Weight loss support thread

I’m super happy today. I finally made my goal of 130 lbs! It’s been a long ride, not as long as others, but to come down from 152 to 130 makes me feel so confident in myself. I don’t even remember when I weighed this much, maybe 15 years ago?

But I still have love handles, there a way smaller, but they’re there. I’m gonna shoot for 125 now. I’m hoping by then I’ll be rid of this little belly roll and small love handles by then. Maybe I’ll start to see some abs. My chest is filling in from the bench presses, but I still see a little bit of bitch tits.

All the best of luck to you all. I know you can do it too. This isn’t a race to get to the finish line the quickest. This is a climb up MT Fugi, one foot at a time.
 
Back to 200 even, 50 pounds lost since the start of 2022. I think 190-200 is a good weight for me so I'm starting to slow down on what I was doing before to get to a stable baseline. I previously got down to what would be considered a "normal" BMI for my height but it cost me a lot of muscle, ruined my driver swing and I honestly just felt weak and shitty overall. The only weak point now is getting back to working out but my gym should be done with its renovations soon.

My clothes and overall appearance look and fit the best at this weight range IMO. BP and other metrics like blood work and fasting blood sugar are completely healthy for my age too. It's been a wild ride from 2017-2022. By year: 263 to 190 to 175 to 220 to 250 and now back down to 200. Remember if you get discouraged because you have gained weight or went off your diet/exercise plan big time, you can always try again. There is nothing to be ashamed of, I did it plenty of times.

And if you feel very self-conscious about exercising while obese, absolutely don't....people who take exercise seriously are some of the friendliest people I've ever met at my gym and would be happy to see you making efforts to improve your own health and fitness just like them. They might even have some advice for you from their own diet and training experience if you get to know them when working out and ask. Everyone starts somewhere.
 
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Still hovering around the 102 range, but a few important things happened

1. Started keeping a paper journal.
2. Started working towards some other goals, and have made significant progress.
3. Figured out I've probably been stuck in a rut of depression for the past five months. With that realization, today is the first day when I haven't over-eaten like shit, and not felt completely shitty by not eating.

Pullups: 34 in two minutes
Everything else: Same
 
I'm onto this now, started in September at which point all sorts of inconveniences occurred to throw my other norms off (Farms going down, Queen dying, random work shit etc.) but still managed to shift some of it. September was bringing my drinking down and hoping to bring it down further along with killing off snacks most days of the week and getting into doing the 5/2 pattern where at least 2 days out of the week I'm eating only the bare minimum. I can get through a day with nothing but salad and chicken for a very late lunch, an apple for breakfast and water to drink though that gets harder when I am actually in the office. Still need to sort my weekends out but they're getting closer to being well-behaved too. I know it's going to get harder and this is the easy weight loss right now but it's begun at least.

No matter what I do I'm going to be weighty but it can be improved a lot. This month hoping to be getting to the gym for more than just swimming which also gets me socialising a bit elsewhere even if the average age in my gym is notably older than me. Going seeing a mate in the Lake District in the UK who I saw this summer, hoping that the same walks will feel easier to confirm results are showing. I've also found a few hiking groups near me so hopefully can get out on those as of a weekend too once I'm surer on that.
 
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I'm going to start to hit the gym tomorrow lads. I'm now at 78k, my goal is 70kg. My lunch today was tilapia and tomatoes in the oven, quinoa and steamed eggplant and pumpkin.

It's not only for me, but for my best friend and flat mate who has many health issues and she grew up with a shitty mom who only bothered to cook nuggets for her. Teaching an adult how to eat well isn't easy, but she doesn't have other option since I am the one who's cooking. I have lost 4kg without doing any exercise by changing my diet and I'm feeling less bloated. I have good hopes for the future (I wanna get ripped).

Godspeed lads, may you achieve your goals.
 
And if you feel very self-conscious about exercising while obese, absolutely don't....people who take exercise seriously are some of the friendliest people I've ever met at my gym and would be happy to see you making efforts to improve your own health and fitness just like them. They might even have some advice for you from their own diet and training experience if you get to know them when working out and ask. Everyone starts somewhere.
Agreed. If anything, very fit people are genuinely sincere about sharing information and tips, especially if they've made a similar journey from land whale to /fit/izen.

I'm back at it with a week fast (minimum) as I've eaten whatever the hell I've wanted to and reached 196 burger units. Target will be around 165-170 and will take around a month if I stick with it that long. I've experienced fasting for long periods by now so I'll be able to make the weight goal, even if I eat something before it. Good references if your serious about fasting weight loss would be the Obesity Code book by Dr. Jason Fung and the subreddit based around fasting, both of which have very good information.
 
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Friend of mine is doing DNP, and is already a few days into his cycle. I offered to give him an invite to the farms but he hasn't said he would yet.

I have zero idea what DNP is supposed to mean, so I scrolled through that thread and still didn't see any real answers - until I got to this post with an image suggesting I take up to 600mg of caffeine and 25mg of ephedrine a day.

