I like being able to hold a job and not have to get married and rely on a partner. I like men not being pressured to marry either. I like having my own credit card and being in charge of my own money, and not having a man worry about the money I make. I like going to a doctor who is female and being able to talk about more private concerns with them. I like a lot of the freedoms men have. I like that rape accusations are taken more seriously and prosecuted more, but not the bitches using them for self gain or revenge of course (this has been going on since the before times, see to kill a mockingbird).
I want things better for men and I would love the school system to change to accommodate boys more, but one of the reasons it doesn't is because schools don't want to put extra effort in and go "shut up and learn or you get detention", which usually favors girls over boys. Part of that isn't sexism, it's straight up neglect because hyperactive girls get screwed by it too.
Another part is trade industry discouragement. Men do better or at least are more attracted to jobs like electrician, plumbing, etc., but all schools want a fuckin' college grad instead of a dude with a successful career. You don't find women competing for sewer tech and most powerplants are a sausagefest. Conversely, you don't find more men clamoring into child care.
You also have the increase in automation and shipping factory jobs overseas. Oh, and companies using illegal immigrants as slaves so they don't have to pay people over here well for tedious jobs like picking strawberries and packaging chicken.
Basically, I really don't like that society has failed men more and more with time. I think there's a way to sort things out more evenly for both genders without trying to kill someone else. I think I get why you dislike feminism the political part and I don't like the hardcore "subjugate men" either, and I sympathize with your job struggle, but I don't think equal rights was a mistake. My beef will always lie with money grubbing corporations trying to virtue signal or cut cost.