Sluthate.com

[autisticdragonkin]

dude... I might be depressed, but I'm normal.
having cynical/pessimistic thoughts doesn't mean I actually express them

actually a lot of people you see day-to-day are hiding thoughts they really would rather you not know.

yes a lot of people you see day-to-day are hiding thoughts they really would rather you not know but they don't let them dominate their lives

 

[Ariel]

I've never "hated" "sluts" I don't really think in either of those terms.
People have needs, some are less inhibited/discreet- doesn't mean they're different inside.

Anyway, it's not a pity party. I want to explain one of the saner mindsets on that site. Crazies are definitely a majority there, though

Honestly there is nothing sane about that website and I have no idea what you and @MysteryMan are even doing there. You guys are both better then that & you know it. Stop getting caught up in that retardation, you're selling yourselves short.

 

[ne enenen]

So what are you going to do when whatever procedure you have done to "fix" yourself doesn't get it exactly right? Like the doctor doesn't fix your whatever just so.... will you continue going into surgery to fix yourself until you're pleased with the results?? Because I can show you how that's going to turn out...

...and it's not pretty.

Yeah, I hear this a lot.
If you get skin bleaching, or botox, or any of those surface-level stuff, there's a large chance you'll end up bizarre/alien-looking.

So I'd never want to do those, except maybe very minor ones.
I'd rather get the implants, since those look pretty realistic if done right.

 

[namazuros]

I've never "hated" "sluts" I don't really think in either of those terms.
People have needs, some are less inhibited/discreet- doesn't mean they're different inside.

Anyway, it's not a pity party. I want to explain one of the saner mindsets on that site. Crazies are definitely a majority there, though

Then why be a member of sluthate? Why frequent that site, to the point where you come over here and desperately try to defend them?

Who do you even view as sane members? Its a ragtag assortment of pedos, racists, misogynists, and people with legitimate self esteem issues. If you are really part of that later group, fucking bail, because that place is cancerous.

I really dont undersrand why you're so smitten with that trash heap. Its embarrassing.

 

[Ariel]

Yeah, I hear this a lot.
If you get skin bleaching, or botox, or any of those surface-level stuff, there's a large chance you'll end up bizarre/alien-looking.

So I'd never want to do those, except maybe very minor ones.
I'd rather get the implants, since those look pretty realistic if done right.

Implants aren't really used much anymore. Its less invasive and cheaper to get juvederm fillers. My mum and most of her friends get botox, none of them look like aliens.

 

[ne enenen]

Then why be a member of sluthate? Why frequent that site, to the point where you come over here and desperately try to defend them?

Who do you even view as sane members? Its a ragtag assortment of pedos, racists, misogynists, and people with legitimate self esteem issues. If you are really part of that later group, fucking bail, because that place is cancerous.

I really dont undersrand why you're so smitten with that trash heap. Its embarrassing.

Pretty much all true, but they know a surprising amount about improving looks.
To my surprise, more than people on actual plastic surgery forums

But yeah, other than that there aren't many redeeming qualities. Probably should cut down on my time there

Implants aren't really used much anymore. Its less invasive and cheaper to get juvederm fillers. My mum and most of her friends get botox, none of them look like aliens.

Interesting. I've read about different fillers, but didn't like how they don't last all that long. Gets expensive, doesn't it?

 

[namazuros]

But yeah, other than that there aren't many redeeming qualities. Probably should cut down on my time there

Then I wish you the best, and hope that you follow through on that.

 

[Ariel]

Pretty much all true, but they know a surprising amount about improving looks.
To my surprise, more than people on actual plastic surgery forums

But yeah, other than that there aren't many redeeming qualities. Probably should cut down on my time there


Interesting. I've read about different fillers, but didn't like how they don't last all that long. Gets expensive, doesn't it?

Have you ever seen somebody with messed up lip implants IRL? Its not worth it.

 

[Cubanodun]

@ne enenen
the big question is what will happen when you do your surgery and see that it didnt fix any of your problems, are going to do more surgerys? or enter in a spiral of denial?

 

[SpessCaptain]

Have you ever seen somebody with messed up lip implants IRL? Its not worth it.

