an austisic update for those who care. turns out open-vm-tools is provided in t/2, but in a weird way.
the packages are compiled then installed ala gentoo but you have to download their sources first via the command
Bash:
svn co https://svn.exactcode.de/t2/trunk /usr/src/t2-src
after that you can cd into the folder and issue the command
Bash:
scripts/Emerge-Pkg $PACKAGE
with $PACKAGE as the packages you want.
the documentation says nothing about this, instead i found this in a random knowledge base article called "#8 Getting started w/ a fresh T2 install".
you can't blame for for missing it, most would look in the documentation for how to do it.
since i didn't know this, i instead tried manually compiling and installing the packages themselves, which lead to my issue.
live and learn i guess.
i also ran into a problem where vmtoolsd wasn't started up by sysvinit automatically.
i ended up manually adding it to the inittab file as a tempory solution but it's hacky and probably isn't meant to be done this way.
i have also yet to get vmware-user to work correctly, fuse3 does seem to start up but vmware-user can't access /proc/vmsomething (can't remember right now) so copy and paste between host and vm doesn't work.
can't be arse to solve it, vmeare-user usually doesn't work any distro that isn't popular so I'm not gonna bother fixing it.
i may or may not do a third autisic update, depends on what else happens.