💬 Off-Topic Trans Widows - Because why wouldn't this thread exist?

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If you feel comfortable answering without PLing too much, were there signs that he would troon out? Anything that he said or did that might have clicked for you in hindsight? Did your mutuals side with one party over the other?
Well, I was in my late teens early 20’s so I was fucking dumb and naive.
Keep that in mind.

He was a closeted bisexual, I knew that from the start but it didn’t bother me.
I also knew he liked gay furry porn and even covered for him one time when it popped up on his PC and his friends saw it.
He was interested in sissification, at that time I was in a deviant crowd and accepted it as part of BDSM.
He enjoyed the trap threads on ye old 4chan,
He also started wearing women’s panties in public under his normal clothes and would get off on sending me pictures of him…..excited from the waist down in restrooms.
He also cheated on me with men he met on Craigslist.

So basically every single red flag that I ignored or didn’t see at that point.

Our friends all sided with me, but it wasn’t the troon stuff as much as he had a raging pill addiction and started stealing from everyone.
 
He’s a godawful ugly woman, and the jaw line that looked attractive on a man makes him look like The Crimson Chin as a lah-vly ladeee.

The best part is he’s the hairiest white man I’ve ever seen online or in person.
Full thick body hair EVERYWHERE from his jawline down.
Side note, its really, really embarrassing and sad when troons and poons come from physical apex versions of men and women. Not even saying hes THE most attractive man, maybe hes not, but he clearly doesn't LOOK like a pussy on the surface. I can almost understand when a 5 foot nothing stick figure man with barely any face or body hair wants to troon, or a beef stick woman with huge muscles and excess body hair poon, but the opposite is both pathetic and sad.


He also started wearing women’s panties in public under his normal clothes and would get off on sending me pictures of him…..excited from the waist down in restrooms.
So a case of AGPTS which also turns into HSTS? THAT'S sad, I'm very sorry for you. You did ignore some flags, but It came from a loving wife place sounds like, so I hesitate to blame you. I hope you can find a good man, always bugs me when someone gets a decent wife and just fucks them off like that.

If a woman is in that situation, assuming she wants to salvage that situation before it gets that bad, telling the guy it's unattractive and trying to guide him away from it (without a public blow-up if possible) as early as possible is probably best way to deal with it. A guy won't always care, but I believe guys can get pulled away from that path when addressed early enough. Its kinda like cancer, eventually it metastasizes.

Not blaming you, such a situation is so strange and difficult, I think most women aren't emotionally equipped. That's not a woman's fault unless it was actively encouraged, its just that bad of a scenario I wouldn't wish on any woman.
 
So a case of AGPTS which also turns into HSTS? THAT'S sad, I'm very sorry for you. You did ignore some flags, but It came from a loving wife place sounds like, so I hesitate to blame you. I hope you can find a good man, always bugs me when someone gets a decent wife and just fucks them off like that.
I truly don’t know if he’s bisexual or gay at this point, because he seems to enjoy women, but he enjoys dick more.

That was one of my first long term relationships and my first experience living away from my parents, so the whole thing felt strange and full of change anyways.
Also was not in a good place mentally which I’m sure made me more willing to put up with shit that I wouldn’t ever dream of putting up with now.

Thankfully I remarried after finding a normal straight good man, and we have children and a beautiful happy family.

As opposed to my first husband off gooning somewhere with other trannies and strange dick.
 
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