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[supdup]

Why is it always up to me to reach out to people when pretty much no one has ever reached out to me? I deserve it because i am a normal human being, i used to be even a kind person who went out of his way to please others. And after years of being misstreated people wonder why i am bitter?

I do not think it's true that anyone deserves anything just for being normal. That might be an unmet expectation that has a role in how you see yourself. I do empathize with your situation and I think it's horrible that people have mistreated you for no reason.

Do you have ideas on why you were mistreated when you were being a kind person?

 

[DrChristianTroy]

No? My friends girlfriend learned about the fact that i was posting on that site. She later told me that she knew and at first saw me in a bad light but was then shocked by just how normal i seem in person. So 2 people know that i post on SH, and i do not wish anyone else to learn about it as it would ruin my chances with bonding.

And this didn't set off any warning signals? Why post somewhere if you're ashamed of people finding out?

Before i dropped out of school i was used by many, at some points i even had quite a few friends but they would never hang out with me outside school. Other men called me ugly. I once reached out to someone and protected him just to be called ugly by him later and ditched.

Have you ever thought it's because you're a shitty friend? Or that you are shitty at making friends in general?

 

[sugoi-chan]

Before i dropped out of school i was used by many, at some points i even had quite a few friends but they would never hang out with me outside school. Other men called me ugly. I once reached out to someone and protected him just to be called ugly by him later and ditched.

Sounds like you've met some dickbag people. But again, that doesn't mean that everybody is this way. What kind of things did you do that you qualify as "kind"? Because one person's kindness is another person's creepiness.

 

[autisticdragonkin]

How should i improve my personality? And what is your advice on asking a girl out? Should a person always be 100% honest or should he hide some things to appear as a better person?

Go back to school and take something that you are passionate about, you will become more interesting even if you have less money

 

[supdup]

How should i improve my personality? And what is your advice on asking a girl out? Should a person always be 100% honest or should he hide some things to appear as a better person?

I've always been 100% honest with girls, but that's just a personal principle that I have. I do think there are situations where hiding somethings is advantageous, where that can lead to trouble is when they find out you never told them or you wait to long. Eventually, the truth always comes out.

Before i dropped out of school i was used by many, at some points i even had quite a few friends but they would never hang out with me outside school. Other men called me ugly. I once reached out to someone and protected him just to be called ugly by him later and ditched.

Another piece of advice, don't use the image of an entitled mass-murdering virgin as an avatar. It doesn't seem like you have much in common with that guy by what you've told us.

 

[ThonisSH]

I do not think it's true that anyone deserves anything just for being normal. That might be an unmet expectation that has a role in how you see yourself. I do empathize with your situation and I think it's horrible that people have mistreated you for no reason.

Do you have ideas on why you were mistreated when you were being a kind person?

Because i was weak, a perfect target, too forgiving and more. Most of them saw me as a nobody from the start so they did not give a fuck. When a person is everyone's bitch his kindness will be taken for granted. People get used to the fact that you will always please them and never get angry.

 

[Fareal]

How should i improve my personality? And what is your advice on asking a girl out? Should a person always be 100% honest or should he hide some things to appear as a better person?

Honest advice? Never, ever, ever mention or refer to or, fuck, even hint at this bullshit about 'incel' and 'sluthate' and 'Elliot Rodger' and 'the red pill' and all this crap. Or maxilla. Jesus fucking christ don't talk about maxilla, girls will think you are insane or leaning-disabled.

Talk about bands you like and movies you like or have recently seen. DO NOT TALK ABOUT RAPE. In fact, don't even think about rape.

Shower, shampoo hair, wear clean clothes, use deodorant, brush teeth, floss and use a strong mouthwash. Smile. Do not mention suicidal ideation. Do not be a fucking racist.

 

[ThonisSH]

And this didn't set off any warning signals? Why post somewhere if you're ashamed of people finding out?

Because it's addicting and because i feel like i am not the only one who feels rejected.

 

[sugoi-chan]

Honest advice? Never, ever, ever mention or refer to or, fuck, even hint at this bullshit about 'incel' and 'sluthate' and 'Elliot Rodger' and 'the red pill' and all this crap. Or maxilla. Jesus fucking christ don't talk about maxilla, girls will think you are insane or leaning-disabled.

Talk about bands you like and movies you like or have recently seen. DO NOT TALK ABOUT RAPE. In fact, don't even think about rape.

Shower, shampoo hair, wear clean clothes, use deodorant, brush teeth, floss and use a strong mouthwash. Smile. Do not mention suicidal ideation. Do not be a fucking racist.

Otherwise known as "basic social skills", aka, the ones @ThonisSH says he's an expert at.

 

[Le Bateleur]

How should i improve my personality? And what is your advice on asking a girl out? Should a person always be 100% honest or should he hide some things to appear as a better person?

