler: Long

Well, they do have an obsession with cuteness that can pass for pedophilia.

Naturally mommy issues come in with the full package when you frequent this kind of communities, with a whole lot of drama, like this guy who launches in an uncomfortabaly long and melodramatic rant about abuse and his mommy issues. https://www.reddit.com/r/gentlefemdom/comments/d2vman/thank_you_for_convincing_me_i_matter_and_have/

Spoiler: long

And naturally, a complete lack of understanding of social norms and that what's in the bedroom, stays in the bedroom.

r/gentlefemdom - GFD in public/around family

35 votes and 10 comments so far on Reddit

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Spoiler: Okay...

There's also lots of cheaply homemade porn that infests the subreddit, enjoy.

Spoiler: Porn

On the other hand, r/FemdomCommunity is a crazy feminist nest where the primary theme is to abuse and emasculate willing men (?), lacking any common sense and with repressed pedophilic and incestous tendencies. Keyword here is "sadism" and safety is for normies.

When satisfying your kink is more important than the baby you are carrying https://www.reddit.com/r/FemdomCommunity/comments/csvfgy/being_a_domme_whilst_pregnant/

Spoiler: Pregnancy

Crazy feminist train of though about why she's empowered while being passed around https://www.reddit.com/r/FemdomComm...nt_is_not_a_thing_you_fuck_my_cunt_fucks_you/

Spoiler: Feminist crap

https://www.reddit.com/r/FemdomComm...s_anyone_like_taking_care_of_and_maintaining/

Spoiler: Maintaining penises

Special thanks to @sweet-cereal-killer for the original thread and the material on r/FemdomCommunity!
I'm sifting through infos and links and narrowed it down to those two subreddits since they are the most threadworthy I could find.

 

[Zero Day Defense]

Something rather disappointing sticks out to me here.

Like, this sounds like it would actually a pretty badass line in the context of femdom. But then the entire post is the OP there whinging about language particularities that don't actually matter.

Anyways.

Spoiler: long

Maybe recursive link displaying would be a good idea.

Followed the link.

Spoiler: long

 

[TaimuRadiu]

ACKSHUALLY, ACKSHUALLY 14 YEAR OLD ISN'T PEDOPHILIA, IT'S JUST BEING A CREEP

 

[Monika H.]

ACKSHUALLY, ACKSHUALLY 14 YEAR OLD ISN'T PEDOPHILIA, IT'S JUST BEING A CREEP

Hebephilia - Wikipedia

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[Zero Day Defense]

ACKSHUALLY, ACKSHUALLY 14 YEAR OLD ISN'T PEDOPHILIA, IT'S JUST BEING A CREEP

Don't worry about satirizing those who distinguish between pedophilia and hebephilia-- she actually tags her post "pedophilia".

 

[TaimuRadiu]

Hebephilia - Wikipedia

en.wikipedia.org

That's the joke

 

[Varg Did Nothing Wrong]

None of your images work, at least for me.

 

[Postal_Rat]

You should probably open with r/gentlefemdom and move towards r/femdom start at the shallower end of the crazy pool and take us under slowly. Gentle fem is overshadowed by its more extreme counterpart by the time I've finished reading about the fellow getting his dick belt-sanded I'm numb to the shy boys who want a hot mommy uwu.

That said I'm not sure you should keep gentle fem to begin with. Only one of the four things posted under it really works for me notably the slag looking for ways to maintain dominance in a public setting. I think my biggest problem here is that the latter half features a bunch of fetishists not being that egregious.

The sample art you posted isn't doing anything for me in any way, shape, or form, it doesn't really enhance the cringe. What they lust after isn't the cringeworthy thing. Most people have some odd sexual thing. It's the way they can't shut up about it and the stupid shit they do in pursuit of it.

The first Gentle fem post is a screenshot of their classifieds you bring up there being drama associated with it but you don't show it.

The second post is someone explaining why their horrifying protuberance is special to them which is frankly more boring than anything.

What this needs is more physical injury and line crossing those are some words I never thought I would type.
Edit: I can see the attachments

 

[TotallyAChick]

I think lolcow.farm is also a good gold mine for "gentle femdom" content. I believe those ssuuuper sophisticated and totally mentally stable leg-beards should be included. Some sane posts, lots of insane or hypocritical ones too. Mostly complaining about yucky male sexuality and take on BDSM, how they are better and how they are sick that only insecure and emotional guys are willing to participate. Only to post about their own mental issues. If someone else doesn't post it, I'll do it later when I have time.
(pics are also not working for me)

 

[Monika H.]

None of your images work, at least for me.

Null put a notice attachments won't work as he's working on the site, it should be temporary.

