To quote a man, "Babies are the result of sex in the same way death is a result of stabbing. Yes, you can try to stab someone in a way which will not kill them, but if they die anyway despite your precautions, you're still morally responsible for killing them. You chose to do something that often results in the creation of a human being that cannot live without you, you bear the moral consequences of that act."
That said, all this "bodily autonomy" and "personhood" bullshit is pure fabricated copium designed to obscure as much as possible the simple fact that intentionally aborting a child (killing them) is murder, the murder of a human being that you're responsible for causing simply because you just didn't feel like being a mother. There is no moral difference between vacuuming your fetus out of your cunt after having the doc puree it for you or throwing your newborn in the dumpster, the reasons and end result in each case are still one and the same.