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What I hate about transes more than anything else is that they are literally the only group that is allowed to do this.I personally hate people like that, whose self worth is entirely dependent on what other people think of them, rather than what the actual truth of their character is. From my perspective, it’s better to be a good person and have everyone think you’re an asshole, rather than be a shitty person and have everyone think you’re a great guy. But troons don’t think like that, because they’re weak-minded people.
It is known that there is a psychological baseline for healthy behaviors that have been observed over centuries. Among those healthy behaviors is not demanding everyone around you be complementary and prop up your self-esteem. But somehow, if you're trans, we disregard this baseline and play along. That's worse than treating them like children. It's treating them like they're not even human.
What rankles me about the sports thing is that one of the arguments is "you need to teach them how to work in groups and camaraderie". Well, how the fuck you gonna learn about camaraderie if nobody even wants you there? But I'd argue that even the sports argument is evil. There is a phrase I like to employ during that discussion: Identities don't compete, bodies do.And as important as I think the sports issue is, it seems that more people are concerned with recreational activities than some of the more evil shit these people have done. For example, almost none of my fellow anti-troon family members knew about vandalizing women's rape shelters and nailing dead rats to the door.
These people know they are using male bodies to compete in sports, and somehow we're allowed to ignore that. That's pretty evil, I think.
My answer to that is: if a 12-year-old wants to kill him or herself over that, they need intensive psychological intervention, not medical intervention. Even if the kid is destined for being trans as an adult, there's a disregard for having a healthy mindset to the point where emotional blackmail is the response. I wouldn't want my child to die, but if that's inevitable, I'm not going to spend the rest of my life under the gun of not doing whatever the kid wants under threat of his or her own life.The second you tell me that a 12 year old should make a irreversible medical decision, while guilting the parents and everyone around by saying 'oh they WILL kill themselves' is too far.
Kids should learn early that going to emotional terrorism isn't a correct or healthy response to not getting what you want.