The troon seething since TDOV has been nonstop on Reddit, so I have a mighty haul for all of you to enjoy, with much of it in particular about girls being insecure about lacking an obvious dick outline in their pants and men ruining years-long marriages all to be sexually degraded by men of African descent!
Whoreder: a man who built his entire concept of womanhood on gadgets and gizmos and whozits and whatzits is devastated when his conservative family puts all of his junk - including objects he describes as "personal toys" - right where it belongs: in the trash. I can only imagine it was like digging through a hoarder house, but instead of lots of dead cats in the freezer you find catgirl hentai - well, I suppose depending on the troon, the catgirls may still be dead.
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I’m in absolute shock right now and I just need some support or kind words, because I have no one in real life I can talk to about this. I live with my conservative parents, and today, my absolute worst nightmare happened.
They found my stash.
They threw absolutely everything away. Every single thing. My skirts, dresses, crop tops, all my lingerie, my makeup, my epilator, and my personal toys. Everything is sitting in the garbage.
For years, I struggled with the internal "purge cycle" out of shame, but I had finally stopped. I was finally accepting myself, building my wardrobe, and finding some actual emotional stability.
Those weren't just objects or clothes to me; they were my lifeline. They were the only things that made me feel like the woman I actually am when the door was closed.
Now, my entire identity has been thrown in the trash. I feel so violently violated, exposed, and completely empty. It took me so much time, money, and emotional energy to gather those things in secret.
I feel physically sick.
Has anyone else survived this kind of forced purge from their family? How do you even wake up the next day, walk out of your room, and look them in the eye? I just really need to know I'm not alone right now because I feel completely broken.
A BPD pooner - suffering from borderline poonsonality disorder, if you will - leaves a bad impression on her psychiatrist when she admits to an episode of binge drinking and self-abuse, inclining him to believe that there's no point in trying to treat the BPD so long as she takes the testosterone. Rather than thinking a psychiatric professional may have a point in that taking angry manjuice and also having a condition where you endure volatile moodswings could spell disaster, OP complains on Reddit about the injustice of it all.
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Basically,
my psychiatrist told me he wasn't going to give me medication for my BPD even though it got so out of control that I started self-harming and drinking(I warned him a few sessions before that I was having recurring thoughts and he ignored me, leading me to selfharming and drinking for the first time in my life, as an adult)
because he said that my bpd rage issues was T's fault and that if I wanted to stop feeling like that I should get out of T, he thought there was no point in medicating me if testosterone was the cause of how I felt
After hiding his nasty little secret from his wife for nearly a decade, a prototroon is desperate to scurry back into the closet when Wifey says outright that she'll leave him and it's only a matter of time before he troons out. While OP says he's willing to have the secret "go to the grave" with him as
they have kids together, I have a feeling he's trying to frog boil her further into accepting his licentious intentions given that
his Reddit profile is dedicated to sexting strangers online as a self-described "thicc ass booty femboy" who
loves sissification comics and also identifies himself as a "
snow bunny," which is a derogatory term for a white woman who engages in sex with black men.
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It went about as horrible as expected. Said she can’t be with anyone that’s feminine that she only likes masc men. She was supportive and saying I can do that but
there’s no way that we would keep our family together. She says she thinks I will never truly be happy and that one day I’ll wake up and it will be to unbearable and I’ll leave her. The only thing in my life that I know for sure is that I love her and my family. She loves me so she is worried about me but
I’ve hid this secret for damn near 10 years and I guess it’ll go the grave with me
Says she thinks it deeper than what I’m telling her and that it’s okay she just can’t personally be with me. That would split my family and that’s last thing I want to ever happen. Any advice?
Here's another story about a different tranny that set his decade-plus marriage on fire all for the sake of the coom, but if the first one seemed like Mrs. OP was a bit soft in her touch, at least know that in this poster's situation his wife called him selfish, gross and she refused to even let him share their bed anymore afterwards! But though OP claims he finds his wife's feelings valid on some level, you can just smell the strong stench of seethe wafting off these posts because you can just
tell he was banking on her being a handmaiden instead of heading for the highway.
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26 MTF here. Posted here about my egg crack not long ago.