You should probably open with r/gentlefemdom and move towards r/femdom start at the shallower end of the crazy pool and take us under slowly. Gentle fem is overshadowed by its more extreme counterpart by the time I've finished reading about the fellow getting his dick belt-sanded I'm numb to the shy boys who want a hot mommy uwu.

That said I'm not sure you should keep gentle fem to begin with. Only one of the four things posted under it really works for me notably the slag looking for ways to maintain dominance in a public setting. I think my biggest problem here is that the latter half features a bunch of fetishists not being that egregious.

The sample art you posted isn't doing anything for me in any way, shape, or form, it doesn't really enhance the cringe. What they lust after isn't the cringeworthy thing here most people have some odd sexual thing. It's the way they can't shut up about it and the stupid shit they do in pursuit of it.

The first Gentle fem post is a screenshot of their classifieds you bring up there being drama associated with it but you don't show it.

The second post is someone explaining why their horrifying protuberance is special to them which is frankly more boring than anything.

What this needs is more physical injury and line crossing those are some words I never thought I would type.

You are right, I'll rearrange that content.
I'm still digging through and capping other stuff, I'll be putting it up.

EDIT: Null is still working on the site, but do tell me if you see the attachments or not.

 

[Gustav Schuchardt]

ACKSHUALLY, ACKSHUALLY 14 YEAR OLD ISN'T PEDOPHILIA, IT'S JUST BEING A CREEP

Someone did the ACKSHUALLY IT'S EPHEBOPHILIA thing

https://www.reddit.com/r/gentlefemd...rlp/pedophilia_masquerading_as_gentle_femdom/

If you look at

https://www.ceddit.com/r/gentlefemd...rlp/pedophilia_masquerading_as_gentle_femdom/

Which redirects to

https://snew.notabug.io/r/gentlefem...rlp/pedophilia_masquerading_as_gentle_femdom/
http://archive.li/42Ox5

you see a bunch of comments which were deleted for defending pedophilia

So the mods are banning people for defending pedophilia but not the more subtle pedos who makes the 'pedophilia != ephebophilia' distinction which is a known tell for being a pedo.

So oddly enough for Reddit the problem is not that the mods are Nazis, it's that they're not Nazi enough.

 

[Postal_Rat]

I went browsing through Femdom community as a bit of morbid curiosity this thread seem fruitful

How to have a fun vasectomy
http://archive.li/1RizO

 

[Vampirella]

So the mods are banning people for defending pedophilia but not the more subtle pedos who makes the 'pedophilia != ephebophilia' distinction which is a known tell for being a pedo.

So oddly enough for Reddit the problem is not that the mods are Nazis, it's that they're not Nazi enough.

I'd say it's worrying that the posts defending pedophilia are upvoted and the mod posts are downvoted, but it's Reddit. Good job Reddit, front page of the internet.

 

[Varg Did Nothing Wrong]

 

[Rand /pol/]

What's "gentle femdom" even supposed to be? It seems mostly just weirdos with Oedipus complexes to me.

 

[Postal_Rat]

What's "gentle femdom" even supposed to be? It seems mostly just weirdos with Oedipus complexes to me.

As far as I can tell normal femdom tends to involve a lot more sadism. I think it's one of those things defined by what it's not and of course an Oedipus complex.

 

[Sinner's Sandwich]

Meh I think these people are mostly harmless. I've seen much worse.

 

[Knojkamarangasan_#4]

Godammit why is it ALWAYS reddit doing this shit. Also the mental image of that ”Deep penis cleaning” was fucking terrifying.

 

[Zero Day Defense]

What's "gentle femdom" even supposed to be? It seems mostly just weirdos with Oedipus complexes to me.

Femdom but without the bodily harm and dialed down objectification.

So the fetish basically manifests as the male desire to be desired, but amped up a little bit. Presumably they've taken on submissive qualities because their general persons weren't suited to take on aggressive wooing methods, and they've been met with repeated and stinging rejection at various distances in their various efforts as the norm so they're not predisposed to continuing to stick their necks out that way. The idea of a reasonably attractive female that knows what they want (them), and is aggressive about demonstrating that to the point of possessiveness and (a diminished degree of) objectification is... attractive to them.

Because otherwise, they don't see themselves winning out on their own initiative. You can argue that many of them are starved for intimacy and have no good benchmark for what may be functional levels thereof for them, or in general.

Also, Oedipus complex. At least a little.

 

[OpenBASED]

Also the mental image of that ”Deep penis cleaning” was fucking terrifying.

It seems pretty rapey to me.

"He sometimes appears afraid and attempts to convince/beg me not to do it, like a child asking his mother to please not take him to the dentist."
But who knows? Maybe I'm just an incel that needs to be put in their place via deep penis "cleaning".