Weird traits you find attractive for some reason:

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Apochrypha said:
Dad bods are so fucking great. Honesty I wish men would stop caring about being buff and shit, dad bods are peak male fitness. Alpha chad shit.
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Petronella said:
Chunky dudes with squishy tums uwu
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Retink said:
I didn't think of it at the time, but I kind of like women who are a bit clingy. I've known a lot of people in relationships where they fuck and sometimes go out to eat, but otherwise they might as well be strangers, and that just seems strange to me.
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My ex found it weird that I wanted to see him more than twice a week (at church and at church band practice, so to him a friday night date was overkill). We worked one block away from each other but heaven forbid I pop by his workplace during my lunch break to say hello.

Yesterday my partner of ten years called me nine times then drove 20 minutes to my house to knock on the door, all because I was taking a bubble bath and didn't hear the phone ring, and he couldn't get a hold of me and he got worried.

He apologised like five times for interrupting my bath but I was too busy feeling flattered and cherished and shit.

The fact that he actually wants me around and cares about me never gets old.

Sometimes I worry I'm clingy but then he turns around and out-clings me and it just feels good, man.

Edit: my contribution: I like a man I can make laugh. And soft skin somewhere on his body. I just like running my fingers over it.
 
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Ebony Way said:
My ex found it weird that I wanted to see him more than twice a week (at church and at church band practice, so to him a friday night date was overkill). We worked one block away from each other but heaven forbid I pop by his workplace during my lunch break to say hello.

Yesterday my partner of ten years called me nine times then drove 20 minutes to my house to knock on the door, all because I was taking a bubble bath and didn't hear the phone ring, and he couldn't get a hold of me and he got worried.

He apologised like five times for interrupting my bath but I was too busy feeling flattered and cherished and shit.

The fact that he actually wants me around and cares about me never gets old.

Sometimes I worry I'm clingy but then he turns around and out-clings me and it just feels good, man.

Edit: my contribution: I like a man I can make laugh. And soft skin somewhere on his body. I just like running my fingers over it.
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Your ex sounds like someone I knew, and I pressed him one day about why he was with the person if he seemed to like being away from them and he mentioned that he just didn't like to feel lonely so the relationship made sense when he couldn't hang out with other people. That seemed a bit fucked to me, but if it worked for them whatever.

As for your current partner, the one type of clingy I don't really like is when someone worries about me like that. I can understand if there was reasoning behind it, as something happened in the area and they didn't know if you were there when it did, but just randomly would bother me a little. I was more thinking about sharing interests, wanting to get your partner into the same hobbies, being able to talk to them about important things like finances, beliefs, etc without getting into a shit fit. That last part especially seems missing in modern relationships where people are worried about discussing stuff like finances, but I'd rather be able to have someone who understands my goals and wants to work in the same direction, sort of like having a business partner you can fuck.
 
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Retink said:
As for your current partner, the one type of clingy I don't really like is when someone worries about me like that. I can understand if there was reasoning behind it, as something happened in the area and they didn't know if you were there when it did, but just randomly would bother me a little. I was more thinking about sharing interests, wanting to get your partner into the same hobbies, being able to talk to them about important things like finances, beliefs, etc without getting into a shit fit. That last part especially seems missing in modern relationships where people are worried about discussing stuff like finances, but I'd rather be able to have someone who understands my goals and wants to work in the same direction, sort of like having a business partner you can fuck.
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He was very stressed that day, so he was imagining the worst at every turn. He's not usually that bad! I have pretty bad anxiety so i do it to him a couple of times a year, so it was just nice to know I'm not the only crazy one in the relationship. I did feel bad I'd worried him though.

"A business partner you can fuck", I love it. We are a lot like that--we have similar financial goals and moral/ethical values etc, we both just wanted a solid life choice in a partner.

We don't really have the same hobbies at all (I have TRIED SO HARD to get into 40k but there is just TOO MUCH going on) but I will listen to him about his hobbies and try to remember little bits about 40k and help him.plan out how to sculpt custom set pieces, and he will listen to me about my hobbies.

Aside from hobbies we go to the gym together, we cook together, we talk for hours about the meaning of life, we bingewatch mundane TV sitcoms together like Big Bang and Friends, and we make stupid jokes and laugh til 4am when we should be sleeping. It's all very mundane really but I like doing the mundane stuff with him, it makes it all feel special and cozy.
 
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A women who is confident. I find it extremely annoying when they're always apologizing for shit they do or say. Or they constantly talk down on themselves. Its a massive turn off for me, which is ironic cause I use to be that same way. Now I see why women hate it when men do it. Can't tell you how many decent looking women I've met who do this to themselves which is a damn shame.
 
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I love hands with long, elegant fingers and nicely shaped nails. Oh man. If a guy I like at first turns out to have ugly hands when I look closer then I just can't be attracted to them. It's the first thing I check with someone.
 
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