As the title says, I came out to my fiance who I've been with for 11 years, engaged for 2, and it did not go well whatsoever. I thought she wasn't transphobic but
the things she said and her reaction was very hurtful. She told me it was selfish, that I was ruining her life, that all I care about is me and putting this above her shows it. She called me weird, gross, said it made her uncomfortable to be around me. She said our relationship is likely over, regardless of if I decide to go ahead with transition or not. She said she wants a masculine guy and
she wouldn't be able to date someone "fruity" which frankly is annoying because just because I feel like my identity lines up with being female, doesn't mean I want to dress super girly or act girly? I guess in my research since my egg crack I've really broken down how I think of gender, and I can't blame her because I used to think the same as her until I had my egg crack. Anyway
I told her because I needed to get this out of my head and actually talk it out with someone, I told her because I wanted to be vulnerable and honest with my partner of 11 years who is the most important person in my life. I thought she'd be more understanding, maybe shocked still, but understanding. Instead
she now thinks I'm a freak and won't ever look at me the same way again. She didn't let me sleep on our bed last night, wouldn't let me near her, and even went as far as to get things ready for moving out. I felt so numb and overwhelmed by this reaction, I wanted to cry but I also immediately shut down internally and felt nothing. I laid on the couch staring at the ceiling until I fell asleep. I don't know what to do. I don't know if I did something wrong.
Clearly my emotions mean something if they felt strong enough to tell her. But was it worth it? I don't absolutely hate being a man , Infact I could probably live the rest of my life this way and be relatively happy. But you can't uncrack an egg. I tried to smother these feelings. It doesn't work anymore. If I did repress, it wouldn't be as easy as before. I know as I get older I'd regret never trying to go for it. And at the end of the day, sure I'm okay as a man, but I WANT to explore these feelings. Ive learned there isn't anything wrong with that. I've learned I absolutely do not see gender like a cis person and I don't particularly like the limits society tries to keep us within.
And I feel absolutely awful because telling her kind of felt like making these feelings real for me, and the relief of that is kind of outweighing any grief of potentially losing her. Sure it's still painful, but
the fact that she immediately was disgusted and pushed me away kind of upset me enough that I don't care. I don't know. I'm feeling a massive amount of emotions right now and just need to vent about it. Love you guys
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Hey everyone, just updating based on my last post about coming out to my fiance. Despite everything that happened, I feel a great sense of relief. It's nice to not hide my thoughts from the person who I thought was closest to me.
She has since apologized for reacting the way she did, but is still incredibly resentful. She tells me I ruined her life, that I lead her on our whole relationship, and lied to her for the whole 11 years. She has admitted as well she has no qualms about me personally for being trans, but is incredibly mad about the situation.
She keeps reiterating how embarrassing it is that she's gonna have to leave me and tell people it's because I'm trans. She also simply says
she can't be with me because she doesn't find trans women attractive for very superficial reasons that imo are reflective of internalized transphobia rather than her real feelings. I understand that this can be legitimate, and that's totally fair if her attraction doesn't align with who I am. But I cannot get past that it seems she just doesn't wanna think about it. She tells me she hates me, still won't let me sleep in the bed, and wants nothing to do with me. All in all,
she will at least talk to me about things, but is incredibly upset and seems unable to separate her frustration on the situation from me as a person. She seems pretty set she's done with the relationship and would consider being friends in the future after some time away.
Anyways, the main point of the post isnt to rehash everything I wrote in my last post and type out her reaction again.
The point is, she seems to hold out that maybe I'll decide against this, and if I do she may consider staying. This in and of itself is problematic for me because during the day, the evenings, any time I have to myself, I am certain I want to start HRT, begin socially transitioning, and start taking steps towards embracing transitioning. I've started referring to myself internally as a woman, my self image has become feminine, my internal voice, I've dropped any focus on performing my AGAB and as a result my mental health has improved tenfold. Then, when I get home to her, I feel pressured. I feel pressure to fold, to hide my emotions because I feel objectively it is wrong for some reason to put identity above a relationship.
She makes me feel shallow for doing so. It makes me feel like I've made a mistake even telling her, that these feelings are wrong and I should have never let it get this far. I don't know if it's internalized transphobia myself or what,
but in these moments I question if it's worth it at all. I do really love her. Our relationship means the world to me, and seeing her flip a switch so easily at me coming out to her is absolutely soul crushing. But at the same time kind of bittersweet because it's like the relief of being aware and open about myself almost outweighs it.
Basically, it's like I am certain and feel very strongly about it, but my relationship makes me doubt it and wonder if it is worth the cost (losing my fiance).
I can't help but to feel as I mentioned, shallow, at the thought of dropping everything to embrace myself. I don't know anymore. I know I resonate strongly with this and I really would prefer being a woman, and always have, and I know I can't uncrack my egg and repression never works. But
the thought of throwing away 11 years of a near perfect relationship for this? I don't know. I know it seems she is an asshole but I will say with a fact that she is the kindest person I ever met. She would never react this way to anyone else, and her anger has to do with shock, and feeling like her life is being changed overnight and frankly although I think she's been a little extreme at times, I think
her feelings are valid in her scenario. But they don't invalidate my feelings, and I can't seem to find a way to reconcile all this in my head. Is my identity that important? Is the cost worth it? I know I can't hide myself anymore. I know I feel like a woman and want to present that way. I just wish I didn't have to choose. I know I am trans, but the whole situation makes me question transitioning.