So on the rare times you do manage to get to sleep, be prepared to have some fucked-up dreams!

I think I'll stick to CICO, thanks.
 
I have zero idea what DNP is supposed to mean, so I scrolled through that thread and still didn't see any real answers - until I got to this post with an image suggesting I take up to 600mg of caffeine and 25mg of ephedrine a day.

So on the rare times you do manage to get to sleep, be prepared to have some fucked-up dreams!

I think I'll stick to CICO, thanks.
It's a type of pesticide that you can take to short circuit your body to raise your BMR directly and burn more calories. It boils down to this, he takes 325MG of DNP so that he has a roughly 660 extra calorie deficit on top of his diet already.
 
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I need a kick up the ass. I am now at 68kg :( Ideal weight is around 50kg.

I got down to 55kg last year and I was really happy… But then I just had a train of bad news and stress… basically every time I got a few good diet days behind me, my mental state crumbled and I binged. :(
 
down from 111.3 to 110.3kg this week. The last few I've been eating homecooked less so I stagnated. Probably wont be under 100kg by eoy like I hoped but I'll be close.
My friend has a substance that can help oyu with this. Very Easily. Just have to sweat your cock and balls off for it.
 
Some advice for those that wanna lose weight preferentially, versus wanting to build muscle and get buff.
Cardio works best. There are 3 main types of cardio almost everyone can do. Running, cycling and walking.
Running is by far the best and has full-body effects. That means that if you keep at it, you'll develop abs, proper leg muscles, basically just the upper torso and arms will get less work. It has rather dramatic effects on general health and cardiovascular health in particular, usually above what you'll get from other cardio. Can't go into too much detail without PLing dramatically.
You can focus on either health and losing weight by running at lower speeds, or muscle and explosive speed bursts by doing intervals/HIIT - at a higher risk of injury.
Cycling is your second best, and will also lose you lots of weight, has nearly similar benefits as running, but it's even more leg-centric. The biggest issue with cycling is the associated dangers, which are quite significant, i.e. cars and various accidents, many times not your fault either. Injuries tend to be severe. Keep in mind, that for outside cycling, not indoor spinning, to actually burn fat at a significant rate, at one point you'll be faced with travelling at 30-50km/h speeds with barely any protection. It's intoxicating adrenaline, but it's also a real danger.
Walking is what you do when you are too fat and out of shape to run, which is far more common than you think. Being fat puts immense pressure on joints and organs, so if you want to start with running while obese, your body will likely tell you that you're about to die, you won't be able to maintain any decent pace, and you won't last for more than 2-3 kms. If the situation is dire, it's probably best to take it slow with walks and just get to a pace where you're able to maintain a longer effort, so you burn more calories, get rid of weight, and be able to start running.
Now, about diets, which I know that many are unable to keep.
Depending on your culinary habits, your body might have been accustomed with large amounts of excess food. Letting go can be hard. Parts of your digestive system might've gotten larger, although this is somewhat controversial these days.
If you manage an active life with proper sports regimen (like 4-6 days/week, at at least a moderate intensity for like 1hr+), you might be able to lose weight even with eating normally, including sweets and other such problematic foods.
But if you do sports rarely, 1-2 times/week, and you're avoiding higher intensity exercise, you'll need to restrict your diet in rather uncomfy ways.
Best of luck!
 
Hope this isn't unwelcome since the weight loss I'm aiming for is relatively minimal, but circumstances make it a bit trickier than my previous (successful) attempts and I think that support and accountability would be beneficial to me.

175 cm, 165 lbs/75 kg. Just had our last baby a very short while ago so I'm steadily working off the baby weight. My initial weight goal is 150 lbs/68 kg as that's how much I weighed before having this kid, and I'll reassess when I reach that- thinking I'd like something closer to 130 lbs/58 kg because that's when I feel at my best and because we aren't planning any more kids, but we'll see how I feel every step of the way between 150 and 130. I'm focusing on weight loss only rather than general fitness at the moment because juggling between feeding the baby without losing supply and weight loss is difficult enough as it is with having several children at home 100% of the time, but I throw in 3x30 min stationary bike every week just for general wellness and do a lot of heavy cleaning in my capacity as a SAHM so I generally eat about 1.5k calories a day without noticing a dip in supply or energy and am satisfied with my current rate of weight loss.

I know this is kind of specific, but if anyone has any tips, ideas, opinions, etc. for continued weight loss that is sustainable and doesn't endanger milk supply, I'm all ears! I'm doing well right now, but I know from experience that there will be a point where I will have to reduce calories further to keep on losing weight and I'm not willing to sacrifice the nursing relationship for it, I'd like to find a good balance that can fit within life with a bunch of young kids.
 
I started loosing weight after having my baby. I think it might be different between all moms, but for me I didn't really have any drop in supply. I was obese at the time though so maybe my own fat stores helped.

With that out of the way, I had gestational diabetes and carried on eating very low carb post partum. I ate one meal a day (but snacked at other times so not pure OMAD) which was usually some kind of stew or curry. I'd recommend the usual stuff like being well hydrated if you're worried about supply. I only have one child so OMAD-lite might be more tricky if you're cooking for a family.

