Most of the shit these people want 'normalized' is typically very much normal, albeit undesirable behavior
It's nothing strange or indicative of mental illness, but rather indicative of assholishness, just plain unpleasant or unlikeable. Nothing really stops them from doing it, but they need it normalized because they're incapable of doing anything that isn't approved of by the collective
They're normalfags who can't just silently conform, but also aren't insane or rebellious enough to go their own way and do things without caring who's looking- they want the "best" of both worlds, the affirmation of conforming with the freedom to do as they please, without working for either
I have a theory that most of these women used to be the kinda people who mocked, hated or bullied the autistic and mentally handicapped when they were younger, and now that doing that isn't cool anymore, and these mental disorders are trendy, they wanna jump in and get the sweet sweet attention without actually being forced to respect or share the pie with those same undesirable folk
So they alienate them, portray mental illness as something cutesy that any girly can have if she's just quirky enough, while actual autists and retards are just "creepy" and "icky", that way these girls get special treatment, are treated like saints, but never have to interact with or allot that same treatment to the- *gag* -weirdos they still hold disdain towards