Any input is appreciated, DMs are open. Once again, thanks to everyone for their input up until now, it's been a fantastic help
And since "idiot loses entire family and livelihood over chasing the skirtgospinny dragon but the call of perversion is too strong for him to resist" is one of my favorite genres of Ls, have yet
another helping for your plate, where this guy is also a bit dishonest about the true nature of his transition to his family as OP
aspires to be a German sugar baby. At this point, a sack of hammers provided under Pickle's Law should be a standard gift for any married couple.
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I'm 29 years old and came out to my family a while ago.
It didn't go well. They reacted as badly as possible.
If I don't go back in the clauset, my family will take away the company I've worked on for the last 10 years. They would also disown me, which means something in my case.
My wife would also leave me with our year old daughter, because she can't take it anymore and she said she's simply not attracted to women.
My sister said she would also move away, so her son doesn't see me anymore.
I'm so lost. I don't know anymore.
If I wasn't religious, I seriously would have already k****d myself...
I mentioned it once and they told me to man up.
I don't know what to do. I'm seriously considering, just going back in the clauset, going on anti-depressants and hope my life isn't too long....
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Sorry for not getting back to everyone yet. I'm still processing it currently, and reading all your replies. Will get back to everyone once ei got myself together a bit...
Perpetual victims that they are, troons 'n' poons now fear that the worst has come to pass: they are ideologically unpopular, reputationally toxic and, worst of all, just kind of kill a chill vibe in any room they make their way into. OP here in particular seems especially offended with the fact that Nancy Mace was not turned into a mist of blood for spewing slurs at his kind, but alas, no monarch's stronghold on a society lasts forever, so the rest of us are eager to get back to a world where you don't have to hear about "pregnant people," which really feels like the kind of terminology evil flesh-eating aliens would use when infiltrating our planet.
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It’s going to be a long road back to the level of rights held in the late 2010s when awareness on the right was low and activism on the left was high.
I just don’t see the path forward for us as the right is able to appeal to “common sense” in a way that our touchy-feely humanities approach to gender and sex simply does not allow. Maybe I’m a transmed but
the “gender=\=sex” battle cry is ultimately what’s created the legal argument for our own demise in my opinion.
When we get caught in tongue twisters trying to explain our positions and end up shouting over one another, it just leaves the door open for an easy win for the right. It turns out Nancy Mace shouting “tr*nny tr*nny tr*nny you want penises in women’s bathrooms” just hits harder for the American public than anything we can cook up in response. “Well ackshually that’s an offensive slur” doesn’t exactly help our case either and just solidifies their perception of us.
I’m just so tired.
I should’ve been a cis girl.
In fact, that post makes for a great shot to go with this chaser in which a troon who is heavily involved with his local transgender community can hardly stand to remain in contact with them because, as he reports it,
TERFs are right and the majority of trannies are rapists. Funny how behind closed doors, they willfully admit the number of foxes beating down the doors to the hen house - is it really any wonder, then, why Ms. Mace might not play nice?
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SO MUCH RAPE !
I'm pretty active in my local trans community, conflict, mediation and restaurative justice included. It's just too much.
One week it's a trans woman threatening to hurt another while hallucinating
The other a transfem anarchist involved in assaulting a transmasc
Next another girl harassing her ex
We just welcomed an important trans activist from another city and the more we look into what she did the more likely it is that she groomed minors or very young adults.
Lastly an older trans woman just came to our support group, she wanted to transition since her ex came out as trans herself. Looking into some stuff it is very likely she violently raped this ex of her.
I just can't anymore...
TERFs are right.
Just let me be a man on estrogen at this point, I don't even want to associate with this community.
During a daring dance at a dick-sucking disco, a FTM gets groped by a guy who, upon noticing an absence of a baby-cannon in her genital arsenal, decides not to engage in the erotic warfare we call bumpin' uglies and leaves our hapless heroine in the lurch because of it. However, OP, a bitter little creature who calls herself a "pooncel" - yes, a portmanteau of pooner and incel commonly utilized by self-hating 4tranners - believes the next course of action isn't to stop tricking homosexuals but to merely evolve her strategy in doing so, thus proving both TiMs
and TiFs have a vested interest in deception. Yucktopia!