Or the countless horror stories of implants being rejected.
Or implants being fake and killing you.
Or implants being warped.
Or implants falling off due to lack of blood.

 

[Conrix]

This thread in a nutshell

 

[ne enenen]

(not all that on-topic, but why not)

Have you ever seen somebody with messed up lip implants IRL? Its not worth it.

yeah... shudder
mostly I mean implants that "fix" bones. like cheekbone ones, which make it look like your cheekbones grew "better"

 

[Ariel]

Or the countless horror stories of implants being rejected.
Or implants being fake and killing you.
Or implants being warped.
Or implants falling off due to lack of blood.

> girls from school

thailand

(not all that on-topic, but why not)


yeah... shudder
mostly I mean implants that "fix" bones. like cheekbone ones, which make it look like your cheekbones grew "better"

Still looks freakish 95% of the time.

You are better off going for a run every couple of days in the sunshine and eating well. Forget all that 'looksmaxing' bs.

 

[ne enenen]

@ne enenen
the big question is what will happen when you do your surgery and see that it didnt fix any of your problems, are going to do more surgerys? or enter in a spiral of denial?

That's one thing I can't stop thinking about. I've researched this pretty obsessively, and have a solid (in my mind) plan for getting what I want.
There are back-ups and everything. If A doesn't work, I can try B, C, or even D.

The only question is how long it will take... I'd guess a few years? I'll stop once I check every item on the list, if I manage to not get addicted.

 

[Cubanodun]

That's one thing I can't stop thinking about. I've researched this pretty obsessively, and have a solid (in my mind) plan for getting what I want.
There are back-ups and everything. If A doesn't work, I can try B, C, or even D.

The only question is how long it will take... I'd guess a few years? I'll stop once I check every item on the list, if I manage to not get addicted.

The other plans involve more surgery? Or is something like diet and exercise?

 

[autisticdragonkin]

@ne enenen @MysteryMan @umad do any of you actually have jobs (including being full time students)

 

[ne enenen]

The other plans involve more surgery? Or is something like diet and exercise?

Yup, that plus tanning, maybe even cologne (seriously)
They're all good ideas, but IMO just icing on the cake.

I'm 150-155lb. and eat a good diet already, so no dramatic improvements there.

@ne enenen @MysteryMan @umad do any of you actually have jobs (including being full time students)

student

 

[autisticdragonkin]

student

well I am happy to hear that you are doing something with your life, have your studies in any ways affected the way you interact with the world

 

[BF 388]

That's one thing I can't stop thinking about. I've researched this pretty obsessively, and have a solid (in my mind) plan for getting what I want.
There are back-ups and everything. If A doesn't work, I can try B, C, or even D.

The only question is how long it will take... I'd guess a few years? I'll stop once I check every item on the list, if I manage to not get addicted.

Great, so how much time have you devoted to developing your personality and character and what you can actually give to other people?

You're only looking at one factor of relationship (hell, not even that because SH is devoted to 'attraction' not relationships), so no wonder you people that frequent that site come across as so vain, empty and shallow to the rest of us normal plebs.

The mantra of SH is seriously not much of a stretch from this:

I don't want to hate on you personally, but that site and it's users really make me want to vomit.

/a-log
/autistic

 

[TM Ambrose]

the site doesn't really blame other people, though... at least, the saner members don't do that
the blame is squarely on me, for not being attractive. which is why I want to fix that so badly

I'm sorry you're so ugly (which to be honest I doubt you are) . Have you tried taking up a hobby?
Also maybe if you came on here a little saner we might have been nicer too you.

Yup, that plus tanning, maybe even cologne (seriously)
They're all good ideas, but IMO just icing on the cake.

I'm 150-155lb. and eat a good diet already, so no dramatic improvements there.

Dude, I'm 180 and 5'11". Yeah I'm muscular but trust me you probably look way skinnier than me. That's something you got going for you. You're probably fine.

Listen man, I have self-image problems as well. Because I'm trans I can barely stand to look at myself at times. One of the major things I had to do is realize that while I can try to make myself look better I also have to start thinking about accepting my body to an extent because there is only so much you can do. Life is rough, and our culture really has cultivated an idealistic body type. It can be difficult to get through that but the best thing you can do is work on what you can.