Just wandering though when the thread title caught my eye...
Christ-Chan, I know I haven't really spoken to you directly, if ever, so I realize my words, which pretty much echo everyone else here, probably don't mean a helluva lot. But all the same, I really don't even pay attention to anyone's gender around here because it really doesn't make a single difference to me. Hell, I didn't even realize Hunger Mythos was a Corgi until I was invited into a chat. That is truly how willfully ignorant I am about a person's gender (as well as race, creed, etc.)
Why? Because I'm only concerned about a person for their personality. Just so long as you aren't talking about eating live babies or blowing up shopping malls or something, I really don't mind any which way. Just be happy with yourself and anyone who wants to be an asshole because of your gender, race, sexual preference or whatever - they can go fuck themselves.