The Tomboy Question(s)

Johnny Salami said:
Unfortunately every girl I've met like this is a lesbo and makes me sad.
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Just find one that had a very bad breakup with her girlfriend and she'll be down. Go ahead call me degenerate, but the venn diagram of women that I'm attracted to includes tomboys. And you can't just give her the ol 1-2, you have to blow her mind to the point "She likes dick now" otherwise she'll go back to her girlfriend. Also, you gotta be prepared to throw a bitch. Never hit them. Push them. Pick them up. Restrain them. NEVER HIT HER EX. Even if she wants to fight like a man, it's still a woman.

When I think about it. I don't think I've dated a single girl that wasn't a lesbian before I met her.
 
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Starved Artist said:
When I think about it. I don't think I've dated a single girl that wasn't a lesbian before I met her.
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I was about to ask how actually dating them was different to straight girls but you are too successful in your niche.
Was it difficult for them to reconcile their lifelong identity with dating a man?
 
SIMIΔN said:
Was it difficult for them to reconcile their lifelong identity with dating a man?
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You will never hear the end of it from their friends and family and that will strain their family relationship.
Expect to hear " Guess you weren't that gay" from fathers and brothers or flirtations from aunts/sisters who think you have a magic dyke-fixing dick.
 
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Johnny Salami said:
My reason for liking tomboys is because is find short hair attractive on girls, and for some reason I like androgynous looking girls.
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Personality wise, every tomboy I knew was more upfront about issues and whenever there was something wrong they'd actually say it instead of being passive aggressive about it. That gets rid of dealing with the dumbest shit regarding w*man, where they expect you to be a mind reader.

Hobbies wise, I like going to the gym and would prefer a partner that does the same. But even most fitness girls just hit and and legs 3 days a week which is is nice but I like a well developed back on a girl as well as nice shoulders

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Unfortunately every girl I've met like this is a lesbo and makes me sad.
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...I think you might be slightly gay.

Jokes aside it is a shame how most men will never meet their true loves and just get with the first non revolting woman which says yes. We have no agency over one of the most important elements in our lives. How does one attain a genuinely interesting woman?
 
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The only tomboy I ever knew turned super BPD and did some insane shit. First time I saw her after middle school was in a shirtless pic she uploaded unto instagram or something after highschool on another dudes phone. She's allegedly dating an MtF who joined the navy.
I'm half convinced this trope is like 90% fiction. Honestly there was a poster on the first page of the thread that really hit the nail on the head, a lot of the charm comes from this genre of fictional woman being romantically inexperienced and thus appearing more shy and cute in media. I'm not saying there aren't women who aren't romantically inexperienced anymore but BP posters seem to think that virgin women are basically a myth outside of deathfats or something.
 
The idea of a 'Tomboy' as you probably think of it is a contemporary fetish being pushed on social media. Sluts and whores pushing their own brand of sluttiness and whoring. However, In reality tomboys are simply just-- shocker-- regular women. Tomboys have been around since the beginning of time. Girls that like boyish things, which are boyish to begin with because men tended to gravitate towards those things more than women. People like what they like. Some women like to play video games, or work on cars, sports, etc. Riveting, I know. If a woman who shares these types of hobbies sounds attractive to you then you want a tomboy. Trying to liken that to homosexuality is one of the most insecure things I've ever heard lmao
Of course, there is also a supply and demand problem now with transgenderism viciously stomping out anything outside of the status quo by grooming tomboyish women into destroying themselves. A problem I have personal experience with.
 
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Inco G. Nito said:
The idea of a 'Tomboy' as you probably think of it is a contemporary fetish being pushed on social media. Sluts and whores pushing their own brand of sluttiness and whoring. However, In reality tomboys are simply just-- shocker-- regular women. Tomboys have been around since the beginning of time. Girls that like boyish things, which are boyish to begin with because men tended to gravitate towards those things more than women. People like what they like. Some women like to play video games, or work on cars, sports, etc. Riveting, I know. If a woman who shares these types of hobbies sounds attractive to you then you want a tomboy. Trying to liken that to homosexuality is one of the most insecure things I've ever heard lmao
Of course, there is also a supply and demand problem now with transgenderism viciously stomping out anything outside of the status quo by grooming tomboyish women into destroying themselves. A problem I have personal experience with.
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The standards for being a "tomboy" are so hard to measure lol, especially considering how more acceptable many things have become for women nowadays vs back in the 50s or 60s when that term would've first entered common use.

