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IJustWantToSeeAttachments said:
Do you see this, @sephon? He doesn't give a shit about you. He just insulted you in order to validate his own appearance. SH users don't want to help you; the moment they can use you to their own ends they will.
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What? He said I already look okay, not hideous. He's saying he's a better example of what looksmaxing can do.
 
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Godot said:
"his looks are okay" a sentence later "he's ugly" do you have trouble with words?
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What? Have you all lost your mind?

"Sephon is not the best example as he looks okay, it's not representative of all users. If you saw my pictures you would see what improving looks really is, and what it means to actually need to work on yourself. As said men who aren't ugly are usually called autistic and told to leave."

Sephon, the user posting his pictures here, looks okay. This is not representative of all of our users, some of whom ARE bad looking. Typically men who aren't ugly when they visit our forum with their pics are told to leave or they are called autistic, because there are lots of people who go there who DO have very bad looks and those are the ones who really need the help.

By seeing sephon you would think the entire userbase is just okay looking people who want major surgery they don't really need.
 
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Yog-Spergoth said:
You're still misunderstanding me. If you can't accept yourself because of outside things, you'll never be happy with yourself. Accepting yourself is despite your shortcoming, it's coming to peace with the cards you were dealt. You're treating a symptom, not the cause.



You do need improvement. Just not expressly in the looks category.
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You don't understand BDD well do you? These are flaws that I CANNOT stop thinking about, and the fact that they make me "ugly" and a 3/10. By fixing these, my mind will be freed and I will no longer focus on them after becoming a 5.5-6/10.

Yes, there's more flaws (why I'm taking finasteride for hair loss), but I can cope with them because they're minor vs. major. I have a threshold.
 
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I'll be the first to admit 90% of the posters from our site are absolute shyte
However a coherent, accurate worldview is to be found there, if you dig hard enough.

Here's my interpretation of parts of it:

-Looks matter to women just as much, if not more, as they do to men
Women often trade off looks in return for resources, i.e. money http://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s12110-001-1007-9
However, for casual sex (and for having a faithful partner) nothing beats actually being sexually attractive

-Yes, you can compensate for poor looks... but you'll always be compensating
The rich, nerdy software developer? His wife at the very least wants to cheat on him.
No amount of money, or even status, will help a women see his pasty, frail body and ugly face as sexually attractive.

-Yes, people settle. Not everyone can shoot for the stars and expect to actually succeed

-Surgery can improve your looks immensely, provided that you know what you're doing
The "ken doll" approach focuses on skin and fat, and makes you looks absolutely ridiculous... agreed
The better approach is fixing your bone structure with surgery and implants. This will look 100% natural, if you do it proportionally
Of course, for that you need to know at least the basics of facial attractiveness. Also photoshop helps as a "testing ground," so to speak.
 
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MysteryMan said:
What? Have you all lost your mind?

"Sephon is not the best example as he looks okay, it's not representative of all users. If you saw my pictures you would see what improving looks really is, and what it means to actually need to work on yourself. As said men who aren't ugly are usually called autistic and told to leave."

Sephon, the user posting his pictures here, looks okay. This is not representative of all of our users, some of whom ARE bad looking. Typically men who aren't ugly when they visit our forum with their pics are told to leave or they are called autistic, because there are lots of people who go there who DO have very bad looks and those are the ones who really need the help.

By seeing sephon you would think the entire userbase is just okay looking people who want major surgery they don't really need.
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No, by seeing sephons pic I think he's an okay looking person who wants a major surgery he doesn't need
 
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sephon said:
You don't understand BDD well do you? These are flaws that I CANNOT stop thinking about, and the fact that they make me "ugly" and a 3/10. By fixing these, my mind will be freed and I will no longer focus on them after becoming a 5.5-6/10.

Yes, there's more flaws (why I'm taking finasteride for hair loss), but I can cope with them because they're minor vs. major. I have a threshold.
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Brother, I won't lie. I get it mostly in an academic sense. But you're not actually treating yourself. A good CBT therapist can do much more for you than any amount of surgery.
 
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sephon said:
These are flaws that I CANNOT stop thinking about, and the fact that they make me "ugly" and a 3/10. By fixing these, my mind will be freed and I will no longer focus on them after becoming a 5.5-6/10.
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Thats it. That rating system is borderline retarded. You're a person, and people are allowed to have flaws and still be wanted.

Can't you see that sluthate is corrupting your mind?
 
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