STRUGGLES BEING ME | PART 1

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"Needing an expensive scale. Because I'm so much bigger, I can't just go into Walmart or Tjmaxx and be like 'I need to buy me a scale'. No! Because most of those only go to like 260lbs. Some of them go like to 300 and something. That's pathetic!

Oh that's pathetic? Does she actually realize that humans aren't meant to weigh more than fridges and adult female grizzly bears.

The mental image of Amber camping is priceless :story: Amber sitting on a rock wrapped up in her dingy pink sheet screaming "Babbbyyyyyyy I'm huunggrryyy! Where's the nearest Walmart?"

"Going out to eat and to movies is the only thing I can do now." Maybe it's time to rethink your life if going to stuff your maw is pretty much the only thing you can do in life.

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JanglyLoudThing said:
"Needing an expensive scale. Because I'm so much bigger, I can't just go into Walmart or Tjmaxx and be like 'I need to buy me a scale'. No! Because most of those only go to like 260lbs. Some of them go like to 300 and something. That's pathetic!
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Sure AL, it's pathetic that scales for your weight aren't readily available but it's not the scale manufacturers at fault here, you are the pathetic one for eating yourself to 530 pounds (I add 15 to whatever she admits.)
 
>claims she has more than one bra

Yeah, pic of them all laid out together or there's only one.
 
At her weight, I'd think that going out to eat would also be on the list of things she can't do.
 
She's totally going to die.
All because of food.
Holy fuck that's a whole insane level. These part videos are just sympathy support vids. She's garnering 'poor me feelings' and she may be pointing out all of these horrific things (happening to her via her own fault) and yet...she'll never change. She actually will not change. She'll never lose the weight and she'll die. I mean fuck like. She almost sounds, not proud, but really not ashamed. It's all very matter-of-fact meaning she's not even disturbed by these things anymore/never was.
AL you are genuinely going to die soon and no one will care, but most of all, you don't even care :story:
 
Golly said:
At her weight, I'd think that going out to eat would also be on the list of things she can't do.
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Binge monster is a powerful motivator. I'd like to see Becky use that to her advantage to get AL to do some chores, but that is merely wishful thinking.

I'm hoping to see them upgrade the bingemobile to a van with the back seats taken out just to get AL to her restaurants, before the bedbound saga begins.
 
ChubbyChaser said:
I'm not asking anyone to care, I know most normal people have jobs and families. AL's whole whoa is me attitude is what's killing me. Always being the victim and essentially saying the world needs to change to fit her.
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I bet you would fit in really well at GOMI (get off my internets), it's got more posts like yours and talks about people like amberlynn.
 
that confirms she definitely didn't stand in a shower for an hour during her bleeding incident. She said in another Q & A video she showers everyday like a normal person. It must be hard to take a shower period (no pun intended), have her arms up to wash her hair if she can't stand for more than a minute. As people have said, the bed bound era has begun.

ChubbyChaser said:
OMG I'm triggered lol, as a plus size woman I know it hurts to stand for long periods of time, hurts to walk a lot, etc. You deal with the pain, you can't deal, you lose weight. You want to find cuter clothes, lose weight. You want to go on a ride at Six Flags, lose weight. I'm only three minutes into her video and I keep pausing to comment lol. I've been plus sized my whole life, I never let my weight stop me from doing what I wanted to do. I hold down a full time job, do my own errands, grocery shop myself and take care of my toddler by myself!! She does none of those things. Her whole video is a load of crock. I know there are other youtubers that are bigger than her that manage to hold down full time jobs and still go out. Washing dishes, cleaning, mopping it's all chores that have to be done. Add to that a toddler that comes through and destroys everything you just cleaned up, you get to do it all over again. If you have animals, you have to look after them too, clean up after them, groom them, take care of them, etc. When I was pregnant I found out what real sciatic nerve pain was, now that's a b**** and it's so super painful and I couldn't bend my legs to put on my shoes at the end of my pregnancy. I'm betting money AL doesn't experience sciatic nerve pain. I know she's still a lot bigger than me, and yes it's harder to do things. But good Lord, just get up and move, walk more!! Don't ride a scooter at Walmart or the grocery store, go mini golfing, make yourself stand and walk more. Eventually it becomes easier. Swimming really helps your joints and makes you more flexible, I know that gross lake water was nasty; but geeze moving around in that for an hour is some exercise. This should be her wake up call; but we all know it won't be. I just want so much to believe in her and that she will change it's just so frustrating I know she won't. I know I'll get a bunch of hate for this, but go ahead.
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you should start a youtube channel then you'd make thousands a month and wouldn't have to bust your ass everyday like a normal person.

andywhorehol said:
Honest question, do you think this actually might bother her? enough to change? personally, I don't. she does not seem disturbed by all these handicaps..... it's very scary
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It is... like when does orange chicken and rice from the Cheesecake Factory become more important than walking. Soon she won't fit in the car to even walk around Walmart. Becky will have to get take out food.
 
