Weight loss support thread

I just started lifting like three weeks ago. I'm only able to do 14 pound squats at 204 pounds (5'7). I could maybe do 20 pounds, but I doubt it. Am I just that much more out of shape (very possible!) or is this all bullshit? The starting out at 60 pounds mostly, I mean rude people do exist. That part is possible, but not likely.
 
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I just started lifting like three weeks ago. I'm only able to do 14 pound squats at 204 pounds (5'7). I could maybe do 20 pounds, but I doubt it. Am I just that much more out of shape (very possible!) or is this all bullshit? The starting out at 60 pounds mostly, I mean rude people do exist. That part is possible, but not likely.
I don't care about how much someone squats, I only care about if they properly squat. But even then, I keep my judgement and comments to myself. Otherwise, there is no point.

The only acceptable time to be rude to someone at the gym is if they are using equipment that has no substitutes and are purposely taking a long time on it. Do your sets and move on. Don't be taking 30 fucking minutes to do 5 sets of 5
 
I'm only able to do 14 pound squats at 204 pounds (5'7). I could maybe do 20 pounds, but I doubt it. Am I just that much more out of shape (very possible!) or is this all bullshit?
That story is bullshit. But you're squatting your bodyweight as well so it's not "just" 14 pounds. The difference between your current weight and your goal weight is also being lifted.
 
I was actually thinking of signing up for a Muai Thai gym in town, but I didn't want to show up and wheeze like a fat ass. You think it would be benefical to show up there, and let that be the work out?
I started boxing lessons at a gym near me when I was 345 pounds. Not once did the instructor or anyone else taking the class give me crap about being a fatty. I just focused on doing my own combinations and drills, and I drenched the floor, bag, and anyone unfortunate enough to get too close while huffing and puffing like a freight train. 5 months later and 50 pounds lighter, I still do that because I can go faster and harder than before. Not once did anyone give me crap, even the people in my splash zone. Trust me, the only people nicer in the gym than martial artists are the macho bros. So in other words, why do you care what other people are doing when you should be focused on what YOU'RE doing?
 
I started boxing lessons at a gym near me when I was 345 pounds. Not once did the instructor or anyone else taking the class give me crap about being a fatty. I just focused on doing my own combinations and drills, and I drenched the floor, bag, and anyone unfortunate enough to get too close while huffing and puffing like a freight train. 5 months later and 50 pounds lighter, I still do that because I can go faster and harder than before. Not once did anyone give me crap, even the people in my splash zone. Trust me, the only people nicer in the gym than martial artists are the macho bros. So in other words, why do you care what other people are doing when you should be focused on what YOU'RE doing?
Fair and a good point.
 
Nobody ever factors in bodyweight to their squats. Although its not really your body weight, more of your upper body and core but still 🤷‍♂️

That's where all my excess weight is, so that's quite a bit of weight I'm squatting. I don't know why I didn't realize that, I already knew my leg muscles were pretty strong in some ways just from decades of carrying around so much mass all day. Not squatting, other than to sit down, but walking and other movements.

Kiwi Farms, so educational for an evil hate site.
 
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That's where all my excess weight is, so that's quite a bit of weight I'm squatting. I don't know why I didn't realize that, I already knew my leg muscles were pretty strong in some ways just from decades of carrying around so much mass all day. Not squatting, other than to sit down, but walking and other movements.

Kiwi Farms, so educational for an evil hate site.
I will say, just being heavy doesn't automatically make your legs strong. If you want to test your leg strength in other ways outside of just squats, I would recommend a leg press of some kind
 
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I will say, just being heavy doesn't automatically make your legs strong. If you want to test your leg strength in other ways outside of just squats, I would recommend a leg press of some kind
I don't have access to a gym right now. Can I do that at home?

I've been using stuff I bought on Amazon and YouTube/books to figure out what to do. I'm having surgery next month, so right now I'm just doing light stuff, but after I get cleared to exercise again I'm going to go harder and do more.
 
I don't have access to a gym right now. Can I do that at home?

I've been using stuff I bought on Amazon and YouTube/books to figure out what to do. I'm having surgery next month, so right now I'm just doing light stuff, but after I get cleared to exercise again I'm going to go harder and do more.
Oh if you don't have a gym then don't lol. You would either have to make something or buy it, both of which aren't worth it. I would just stick to doing the light stuff right now. Get the form right, build a base of muscle, and start getting in the routine of working out prior to your surgery. Then once you are cleared, you will have a good baseline to do whatever you want afterwards
 
I need to cut 15-20 lb in a hurry so I am gonna ‘snake diet’. I’ve done extended fasting before so it’s not my first rodeo but still- wish me luck folks.
 
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At the beginning of March I was feeling pretty great, on track to be able to switch to maintaining by mid-May.

