Sissy Phenomenon Explained

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I planned on writing this post yesterday but I was feeling great yesterday & didn't want to indulge in this stuff so I decided not to. Well, today I had a "sissy attack" (that's what I call it, lol) meaning I spent 3-4 hours playing a sissy game & fantasizing over sissy stuff. I was having slight sissy disturbance since morning. This happens when I don't get enough sleep, usually.
Now, I'll explain the sissy phenomenon here. Most of you guys have crazy conspiracy theories which couldn't even be further from the truth. I see most people here who feel like this is curse on them by satan or something! Well those guys crack me up.
It's really easy to see through the sissy fetish. It's only easy if you are self aware though & it's not that easy to be self aware. Here are the pointers.
Maybe not all of you but at least I got introduced to sissy porn through my long journey of self hatred. I was bullied at school for having a tiny pecker, which is average but due to my obesity, it used to look like it's just an inch long. Also, few of my bullies used to grope my moobs. I still have a case of gynecomastia. So, I was kind of forced into this self female image of myself. One of the guys also had grinded against me once. So, that added to this feminine image too.
I also had & still have extremely low confidence interacting with women. Add to that the extremely religious culture of my household. I had fear of sex. I hated people who were open about sex. I was unable to achieve relationships with girls who were even interested in me. I felt like a relationship prior to marriage would be a sin. So, I kept dodging the relationships & even girls to most extent.
So, you can guess that I was already sexually frustrated. I started browsing gay websites, chat with guys, because I had immense fear of even getting with a girl. I never materialized on any of the gay chatting. But did used to chat with lot of guys back then for 1.5 years.
But then that level of degradation was no longer enough, so I finally looked up sissy porn. I hated it at first because the language those people use was pretty abusive. "You are nothing but a fapping material b**ch" etc. During this time, due to desperation, I finally tried to have a relationship but she not only rejected me, she humiliated me in public too.
This was added fuel to my sissy fetish. Then, I had problems with my career too, so the fetish kept growing & growing. This was my journey so far. Now let me tell you why I don't think it's not a conspiracy against men but most of the perpetrators of this sissy porn are themselves the creator of this fetish. No CIA or anything.
Most "sissies" start by hating their member & that's why calling it clitty starts to feel natural to them. Modern day culture puts a man's worth in his sexual prowess. Most sissies are the men who don't get any action or get rejected by women. Or are just unsatisfied with their sexual life.
When you consider these two things together, you would see that this entire subculture was created by men who are not satisfied with themselves. This is the way out. It's not a conspiracy or an agenda against guys.
How to get out of it, just act straight. Get with women who are sexually available. Feel your masculine power. It's not that hard. Most of the sissies are cis-men. Just get over it bro!
 
The driving force behind the attraction to sissy shit is a forcefully-instilled guilt in being male and masculine, and a consequent backwards attempt at absolution from this "sin" by becoming a wimp, a pussy, someone else's bitch. It's self-flagellation that has taken on a sexual life of its own.
 
Some of the fellas in this thread have said some very smart things. I think what you should take into account is that what you're trying to do is, mostly, rid yourself of a fetish. If you are jerking off to the idea of being a girl (or raping someone, or fucking a little kid, or being a blue platypus with 8 tits), probably 80% of people will stop having these urges if they stop doing it. Like 20%, or maybe 10%, or whatever, of people are just fucked. But like a year of actually trying to make yourself be normal can work well for almost anyone.

I dont know about the nofap guys. If you think that will work then by all means go try it. It does do a lot to get rid of dumb fetishes. But I think most people need to jerk off (or get laid) on a regular basis and it isn't practical, so you can also just try to change your fetish to being a normal horny guy.

Come up with something that doesn't make you feel bad to jerk off to -- like, just normally fucking a woman in the pussy, or fucking a man in the ass, or being fucked in the ass, or whatever. Say to yourself that you are not gonna jerk off until it's to this. It will be more difficult than your weird fetish thing. But if you just stop jerkng off for a few days, it will become easier. It is fine if you fuck up every once in a while and go back to the old shit, don't beat yourself up over it, but don't let yourself just totally regress either. It takes time to unfuck your brain, and you will need to do this gradually.