Working out, following sports, going on hikes, or even wearing trousers are things 99% of women do (at least in the US), and no one gives a shit. They're just women. It's the 1% that doesn't do any of these things that end up being eccentric: often religious fundies (and I feel like a lot of troons, e.g. Zooey, would fall into that category... except they will never be women lol). Yet go back in time to the 1950s or so, and it would've been a much different story.

Nowadays to be a "tomboy" (at least according to 4chan), you have to have short hair, a deep voice, a flat (or bound) chest, high height, and basically pass as a boy or man to everyone outside your social circle. Unless your boyfriend feminizes you, which I'm sure is an integral part of the appeal. Basically a pooner, or at least pooners' idealistic "transition goals", minus the HRT.
 
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Another unfortunate thing to keep in mind is that many girls that would have been considered "tomboys" in the past might also be encouraged to poon out by their parents or in school. Now that everybody has grown hyperaware of the "trans" movement many parents now might think that their kids might be "trans" for not displaying stereotypical girl or boy interests and encourage them to go down the trans path as that is what they think they should encourage their kids to do to make them "happy". I am not sure who the most iconic pooner teenager is to name it after, but so many young girls are getting the "Jazz Jennings" treatment and having themselves carved up in their early teens.

I am not sure what can be done to reverse this trend, as any space you would go to meet "tomboys" in the past has a high chance that any of the girls there are likely to be enbies or pooners. Plus, any self-proclaimed "tomboy" at this point has a very high risk of eventually pooning-out on you because of how susceptible they are to the pooner mind-virus.

I just do not know how you would be able to screen out potential pooners from tomboys with the way things are, now.
 
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Hepativore said:
Another unfortunate thing to keep in mind is that many girls that would have been considered "tomboys" in the past might also be encouraged to poon out by their parents or in school. Now that everybody has grown hyperaware of the "trans" movement many parents now might think that their kids might be "trans" for not displaying stereotypical girl or boy interests and encourage them to go down the trans path as that is what they think they should encourage their kids to do to make them "happy".
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So I kinda disagree, and think the criteria for being a "tomboy" that's shifting as much as the criteria for being "trans". Like I said, many girls who would've been "tomboys" in previous eras would now just be regular girls. The term itself isn't considered as acceptable nowadays, with the criteria for being "tomboys" now being pushed into territory deemed "pooner" but should really be rightfully designated "butch lesbian".
Hepativore said:
I am not sure who the most iconic pooner teenager is to name it after, but so many young girls are getting the "Jazz Jennings" treatment and having themselves carved up in their early teens.
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Kovu Kingsrod (née Krissy)?
Hepativore said:
I am not sure what can be done to reverse this trend, as any space you would go to meet "tomboys" in the past has a high chance that any of the girls there are likely to be enbies or pooners. Plus, any self-proclaimed "tomboy" at this point has a very high risk of eventually pooning-out on you because of how susceptible they are to the pooner mind-virus.

I just do not know how you would be able to screen out potential pooners from tomboys with the way things are, now.
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Idealistic answer: ban feminine clothes entirely, and make everyone wear pants. Xi Jinping had the right idea when he made students in China wear tracksuits. Keep men's and women's sizes, of course, but none of the clothing should look gay.

Realistic answer: get out of the city, get up to the mountains, and get down to the countryside. Country girls everywhere. (Exhibit A: Hannah "American-women-are-literally-men" Barron.)

(Brett Cooper may also qualify, but IDK if Nashville, Tennessee counts as either "the mountains" or "the countryside".)
 
The word tomboy itself is a luxury likely only English speakers have. Some other languages only have slurs for that. So you might not like it, but at least it's not a word with negative connotation (afaik). If you were one in 90's or any time before lgbt and modern sporty fashion (as for 2024) was a thing, well, you weren't a tomboy, butch, nonconforming, neutral and shit, no, you were a fucking hermaphrodite, ''broad-guy'' or something like that. Even the 90's werent THAT noncomforming as people sometimes think, at least not in the former Eastern bloc.
Being a kid tomboy sort of sucks especially if you happen to be bad at collective sports and don't have the money to look stylish, being a full grown thomasman who has money and is not around those brats anymore is much better.
 
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