I want her to admit the real stuff that we’ve been saying for a long time. Not repeat the most obvious stuff , like no shit it hurts to stand. You’re 520 pounds gorl! Her tone bugs me so much in this video, and her stupid half smirk. Seriously, what does she honestly have to be smug about?

Cmon AL, tell us the real struggles like how you can’t properly wipe your ass on your own. Or how you would need to be sprayed down in the backyard to wash properly but are too embarassed to ask anyone for help because you still want to keep the ounce of dignity you have left.
 
You know AL, some people have chronic illnesses that they cannot fix or get rid of no matter how hard they try. If you actually put in an attempt to better yourself (doctor, therapy, trainer etc) you could lose weight and be somewhat normal. This is why no one feels sorry for you, you could change, but you choose not to and make videos like this begging for ass-pats. You can't put in zero effort and expect results and sympathy.
 
Struggles being me.

Not struggles of being fat, or any other word used to describe her weight/size. Amber struggles being herself, because to Amber being herself means being fat. That is her whole identity. The reason she always looks smug and proud every time she gains or doesn't follow a diet, is because she's being true to herself and remaining fat.

The list she provided isn't even a list of struggles, it's basically "things Amber can't do because fat".

So, there you go folks. The answer to will she ever lose weight is no, because if she did, she'd lose the only identity she has.

When I first started reading this thread I was amused by how ignorant and obtuse Amber is. It was funny seeing her do the same things over and over again, learning absolutely nothing in the process and always gaining in the end.
I thought she didn't have the mental wherewithal to truly understand why her cartoon-level plans always backfired. After today's video, I'm leaning towards her being cleverer than I gave her credit. She found a profitable niche on an over-saturated market, and has, for the last 5 years, pretended to be a fat chick wanting to lose weight.

Congrats, Amber. You trolled me good, and you'll keep on trolling me right into your early death. It must feel great. Well...aside from all the pains and limitations that your 550+lb body gives you.
 
ChubbyChaser said:
I'm not asking anyone to care, I know most normal people have jobs and families. AL's whole whoa is me attitude is what's killing me. Always being the victim and essentially saying the world needs to change to fit her.
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The phrase is “woe” is me. I’ll be nice-the reason you are getting negative responses is because if you have to say you have the same problem as a cow, but you do it better, it’s more pathetic than actually being the cow. If you have to announce you are better than a cow, you aren’t.

Anyway, so Amber said it hurts to be fat, she can’t walk, and costs her more. Things that we all knew without needing to be told.

So did she completely lie about spending an hour in the shower, or just lie about the standing part? Does she have one of those sit down shower seats? That’s what I hope for in upcoming videos-the major accommodations she has to make, like TP on a stick or shower seats or reinforced toilets or having to sleep upright because she won’t go get a Pap machine. But if she thinks that it hurts to stand is embarrassing, no way.

It’d be too deep for her the wonder, since she’s made her body immobile, why she says all she can do is “eat out.” I’m pretty sure a mentally healthy person doesn’t say “I can’t do anything, so let’s eat out for the third time today.” It’d be interesting if she talked about how exhausting it is to be focused on food all the time and what scares her about not eating every minute of every day.

But I bet it’s more small stuff about aches and pain and clothes
 
Her implimenting there’s nothing she can do about her issues or it is out of her control is like a child blaming their imaginary friend of something bad they did. I really see no difference here. Both know it’s not true but stick to their own ’truth’.

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If she can do it, how is it possible that Amber cant? They look about the same size.
 
Barbarella said:
It’d be too deep for her the wonder, since she’s made her body immobile, why she says all she can do is “eat out.” I’m pretty sure a mentally healthy person doesn’t say “I can’t do anything, so let’s eat out for the third time today.”
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It's because she would have to wait for awhile, be bored, develop patience. Instead of finding something else meaningful she just does the same shit over and over.

Synthwave said:
If she can do it, how is it possible that Amber cant? They look about the same size.
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They are two different people with different genes and health histories. It's not really possible to extrapolate like that with the super obese based on size alone.
 
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