Doing it gradually is like, let's say you are jerking off to 20 foot tall girls stepping on you and you want to stop and be normal. So maybe you start off finding porn of a 8 foot tall girl, or a normal size girl stepping on you, that has some connection to the original fetish but is less extreme. Like if you are jerking off to being a girl with a pussy, well what if instead you jerked off to just crossdressing or something. Then you would be most of the way to being normal. You will find yourself becoming less fucked up if you just don't jerk off to something for a few months. After like a year, even if you try to find some of your old fetish you will probably find it gross and unfappable.

One helpful thing is to gradually block the websites of gross shit, or delete your videos, maybe once every time you jerk off or once a week or something. You might think you can hold on to the nasty shit for old times sake or whatever, but you need to prevent your coomer self from doing stupid shit. Godspeed brother.

I made a post about this a while ago. Essentially, I think that nowadays people are really eager to think of their fetishes/etc as some kind of internal unchangeable part of who they are. Nothing could be further from the truth!
 
It's the Jews pouring funny stuff into our wells.
 
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I planned on writing this post yesterday but I was feeling great yesterday & didn't want to indulge in this stuff so I decided not to. Well, today I had a "sissy attack" (that's what I call it, lol) meaning I spent 3-4 hours playing a sissy game & fantasizing over sissy stuff. I was having slight sissy disturbance since morning. This happens when I don't get enough sleep, usually.
Now, I'll explain the sissy phenomenon here. Most of you guys have crazy conspiracy theories which couldn't even be further from the truth. I see most people here who feel like this is curse on them by satan or something! Well those guys crack me up.
It's really easy to see through the sissy fetish. It's only easy if you are self aware though & it's not that easy to be self aware. Here are the pointers.
Maybe not all of you but at least I got introduced to sissy porn through my long journey of self hatred. I was bullied at school for having a tiny pecker, which is average but due to my obesity, it used to look like it's just an inch long. Also, few of my bullies used to grope my moobs. I still have a case of gynecomastia. So, I was kind of forced into this self female image of myself. One of the guys also had grinded against me once. So, that added to this feminine image too.
I also had & still have extremely low confidence interacting with women. Add to that the extremely religious culture of my household. I had fear of sex. I hated people who were open about sex. I was unable to achieve relationships with girls who were even interested in me. I felt like a relationship prior to marriage would be a sin. So, I kept dodging the relationships & even girls to most extent.
So, you can guess that I was already sexually frustrated. I started browsing gay websites, chat with guys, because I had immense fear of even getting with a girl. I never materialized on any of the gay chatting. But did used to chat with lot of guys back then for 1.5 years.
But then that level of degradation was no longer enough, so I finally looked up sissy porn. I hated it at first because the language those people use was pretty abusive. "You are nothing but a fapping material b**ch" etc. During this time, due to desperation, I finally tried to have a relationship but she not only rejected me, she humiliated me in public too.
This was added fuel to my sissy fetish. Then, I had problems with my career too, so the fetish kept growing & growing. This was my journey so far. Now let me tell you why I don't think it's not a conspiracy against men but most of the perpetrators of this sissy porn are themselves the creator of this fetish. No CIA or anything.
Most "sissies" start by hating their member & that's why calling it clitty starts to feel natural to them. Modern day culture puts a man's worth in his sexual prowess. Most sissies are the men who don't get any action or get rejected by women. Or are just unsatisfied with their sexual life.
When you consider these two things together, you would see that this entire subculture was created by men who are not satisfied with themselves. This is the way out. It's not a conspiracy or an agenda against guys.
How to get out of it, just act straight. Get with women who are sexually available. Feel your masculine power. It's not that hard. Most of the sissies are cis-men. Just get over it bro!
so to cut to the chase your a failed man and therefore opt for a subserviant female role because of this. Sorry to say OP but your admission has basically proven what i already thought about sissy fetishists. Instead of trying to work on yourself and improve you just accepted how others saw you and internalised in some fucked up perverted manner. You played yourself nigga
 
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