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was out dancing at a gay club and some gay guy started grinding on me / trying to kiss me. it was fun until he started trying to grind his ass on me and noticed he couldn't feel a penis. he turned around and then literally like felt up my crotch area, lightly squeezing my jeans to try to feel a dick. I felt a bit molested. obviously he didn't find one, got this look of shock in his face, and said he had to go to the bathroom and left lol.
im not super upset about this since he wasn't mean about it. rejection is an inherent part of the trans existence.
however I've realized I need to start packing. I've had situations like this in the past (gay dudes grinding on me) and felt extremely nervous about them realizing I don't have a dick but this is the first time someone actually clocked me. what's a good cheap packer? I've seen mr limpy recommended a lot.
Also, i know its considered tacky to say, but passing does have its downsides in certain contexts.
I hate knowing that 90% of the people that express sexual or romantic interest will not actually want me bc im trans. obviously though I like not dealing with harassment.
Speaking of prints not being caught, here's a tale of two different li'l doodz who consider the notion of clocking cock to be a form of sexual harassment and, not even joking,
discrimination against FTMs in particular that has allegedly already lead to some people being outed. So which is it, are your most pressing problems as a community all of the supposed tranny genocide camps popping up left right and center, the epidemic of tranny rape, or women glancing at your genitals to see if you're a grower or a shower?
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I’m not sure if this is the right place to post this, but
I’ve been seeing a lot of discourse lately about “catching print” and it’s been making me feel pretty uncomfortable.
For context, there was a TikTok creator (I think a queer creator who gives relationship advice) talking about how you can supposedly tell someone’s size from their print.
Since then, I’ve seen a lot of posts and comments (mostly from women) joking about it like “Now men know what it’s like to be sexualized for something they can’t control,” which I do understand on some level.
I want to be clear that I’m not trying to diminish women’s experiences at all. Misogyny and patriarchy are very real and deeply embedded into everyday life, and I’ve experienced that myself in the past. I understand where that frustration and those reactions are coming from.
But as a trans guy, this whole trend has honestly just made me more anxious about existing in public. It doesn’t feel like a “gotcha” or some kind of justice moment. It just feels like another way people’s bodies are being scrutinized and talked about without consent.
I’ve experienced misogyny before I transitioned and was presenting as female, so I really do get both sides of this. But this doesn’t feel like it’s addressing that in a meaningful way. It just feels like the same kind of discomfort being redirected.
I guess this is partly just a vent. I’m stealth IRL, so I don’t really have anyone I can talk to about this, and it’s been sitting weird with me. I’m also wondering if anyone else feels this way, or how you’re dealing with it.
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I’m so sick and tired of trends that harm trans people. This trend of normalizing sexual harassment to get back at men is insane and disgusting. If you are capable of sexually harassing people how does it make you better than the men you complain about.
This trend is very dangerous for trans men but nobody seems to care they just want to get back at cis men. I just don’t get it because they aren’t seeking out people who have a history of objectifying women they seek out strangers. Sexually harassing strangers is never ok. I hate how people say “now it’s a problem” well to non assholes it’s always been a problem even when it happens to women.
This is the second trend I’ve seen that objectifies men and while I’m sure there are trends that objectify women personally haven’t seen any but would have a problem with it regardless. I hate how I have to prove that I’m against women being harassed just so I can say sexual harassment against men is wrong. Women were the ones who said that men only bring up sexual harassment against men to downplay women’s experiences. But now there’s a whole trend encouraging sexual harassment? I can’t be the only one who feels this way.
Now I know i will never be able to go to the gym safely I was already scared to begin with and now it’s not a possibility.
What hurt me the most is this one creator on tiktok who reposted a video encouraging this. She’s called “facing the dark” and if you know anything about her it’s so out of character and it hurt a lot to see that. Defending sexual harassment against men and calling it revenge is absolutely pure evil.
Edit: I have since seen more TikTok’s bringing this trend up.
This is happening to minors guys. I know you don’t believe it’s actually happening but there’s quite a few saying it they can’t all be lying.
People have already been outed because of this. This should not be downplayed. A ton of trends happen on social media in real life especially when it involves other people more so looking at other people.
Finally, 100% Not-That-Bitch: a tranny learns that apparently he has
estrogen insensitivity syndrome, which would be extremely impressive as this condition is so rare that
there have been only a handful of total cases worldwide. While I suspect that the genetic testing kit was not as good as the genetic testing done by actual doctors, the concept that a tranny would luck into having Gigachad Bigballs Disease is also very amusing, so it makes for a perfect finale to another round of Ls.
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Despite being on hormones for over two years and doing everything right, I've had basically zero results from my "medical transition", aside from the results of having low T (typical downstairs stuff). After becoming fed up with this lack of anything, I bought a genetic testing kit back in January to investigate further causes.
I got the results back today where I saw that it was confirmed that estrogen is basically useless on me.
I lost everything because of trying to transition, just to find out I'll never actually be able to.
what do I even do