A few years ago I had what could generously be described as "poor" dating prospects. Eventually I struck out a few times with the women around me yet I still craved intimacy. But I'm a tolerant, accepting guy, right? So I did what any good boy would do and I opened my compatibility settings to see trans women. The first thing I was struck by was the amount of blatant mental illness on display just insane amounts of trauma dumping in their bios. But I brushed this off as it's not super uncommon for women to do this too. The next thing that hit me was that most of the people at my selection were total hons who made the bare minimum effort to pass. Then I realised how similar all of these people were. You could sort them into piles of "socially awkward nerd" and "sex obsessed freak" with some going between. Despite all that I found one who had some okay pictures, decent job prospects and shared a few interests with me, they weren't the best looking but neither was I and I figured I'd much rather date someone who had a personality like mine so I was set for my super cool date!
When I got there the absolute first thing that hit me was the incel hunch, the broad shoulders, the big heavy man stomps and the giant man hands, years of being told that Trans women are women! immediately washed away as I was privy to the horror I saw before me. They would have been a handsome enough guy, someone who I'd probably be friends with and shoot the shit on Discord with at night but they decided to play fantasy delusion dress up with their life instead. The entire time I just felt embarrassed and sad for them they seemed like a decent enough person but then it started. "Have you ever thought if you're trans?

" and started telling me about how "If your parents don't like trans people you can come and live with me

" ON A FIRST DATE. From that moment on I realised that these were just mentally ill men looking for a way out, some form of acceptance, rather than any legitimate movement.