Sluthate is a good example of just how prevalent incel is. Guys over there are not some epitomes of reason, intelligence and good manners. Many resemble typical Western youth - completely ignorant, unreasonable morons. If guys like that can still be incel it shows how common this situation is. However, men like umad or that guy Omega seemed quite reasonable in some things.
I guess the main problem with all of manosphere is that they constantly confuse omegas with alphas and call betas omegas. They think that guys who use seduction are alphas. They're not. They're omegas. Men like Roosh are not alphas, but pathetic omegas. Actual alphas don't use seduction and would never need PUA.
Guys they believe are omegas (shy, virginal, nerdy men) are actually betas.
There seems to be no way to convince them otherwise and show them they're wrong.
But I watched that guy Aurini's videos and he seems to get the difference and correctly says that women mostly fall for omegas today.