I visit family once a month as I want my daughter to get to know and develop a relationship with them. I always move less (the road my folks live on us too dangerous with a pushchair) and eat more when I visit. It's not really a big deal as I don't want to cause other people to dance around my diet. I just return to low carb and exercise when I go home and it's never caused much issue.

Long story short, I visited for what was originally going to be for a week mid-March when my father died very unexpectedly and I've been here ever since. I've been supporting my mother and plan to return at the end of this month. It was quite a traumatic experience and I'm so, so glad my daughter is too young to have understood what was going on.

I'm not a bad comfort eater but I've certainly been in the "if I can't eat cake when something like this happens, when can I?" zone. I feet awful for caring that I've put on weight when there are so much bigger things to care about right now.

I'm just anxious that I won't get back on the horse as swiftly when I return as I usually do. Mostly due to where I am mentally, I've not had the space to grieve yet, between needing to hold it together for my daughter, and being far away from my own support network.

My kid has developed so much since we left that I don't even know if she'll tolerate a long walk in the pram any more. She's not quite walking yet and I want to give her plenty of room to practice. My living situation means that we'll be doing a lot of that outside of the home, but it still cuts down on my exercise while she learns. I'm sure she'll have me moving plenty once she's toddling though lol. At least she's put on plenty of weight so what walking I do in the meantime will count for more.

Please excuse the PL aspect of this. I think I'm just down and frustrated at gaining. This has been my first real setback in the 18 months or so since I started out. Plateaus are something I've experienced, but not eating right for longer than a week or two while I visit family isn't. I'm sure I'm motivated to get back into it, and exercise will probably help me to feel better emotionally. I'm just not looking forward to getting on the scales and God knows how long it will take to get back to where I was, let alone hit my target.
 
I need to cut 15-20 lb in a hurry so I am gonna ‘snake diet’.
Good luck with it. I get headaches if I do more than a 24 hour fast once a week.
This has been my first real setback in the 18 months or so since I started out.
Think of it as 18 months of progress that's temporarily being delayed before you can get back to making progress. And once you're back home maybe resist the urge to get back on the scale for a month so you don't get depressed. It will take a while but you'll get there. You know the good habits by now. Just pursue the good habits as soon as you can and don't stress about it. Stress is bad for your body too.
 
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Thanks, I've been toying with the idea of not weighing myself for a bit after getting back. I think it'll just make things feel more catastrophic than they need to, and there's enough to feel crap about right now without adding anything extra.

I do find the scale a good motivator under normal circumstances, but I think you're right and I should leave it until June before seeing what number I'm at.
 
Thanks, I've been toying with the idea of not weighing myself for a bit after getting back. I think it'll just make things feel more catastrophic than they need to, and there's enough to feel crap about right now without adding anything extra.

I do find the scale a good motivator under normal circumstances, but I think you're right and I should leave it until June before seeing what number I'm at.
Its not a terrible idea. If you can't set some reasonable expectations and understand what the scale is telling you as well as weighing yourself at a consistent time every day, then don't bother weighing yourself
 
Dropped 6kg in the past three weeks and back down to 54kg so only 4 more to go until my goal weight. I'm thinking of buying a bar and some weight plates currently running 3+kms a day but I think it's time to get some strength training in there
 
Dropped 6kg in the past three weeks and back down to 54kg so only 4 more to go until my goal weight. I'm thinking of buying a bar and some weight plates currently running 3+kms a day but I think it's time to get some strength training in there
Strength training might not help you with the weight loss right away but damn that running schedule sounds brutal lol
 
Strength training might not help you with the weight loss right away but damn that running schedule sounds brutal lol
I don't expect it will but from training sessions with a personal trainer in the past it definitely helps tone up. It's actually not too brutal, at a walking pace I can do 1km in 10 minutes but with the running schedule it has definitely made my appetite increase like crazy (:_(
 
Time to check in. I'm at 295 currently after having dropped below 300 in the second week of April. So I hit my first milestone. This is a grand total of 50 pounds lost since January 1st, so that's around 10 el bees a month doing just CICO. Major overarching goal is still to get to 225 and re-evaluate from there (I'll probably try to hit 180 since the last time I was there was Junior High and I was a fatty then) but I need to consider my next steps on the way to the goal. And I have an idea: a friend of mine is getting married in October and I was invited to join his wedding party. He's pretty fit, and we encourage each other on our respective fitness journeys (he's trying to get absolutely JACKED while I'm going more for ottermode). So, I want to lose another 50 pounds in time for the wedding. To that end, yesterday I decided to do OMAD for a few weeks (I had already gone down to two meals, no snacks), then try to do some actual fasting. Any of you Kiwis got tips on that?
 
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