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I've never managed to secure a high income job that would secure me a woman.
That's just prostitution with extra steps.
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I've never managed to secure a high income job that would secure me a woman.
Yes, it's called marriage.That's just prostitution with extra steps.
I suggest that I don't date women.I suggest you date more women and find out for yourself.
Wrong thread to discuss mental health ( or rather, nervous system health ) but even doctors don't quite know why some people develop it from relatively small shocks, while others can power through trauma after trauma no problem. They do know that predisposition to it can be passed on, and I have bad genetics from both sides of the family with a history of it, and then some.That's exactly what an agoraphobic would say. How do you even develop agoraphobia anyway as a young man? Was it COVID or are you just a NEET? Usually agoraphobia isn't a thing in younger men. It's very much an older person and rape victim disorder.
I started getting random panic attacks in my mid 20s. Turned out it was my thyroid, Graves disease. Very high resting heart rate. A great aunt had it. It runs in families.So I was tossed around doctor after doctor for an entire year, having non stop panic attacks without even knowing what a panic attack is, getting my heart checked, lungs, etc, and not a single doctor, nor my parents, could figure out what was wrong.
That's exactly what an agoraphobic would say. How do you even develop agoraphobia anyway as a young man? Was it COVID or are you just a NEET? Usually agoraphobia isn't a thing in younger men. It's very much an older person and rape victim disorder.
This too. Where the hell do people meet? I know people who are extremely social having to resort of using dating apps since there is no outlet to just meet people.There is nowhere left for normies to meet let alone people who prefer the company of misfits and autists
They have, yeah. In my case, they found absolutely nothing. Just generalized anxiety disorder, panic attack disorder, and agoraphobia. My grandmother on one side of the family used to have a milder case, was cooped up in her house for two years or so but ultimately got over it. That, and hysteria. On the other side of the family runs schizophrenia and hysteria. So basically, mood instability on both sides of the family.I started getting random panic attacks in my mid 20s. Turned out it was my thyroid, Graves disease. Very high resting heart rate. A great aunt had it. It runs in families.
I'm assuming they checked your thyroid?
People tend to dispense advice like "get hobbies" but what you described feels like something I've come to suspect which is that the advice only works if it's "get specifically socially prestigious 'cool' hobbies." There are specific things that people seem to always perk up at even if they have no real interest in it themselves, and then there are things that they just don't.For myself I noticed this very quickly when I removed any mention of me being someone who has travelled the world and speaks multiple languages. Instantly a lot more women are showing an interest. But why?
It's because instead of being something that makes you unique through having experienced multiple cultures it just means you're some fucked up transient with no roots. Any facts that detract from you being a perfect model man with his life squared away is to be suppressed. Anything else only invites failure.
It almost sounds hormonal. Like you're getting an overdose of GABA. Did anyone ever try giving you dosage of it? Sometimes when the body overreacts with something it's because it's actually under producing it naturally and overcompensates. If not, I'd mention it to your therapist. It's a shot nonetheless.I just wish it wasn't a situation where I either fully overcome this condition/ get extremely lucky and finally find someone who could accept it for what it is, or being alone, as the latter sucks.
I would suggest to stop entertaining this guy he is the type that complains whats his match for his income , personality and looks. He is histrionic bitch with absurd expectations and expects women to ignore the fact he fucked around in his 20s so he gets histrionic bitches with absurd expectations who expect him to do the same . He doesn't want to settle and that gives away certain aura that makes the more sane and worthy ones to btfo as fast as possible. There is no cure for cunts like these beyond letting them lay in the bed they made for themselves. Seen plenty these guys when the last time i dated before the kids and partner came along. None of them in the past five years that i have kept tabs on have ltrs. Wait until he hit 40s them it will be even worse crying and gnashing teeth . Especially when a 20 something year old calls you creepy and old.I suggest that I don't date women.
Bruh just go irl meet ups . Bumble has some of them , do you have any hobbies?Well I still got one or two servers left to check but the prospects for discord seem predictablely grim.
For giggles I went to the hookup discords and they are all just sex bots. Even the tamer discords seem to have them. Even if one or two of them are real they charge by the hour lol
The ID verification servers seem like the way to go to talk to anybody legit but then you have the second issue.
It's a sausage fest filled with desperate guys. There's something like a 100 girls to 500 guys. (That's me being charitable)
Local church seems to have something going on but we'll see.
It's impossible to have a conversation with women on there either. Most are in it for attention, but that's not me singling women out for this, maybe there's men like that out there too.We have dehumanized the dating experience to the point im told regularly how refreshing it is to have... a conversation at all when I decide to entertain the apps.
Oh I absolutely want to do meetups. I just assumed all the dating apps were shit. You recommend bumble?Bruh just go irl meet ups . Bumble has some of them , do you have any hobbies?
Oh I absolutely want to do meetups. I just assumed all the dating apps were shit. You recommend bumble?
Wait, are you saying those are examples of things people DO perk up at or DON'T perk up at? Because I can attest from decades of experience that women don't give a single solitary shit about your ability to play instruments unless it makes you wealthy and/or famous.There are specific things that people seem to always perk up at even if they have no real interest in it themselves, and then there are things that they just don't.
I'm not talking about Warhammer 40K and hentai, either, I mean things like playing instruments and mountain biking.