Why are millennials marrying later and fucking less?

[💗Freddie Freaker💗]

Houses getting expensive are also a huge factor. Who wants to raise their kid in some shitty apartment?

Raising a happy family on a low budget is possible, Westerners just aren't taught how to do it. Think of all the third worlders who live in mud huts but breed like rabbits.

 

[Dysnomia]

Raising a happy family on a low budget is possible, Westerners just aren't taught how to do it. Think of all the third worlders who live in mud huts but breed like rabbits.

Living in poverty is not fun. Having your mom tell you to just go back to sleep because you won't be eating today is not fun. Having no heat, phone or refridgerator is not fun. Having only one pair of pants that you have to resew practically every day is not fun. I've lived through all this and more and wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy. Please don't have kids if you are living in poverty. Try to save yourself instead.

I think that a lot of people live virtually and don't care much about face to face interaction now.

They have sown the fields with soy and shall reap the infertile berry.

Never has there ever been a greater time to be a misanthrope than now. A majority of women have been turned into sheltered raving sheep and a majority of men have been made servile browbeaten slaves. Just goes to show you most people are small-minded, tribalistic, and hypocritical. Third wave feminism has shown just how awful women can actually be beyond the adorable preconceived positive notions most people have about them and are displayed in our cultures. They're just as manipulative, abusive, pathetic, ignorant, self-absorbed, entilted, and "priveleged" as men.

It'll take more than a few years for this shit to die down and about a decade or two to actually learn anything from it before everyone forgets about it again and the cycle repeats itself. Hope I can actually find someone I can have a romantic relationship with before then.

And all the genderspecials. You can't make babies with the genital combinations and hormone deflated dicks going on these days.

 

[Nate Higgers]

I'm thankful that I have family to at least have my back in those regards

Family? What’s that?

 

[Spiny Rumples]

Family? What’s that?

I'm pretty sure it's commonplace in illegal street races and porn, something about quality time together.

 

[celebrityskin]

Marrying later: The answer is second and third wave feminism.

If you were a working class young woman in the 1970s your career opportunities were... a secretary, a hairdresser, working in a shop, MAYBE a nurse or teacher if you were especially intelligent. Anyone who went beyond this were the special few and even then your family and children were still the first priority

Idk, this site sends to be mostly zoomers so I think a lot of people aren't aware of how recent the whole "girls can do whatever they want if they can put their mind to it" sentiment is.

 

[ulsterscotsman]

Raising a happy family on a low budget is possible, Westerners just aren't taught how to do it. Think of all the third worlders who live in mud huts but breed like rabbits.

I think a lot of people overspend when its comes to children on things like expensive prams and cots ect.
Like babies don't give a shit if their pram is some designer brand or not.

 

[God of Nothing]

I think a lot of women overspend when its comes to children on things like expensive prams and cots ect.
Like babies don't give a shit if their pram is some designer brand or not.

fixed that for you

 

[A Gay Retard]

I don't owe anybody a thing. It's not a new concept. Millennials are just better at it. I like my girlfriend but I'm not putting myself in a position to be fucked over by anybody. Boomers demonstrated for Gen Y how that shit works out all too well. If they wanted their grand-babies so badly they should have given marriage counseling a shot. I'm also unexcited by the prospect of raising kids in clown world and having them troon out due to media and government influence.

 

[Orange Rhymer]

I don't owe anybody a thing. It's not a new concept. Millennials are just better at it. I like my girlfriend but I'm not putting myself in a position to be fucked over by anybody. Boomers demonstrated for Gen Y how that shit works out all too well. If they wanted their grand-babies so badly they should have given marriage counseling a shot. I'm also unexcited by the prospect of raising kids in clown world and having them troon out due to media and government influence.

An alternative: Get married religiously, but not civilly. Make sure you don't reproduce, or live in a 'common law' state.

I know some colleagues that did this. One went to divorce, bitch got nothing.

 

[celebrityskin]

Spoiler: TLDR

Marrying later: The answer is second and third wave feminism.

If you were a working class young woman in the 1970s your career opportunities were... a secretary, a hairdresser, working in a shop, MAYBE a nurse or teacher if you were especially intelligent. Anyone who went beyond this were the special few and even then your family and children were still the first priority

Idk, this site sends to be mostly zoomers so I think a lot of people aren't aware of how recent the whole "girls can do whatever they want if they can put their mind to it" sentiment is.

As for young people fucking less, it's a lot of reasons really.

More ways to pass time on your own (video games, social media, netflix etc.), much more concern about STDs, less privacy with young adults moving out of their parents houses later and later, dating apps which are used for an ego stroke rather than a way to find partners. I also think younger people are also more insecure and self-conscious due to decline of socialisation (which has gotten wayyyy worse post-covid) and also the chance that their behaviour will be called out/made visible on social media, and in the age of #MeToo there's the worry that men will be branded a creeper when making the first move.

Idk if anyone else has picked up on this, but I've also noticed that something strange is happening where media has been getting more hyper-sexual (Shows like Elite and Euphoria for example) even though youth are more insecure and sexless than they've been in generations. Iirc something like this happened in Japan quite a while ago, where weird sexual expressions worked their way into the mainstream with sexy anime and Japanese businessman porn or w/e, while young men gradually went into their shells and became more and more sexless. Idk if the West can prevent this.

 

[God of Nothing]

As for young people fucking less, it's a lot of reasons really.

