I truly believe the best way to explain the tranny shit is as the worst expression (so far) of groupthink.
If you're honest with yourself about it, identity politics, EVEN YOUR OWN, trends toward groupthink over time, and I struggle to see a single identity-based political movement in the USA that is free from groupthink at this time.
Do not let the interests of the leaders or funders or "influencers" of a group who claim to be representing you, or simply telling you what you should do or think, actually control your thinking and actions. Just because they look like you does not mean they have your interests in mind.
Indeed, having everyone attack everyone else isn't good for anyone but a certain class.