There's a balance between honesty and presenting yourself in a good light. It's natural to put the best version of yourself on display, but don't do anything which could be misleading if you end up spending more time together later on - like claiming to have skills that you don't.

As for asking a girl out, I honestly find that it's easier to just make friends with some girls first, with no expectation that it will necessarily lead to dating. Having girls as friends will make you more relaxed and confident talking to women - and ultimately in any long-term romantic relationship you'll want to be friends as well as lovers.

 

[supdup]

Because i was weak, a perfect target, too forgiving and more. Most of them saw me as a nobody from the start so they did not give a fuck. When a person is everyone's bitch his kindness will be taken for granted. People get used to the fact that you will always please them and never get angry.

We did you rate my post "dislike" for just answering your question honestly?

If you can't tell, I'm giving you the benefit of the doubt and not stereotyping you and just assuming you're the same as the other SH'rs.

 

[ThonisSH]

Honest advice? Never, ever, ever mention or refer to or, fuck, even hint at this bullshit about 'incel' and 'sluthate' and 'Elliot Rodger' and 'the red pill' and all this crap. Or maxilla. Jesus fucking christ don't talk about maxilla, girls will think you are insane or leaning-disabled.

Talk about bands you like and movies you like or have recently seen. DO NOT TALK ABOUT RAPE. In fact, don't even think about rape.

Shower, shampoo hair, wear clean clothes, use deodorant, brush teeth, floss and use a strong mouthwash. Smile. Do not mention suicidal ideation. Do not be a fucking racist.

I already do all of that. How else would i pass as a normal person in a social circle? I have a few friends now and i somewhat live a double life.

 

[sugoi-chan]

Because it's addicting and because i feel like i am not the only one who feels rejected.

You really are so pathetic that you need to seek comfort from a website where people are admitted pedophiles? Where they talk about wanting to enslave or exterminate 50% of the world? That's the kind of acceptance you need? Are you that broken as a human being?

 

[supdup]

Because i was weak, a perfect target, too forgiving and more. Most of them saw me as a nobody from the start so they did not give a fuck. When a person is everyone's bitch his kindness will be taken for granted. People get used to the fact that you will always please them and never get angry.

I wonder if that's something unique to your culture of where live. In my experience, people who are nice and helpful are almost always respected and treated well.

 

[DrChristianTroy]

Because it's addicting and because i feel like i am not the only one who feels rejected.

Are you fucking serious? It's a group of goofs that lack #SWAG and bitch about it to each other. That's addicting? Can't even get into actual drugs?

Oh and you feel rejected? You don't feel special? Hate to break it to you but that's how everyone feels at some point or another. That's called being human. You either man up and move forward or stay a wack ass loser.

 

[ThonisSH]

We did you rate my post "dislike" for just answering your question honestly?

If you can't tell, I'm giving you the benefit of the doubt and not stereotyping you and just assuming you're the same as the other SH'rs.

My bad, i am on mobile and i pressed the wrong thing by accident. Both my right shoulder and hand are killing me so i am quite shaky right now.

 

[supdup]

Oh and you feel rejected? You don't feel special? Hate to break it to you but that's how everyone feels at some point or another. That's called being human. You either man up and move forward or stay a wack ass loser.

This. Rejection is a part of life. It's how you handle it and move forward that makes the difference.

 

[Fareal]

I already do all of that. How else would i pass as a normal person in a social circle? I have a few friends now and i somewhat live a double life.

Hard truth: you're not passing that well for 'normal' if you're out every Friday night, as you said earlier, and you can't get any girls interested at all. You are giving off some kind of a vibe that girls are reading as "AVOID". You have close friends who go out with you? Ask them to be honest with you and really level about what you are doing that is coming off as awkward or unapproachable. They know you well and will be able to tell you what the problem is.

 

[supdup]

My bad, i am on mobile and i pressed the wrong thing by accident. Both my right shoulder and hand are killing me so i am quite shaky right now.

Fair enough, I hate posting from a mobile phone too. Thanks for clarifying.

 

[ThonisSH]

You really are so pathetic that you need to seek comfort from a website where people are admitted pedophiles? Where they talk about wanting to enslave or exterminate 50% of the world? That's the kind of acceptance you need? Are you that broken as a human being?

Yes i am pathetic. Are you some kind of dominatrixx you strike me as one. Har har

Hard truth: you're not passing that well for 'normal' if you're out every Friday night, as you said earlier, and you can't get any girls interested at all. You are giving off some kind of a vibe that girls are reading as "AVOID". You have close friends who go out with you? Ask them to be honest with you and really level about what you are doing that is coming off as awkward or unapproachable. They know you well and will be able to tell you what the problem is.

I have only been going out for a month dude/lady. Before that i had a period where i had 0 friends and even before that i had fake friends who never invited me anywhere.