More ways to pass time on your own (video games, social media, netflix etc.), much more concern about STDs, less privacy with young adults moving out of their parents houses later and later, dating apps which are used for an ego stroke rather than a way to find partners. I also think younger people are also more insecure and self-conscious due to decline of socialisation (which has gotten wayyyy worse post-covid) and also the chance that their behaviour will be called out/made visible on social media, and in the age of #MeToo there's the worry that men will be branded a creeper when making the first move.

Idk if anyone else has picked up on this, but I've also noticed that something strange is happening where media has been getting more hyper-sexual (Shows like Elite and Euphoria for example) even though kids are more insecure and sexless than they've been in generations. Iirc something like this happened in Japan quite a while ago, where weird sexual expressions worked their way into the mainstream with sexy anime and Japanese businessman porn or w/e, while young men gradually went into their shells and became more and more sexless. Idk if the West can prevent this.

You need to teach an entire generation to adhere to gender norms, produce media to encourage this behavior, and improve wages so everyone isn't too busy trying to forget they're fucking miserable to pay attention to their lives.

It's too late.

 

[Ser Prize]

You need to teach an entire generation to adhere to gender norms, produce media to encourage this behavior, and improve wages so everyone isn't too busy trying to forget they're fucking miserable to pay attention to their lives.

It's too late.

That or remove all distractions aside from sex.

 

[God of Nothing]

That or remove all distractions aside from sex.

Good luck with that.

 

[Pokemonquistador2]

I don't owe anybody a thing. It's not a new concept. Millennials are just better at it. I like my girlfriend but I'm not putting myself in a position to be fucked over by anybody. Boomers demonstrated for Gen Y how that shit works out all too well. If they wanted their grand-babies so badly they should have given marriage counseling a shot. I'm also unexcited by the prospect of raising kids in clown world and having them troon out due to media and government influence.

For me it was the prospect of having to work a full 9-10 hour day, then having to go home and do all of the child-raising and housework. Even if kid-raising/housework duties are equally shared by the parents, the other spouse works a full 9-10 hour day too, so you'll have both parents working their asses off outside the home, and having to offshore their parenting duties to daycare workers, who suck up most of the surplus money a two income family would make.

There are parents who could make this work, but if you want to keep your kid out of the Clown World Hellmouth, you have to constantly monitor what they watch, read, who they hang out with and what they're learning at school. Can two people working a combined 20 or so hours a day manage this on a regular basis? There are all kinds of groomers lurking on the internet waiting to hook your kids into sex stuff, or give them validation and asspats when they decide to adopt an "alternate lifestyle". Most normie parents aren't going to know what to do about this. Either they'll alienate their kids by hating their new "lifestyle choices"or bend over and be totally accepting of them so as to not alienate their child.

Clown World is just too alluring to kids these days. Kids are extremely susceptible to status striving, and are at the time of their lives when judgment is poorest. It's extra hard when you have Mommy and Daddy shielding them from consequences or if they're a ward of the state.

 

[Maratus volans]

As for young people fucking less, it's a lot of reasons really.

More ways to pass time on your own (video games, social media, netflix etc.), much more concern about STDs, less privacy with young adults moving out of their parents houses later and later, dating apps which are used for an ego stroke rather than a way to find partners. I also think younger people are also more insecure and self-conscious due to decline of socialisation (which has gotten wayyyy worse post-covid) and also the chance that their behaviour will be called out/made visible on social media, and in the age of #MeToo there's the worry that men will be branded a creeper when making the first move.

Idk if anyone else has picked up on this, but I've also noticed that something strange is happening where media has been getting more hyper-sexual (Shows like Elite and Euphoria for example) even though youth are more insecure and sexless than they've been in generations. Iirc something like this happened in Japan quite a while ago, where weird sexual expressions worked their way into the mainstream with sexy anime and Japanese businessman porn or w/e, while young men gradually went into their shells and became more and more sexless. Idk if the West can prevent this.

I don't think you can. A lot of this stems from hyper-individualism and the destruction of local networks of family, community, religion, and so on that might have given people meaning and helped them find a way in life. A lot of it also comes from globalization, which steadily erodes standards of living from the bottom up. People in the elite creative classes are preening narcissists who don't have a reason to commit to each other outside of utility or vanity, and people in the expanding serf classes can't build stable relationships because they have nothing to offer. In the end, you have a lot of unhappy people.

But when you have a lot of unhappy people, how do you keep them complacent and controlled? You sedate them with porn and video games, you syphon off their energies with the spectacles of social media and partisanship. All of the bread and circuses further reduces the desire to build families and futures.

 

[Don't Tread on Me]

It is education. Women make up the majority of college educated and the fields they like (humanities) are worthless with just a bachelor's degree so they go into graduate school and PhDs more too. They don't get out of school until 28, then they spend a few years looking for a job and settling in to try and feel like they've actually accomplished something. They may also hit the wanderlust phase where they say "I don't want to settle down before I travel the world".

Then they start looking for a guy at 30-31 and freak out that no one wants them.

 

[Ser Prize]

It is education. Women make up the majority of college educated and the fields they like (humanities) are worthless with just a bachelor's degree so they go into graduate school and PhDs more too. They don't get out of school until 28, then they spend a few years looking for a job and settling in to try and feel like they've actually accomplished something. They may also hit the wanderlust phase where they say "I don't want to settle down before I travel the world".

Then they start looking for a guy at 30-31 and freak out that no one wants them.

Don't forget typically slutting it up during the schooling days.