I didn't exercise really at first due to physical recovery from cesarian and being so fat and out of shape. Later, after dropping a bit I got very into walking which was enough for the weight to fly off (though being at such a high starting weight probably helped a great deal). As you know, being a SAHM means you get plenty of non deliberate exercise anyway. I don't drive so pushing a pram/pushchair provides extra opportunity to burn a few calories per day.

Sorry if this isn't super useful but thought I'd respond as I might be one of the few who have experienced trying to loose weight whilst nursing.

For me, prioritising protein and fat (and flavour!) made me satisfied enough and I figure those components of breast milk are the most likely to be needed to be sourced externally (alongside fluid and a breastfeeding multivitamin) whereas the sugar component could be synthesized from my body fat stores if lacking from my diet. I worked off the "essential fats and proteins exist, essential carbs don't" theory, basically, and it seemed to work for me. I stuck to mostly green veg for fibre and avoided root veg, rice etc.

There may be a way of applying that philosophy that works for you, the deficit you want and your larger family set-up. Perhaps preparing meals where it's easy to leave the carb component off your own plate (or portion it out in smaller quantity) like cooking separate rice for curry/stew/chilli, root veg with roasts/steak etc. Keeping low carb snacks like pepperoni sticks, hard boiled eggs or seaweed to hand over sandwiches, cereal or crisps. 90% dark chocolate. That sort of thing.

If all else fails, maybe you'll just have to wait until weaning starts before you diet. I can understand worrying about supply even if it didn't affect me personally.

Good luck, and congratulations!
 
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Sorry if this isn't super useful but thought I'd respond as I might be one of the few who have experienced trying to loose weight whilst nursing.
I appreciate hearing about your experience with it, I figured it's a pretty specific situation so I'm just happy there's someone else who has been through it!

I cook all of our meals unless we're wanting to grill or smoke something since it was a pretty big hobby for me even prior to getting married, so I like your recommendation of preparing higher calorie/less nutritionally dense/etc components separately so everyone can enjoy it in the amount that seems right for them. My husband has recently started lifting again and does OMAD lite because he finds that it makes him rush home quicker to just not eat there, so his needs are definitely different than mine and this is a great way to honor both of our requirements. I've tried OMAD but it tends to make my hands shaky in the middle of the day, so I tend to skip breakfast, have a light lunch, and an early (17h ish) dinner followed by a small snack a few hours before bed, but I'm definitely interested in trying it again once baby weans themselves.

Thank you for the advice, anecdotes, and kind words! It's definitely giving me something to work off of, and it's great to hear from someone else who has been there.
 
Well I finally made it, 125 lbs (40, 5’6 down from 152lbs in May). I’m feeling super confident today!

I’m proud of myself, nothing in my closet fits tight, I’m gonna have to shop this Black Friday for new shirts and pants. I get compliments from female coworkers, my male coworkers all say they’re happy for me but they could never do what I did, and make fun of my 200 cal lunch. They’re all fat, but I can’t call them that because of HR.

Still, when I looked at myself in the mirror this morning, I still have that little bit of belly pudge around my navel. I want it gone, and I think I’m gonna have to see what I look like at 120. I want that flat stomach. My love handles are almost complete gone now. It’ll take about 4 weeks, but with holidays and birthdays coming up, I’m not sure I’ll make it. I gotta keep my head in the game and my eyes in the prize.

Still lifting dumbbells, I’m now in the 20+ lb range, I’m getting stronger and my delts are starting to show, just a little.
 
Well I finally made it, 125 lbs (40, 5’6 down from 152lbs in May). I’m feeling super confident today!

I’m proud of myself, nothing in my closet fits tight, I’m gonna have to shop this Black Friday for new shirts and pants. I get compliments from female coworkers, my male coworkers all say they’re happy for me but they could never do what I did, and make fun of my 200 cal lunch. They’re all fat, but I can’t call them that because of HR.

Still, when I looked at myself in the mirror this morning, I still have that little bit of belly pudge around my navel. I want it gone, and I think I’m gonna have to see what I look like at 120. I want that flat stomach. My love handles are almost complete gone now. It’ll take about 4 weeks, but with holidays and birthdays coming up, I’m not sure I’ll make it. I gotta keep my head in the game and my eyes in the prize.

Still lifting dumbbells, I’m now in the 20+ lb range, I’m getting stronger and my delts are starting to show, just a little.
What do you eat for lunch?

Congrats by the way. You succeeded and you should feel confident.
 
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What do you eat for lunch?

Congrats by the way. You succeeded and you should feel confident.
Thank you so much! I hope your journey is going great too!

So I eat the Campbells Well Yes soup, the bowl ones or the cup depending on how I feel. And a fruit or raw veggies. It took like 3 weeks, but my stomach shrank, and now that keeps me sustained for about 5 hours.

If I need a snack, between lunch and dinner, then a small mandarin will do it.
 
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