Reddit Femdom Community - r/gentlefemdom and r/FemdomCommunity

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You forgot to mention the male chastity belts aka a fucking cage they put on their dicks for sometimes months at a time.

r/Chastity
r/MasculineMaleChastity :optimistic:

r/AsianChastity

And....
R/asiansissification, which has nothing to do with femdom but hapas lusting for BIG AMERICAN PENIS
 
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It sounds like a place where people should be covered in hand sanitizer instead of whatever fluids are being exchanged.
In theory munches are supposed to be a normal dinner or such (you get some munchies etc.) So you can meet people without getting instantly grossed out by their out-there kink.

Of course with retards who can’t keep it in their pants all bets are off.
 
If being around ERP degenerates online has taught me anything, it's that women suck balls at being dominant. It's up there with just replacing every comma in a sentence with "you faggot". A dominant woman is among the most normie fetishes, it's literally just turning the natural hetero couple dynamic on its head.

And lo behold, it didn't even take a page before "dominant women" became about pedophilia and feminism. They can't even be degenerate horndogs properly.
 
You forgot to mention the male chastity belts aka a fucking cage they put on their dicks for sometimes months at a time.

r/Chastity
r/MasculineMaleChastity :optimistic:

r/AsianChastity
Hmmm I didn't really thought about that, you can post some material if you want.

If being around ERP degenerates online has taught me anything, it's that women suck balls at being dominant. It's up there with just replacing every comma in a sentence with "you faggot". A dominant woman is among the most normie fetishes, it's literally just turning the natural hetero couple dynamic on its head.

And lo behold, it didn't even take a page before "dominant women" became about pedophilia and feminism. They can't even be degenerate horndogs properly.
That's because you really can't "become" dominant. You are either that way or you aren't, you can try rp it but it will be almost always cringe. You can change between being submissive or sexually dominant if there's some significant psychological development or if you are with a certain partner; where their own attitude, experience and difference of age are a big factor in determining who's dominant and who's submissive.
 
A dominant woman is among the most normie fetishes, it's literally just turning the natural hetero couple dynamic on its head.
"Dom and Sub"/BDSM in general is (although when people talk about it they tend to realize it's something that has become such a broad term that it doesnt really mean anything), and as mentioned before, this is a bunch of insecure men with mommy and intimacy issues who are lonely and usually inexperienced and not "masculine". I would say theres even a certain aspect of self loathing there.

I kind of disagree with the women are shit doms thing, Ive seen plenty of it, in different people and different ways--most of it is just a power dynamic thing. Someone like Zoe Quinn would probably be a "dom", she bosses people around and uses people and things to get whatever she wants, damn everybody else, they exist as her orbiters and part of her weird harem--it's a bit solipsistic. A lot of them are into findom too, and it's not widely successful in the grand scheme and has gone away once the internet at large found out about it and laughed at it, but some of them made some money off of it. I know there was a thread on findom here.

This type of BDSM shit also will always be cringe if it's in RP text form because a big portion of it relies on the actual relationship and dynamic between the people involved, it's not just "Suck daddy's dick you worthless cock guzzling slut! *slaps her a little bit too hard*"
 
Hmmm I didn't really thought about that, you can post some material if you want.

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There's nothing wrong with femdom or most fetishes conceptually, but allowing it to overtake your life and vociferously discussing it is just so fucking dumb dude.
One of the point I make in this thread and others is that there's nothing wrong in enjoying naughty or unsual stuff in the bedroom (as long as it's SSC), but for heaven' sake, keep it in the bedroom.
 
As I get older, I understand less and less how people can make communities based on kink with the intent of building relationships there only to be surprised when they are just used for sex. I understand less and less why people even feel the need to base communities off this. Kinky sex should be a want, not a need. Good sex should be the need, and even if you like kinky sex, you can still have good non kinky sex if you actually like the person you are doing it with.
 
I never got the appeal of femdom for women, since it's always for show and appealing to your man. If the men in these situations actually made some effort to be "sexy" and appealing for women to dominate, it would make sense to me, but I still don't get why a grown ass woman would be attracted to a man who does absolutely nothing but expect to be whipped.
 
I never got the appeal of femdom for women, since it's always for show and appealing to your man. If the men in these situations actually made some effort to be "sexy" and appealing for women to dominate, it would make sense to me, but I still don't get why a grown ass woman would be attracted to a man who does absolutely nothing but expect to be whipped.
There's gotta be people out there who do this "right", like maybe a pretty guy and an adult tomboy, but I'd imagine that's probably extremely rare.
 
I never got the appeal of femdom for women, since it's always for show and appealing to your man. If the men in these situations actually made some effort to be "sexy" and appealing for women to dominate, it would make sense to me, but I still don't get why a grown ass woman would be attracted to a man who does absolutely nothing but expect to be whipped.
A lot of women who are actually in to femdom have had those arguments; they call it "topping from the bottom", Women who are truly into femdom and arent just appeasing their boyfriend, they dont do that shit.

Its power play moreso than it is sexual, but to women I think it's the idea of having a man they find attractive be kind of subservient, when in reality they deal with the idea that the man could physically overpower them. There is still a line between being put on a pedestal and being someone who has a sub.

Femdom is actually less about whipping and shit as its commonly portrayed through dominatrices and more about "let me do what I want." It's why it ends up with shit like chastity and peeing in their coffee, or "small penis humiliation" stuff.

It doesnt always work out that way but that's the idea. In reality it turns out its normally just a regular relationship where there may be one person who takes the lead in the bedroom or intimate situations or something. If you arent making it a "lifestyle", which the guys on the reddit forum are probably in a "lifestyle" sort of relationship.
 
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