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4Macie said:
One of his question/answers was: "How important is it for your future partner to have been a virgin when you met?" And his response was 'very important" to the point that putting "not important" or even "slightly important" gave me a red answer (meaning he wouldn't accept it). Of douse, this is fucking stupid considering that the way OKCupid works is this. You answer your question, and then you put down what you'd accept. If Chris is only accepting "Very Important" or "important" for the answer; he's insinuating that his woman needs to want a virgin too... which he's not.

Of course, later he said he wanted a woman who was at least a little experienced, though he accepted all available answers and then also continued that by saying that he wanted his future woman to have a sex tape with someone else he could watch. So.. there's that for ya.
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I should point out that you can attach different levels of importance to questions. Hopefully Chris attached very little importance to hid desire to disappoint his future match with his non-virginity.

To defend Chris a little, I have been on OKCupid for a while and a lot of people make that mistake. You can sort by how important a question is to a person. Very often I will see questions like "Would you date someone with a kid/without a car/who lives with their parents/is a smoker?" with a no answer and high importance. I am pretty sure that most of the time the person meant that they would really not want to date that type of person, so they are trying to really emphasize their no answer. Instead, what they end up implying is that they really want their match to have the same restrictions they do about dating this type of person. I suppose this could happen, but I can't imagine that would be one of the most important factors to most people. Obviously the correct response would be to say "no" to this question, give it low importance, and then give high importance to a no answer in the corresponding "Do you have a kid?" type question, but a lot of people, not just Chris don't think it through carefully.

I am willing to say that what he meant to say is that he wants to date a virgin, and then meant to make that answer somewhat important. But even granting Chris that, he still answered "Very important" to the virginity question, which is fairly horrible. It is a pretty blatant example of his double standards, which apparently he is ok with putting out there publicly. It is bound to offend/drive away non-virgins, or even virgins who don't think it is his business or are offended by his double standard. I think we can all agree that whatever small chance Chris has at sex comes from a drunken encounter with a fairly "loose" woman. If a woman has decided to save herself for Mr. Right, Chris should probably keep walking.

One of the most amusing parts of this to me, is that Chris has a lot of answers which express openness to being with a lot of people. Not a bad strategy for a normal person, if you think something might be a deal-breaker, but are not sure, say it isn't and you can always leave the relationship if it turns out to be. But apparently virginity is crucial.

Chris is ok if you want to pee on him, but you better not have peed on anyone else.
 
Have made contact.
Receiving responses and such.
Absolutely no trolling plans, I'm just being friendly and that's how I intend to keep it.
Will share results when the conversation dries up, though.
 
Tootsie Bear said:
Awesome! Keep us up on the 411. How would you describe talking with Chris? Does he respond to you in a friendly matter?
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Hmm... I would say that he does attempt to keep up his end of the conversation (but only when it comes to topics he likes), but he's very... Dry. I can practically hear him stress sighing in each response.

Oh, and he claims to be desperate, but rejected me right off the bat because I'm a smoker. :D (He said he'd still be my friend, though. Yay?)
 
snakesvsplanes said:
Hmm... I would say that he does attempt to keep up his end of the conversation (but only when it comes to topics he likes), but he's very... Dry. I can practically hear him stress sighing in each response.

Oh, and he claims to be desperate, but rejected me right off the bat because I'm a smoker. :biggrin: (He said he'd still be my friend, though. Yay?)
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have you thought about cialis? :ween:
 
snakesvsplanes said:
Hmm... I would say that he does attempt to keep up his end of the conversation (but only when it comes to topics he likes), but he's very... Dry. I can practically hear him stress sighing in each response.

Oh, and he claims to be desperate, but rejected me right off the bat because I'm a smoker. :biggrin: (He said he'd still be my friend, though. Yay?)
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I would deny you too. Smoking is NASTY! No, just kidding! :p

I would imagine Chris doesn't know how to community. Only discussing what he likes, taking a while to reply back.
 
Tootsie Bear said:
I would deny you too. Smoking is NASTY! No, just kidding! :p

I would imagine Chris doesn't know how to community. Only discussing what he likes, taking a while to reply back.
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Actually, in terms of replying, he's not TOO slow. One time, he replied to me within five minutes! So there's that. :P
 
It's hard to believe that smoking would stop him if you showed interest in meeting him. I recall how Hambeast didn't really meet any of his requirements but he still managed to go on a date with her and ultimately bothered her by touching her shoulder or whatever.
 
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Overall, do you think that what you do (or plan to do) for a living makes the world a better or worse place?

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No impact.


I met a traveller from an antique land
Who said: "Two vast and trunkless legs of stone
Stand in the desert. Near them, on the sand,
Half sunk, a shattered visage lies, whose frown,
And wrinkled lip, and sneer of cold command,
Tell that its sculptor well those passions read
Which yet survive, stamped on these lifeless things,
The hand that mocked them and the heart that fed:
And on the pedestal these words appear:
'My name is Ozymandias, king of kings:
Look on my works, ye Mighty, and despair!'
Nothing beside remains. Round the decay
Of that colossal wreck, boundless and bare
The lone and level sands stretch far away."
 
I always thought Smoking was a big no no to him purely because all of the scare campaign ads about second hand smoke. His future Crystal shooter can do what she wants but if she thinks shes gonna mess with Chris's PERFECT HEALTH then she has another thing coming!
 
snakesvsplanes said:
Have made contact.
Receiving responses and such.
Absolutely no trolling plans, I'm just being friendly and that's how I intend to keep it.
Will share results when the conversation dries up, though.
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Do we really need to keep reinforcing Chris's paranoia?
 
Kosher Dill said:
Do we really need to keep reinforcing Chris's paranoia?
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*shrug* I'm not going to play a troll girlfriend or anything of the sort. I'm just asking questions about his hobbies. It's not like I'm asking for nudes or something. I'm sure that, compared to other things, this won't even be on his radar, honestly. He's just talking about Lego.
 
Kosher Dill said:
I dunno, I think he'd be better off if he didn't think everyone he talks to is a troll from the online zoo dedicated to him. Even though it's true.
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If that's true, then the only difference snakesvsplanes makes by talking about it here is just making it public that she's talking to Chris. Right? Plus more cwckiforum people talking to Chris means that the average person talking to Chris is less likely to be a ween, and therefore more likely to bring us interesting, amusing information from Chris.

snakesvsplanes said:
*shrug* I'm not going to play a troll girlfriend or anything of the sort. I'm just asking questions about his hobbies. It's not like I'm asking for nudes or something. I'm sure that, compared to other things, this won't even be on his radar, honestly. He's just talking about Lego.
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Don't let Chris talk about things in his comfort zone, because then he'll go on a long, boring spiel about it. (Like legos.) Ask about things just outside of his comfort zone.
 
asperhes said:
Overall, do you think that what you do (or plan to do) for a living makes the world a better or worse place?

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No impact.


I met a traveller from an antique land
Who said: "Two vast and trunkless legs of stone
Stand in the desert. Near them, on the sand,
Half sunk, a shattered visage lies, whose frown,
And wrinkled lip, and sneer of cold command,
Tell that its sculptor well those passions read
Which yet survive, stamped on these lifeless things,
The hand that mocked them and the heart that fed:
And on the pedestal these words appear:
'My name is Ozymandias, king of kings:
Look on my works, ye Mighty, and despair!'
Nothing beside remains. Round the decay
Of that colossal wreck, boundless and bare
The lone and level sands stretch far away."
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