Why Modern women expectations are too high and unrealistic?

[Pomniman]

Imagine how fast the thread about "women's unrealistic expectations" became a thread where childless losers called perfectly normal women fat and gross.

I am just so happy to be the opposite of you lot in every way.

They're "perfectly normal" by the laughable standards of a fallen, decadent society at the turn of this wretched century. What you're really "happy" about is being a good little member of the herd and not stepping so much as five feet outside your comfort zone to aspire to something beyond mediocrity. If you were actually happy with the life you've chosen you wouldn't feel the need to prove anything to us semi-anonymous "losers" on this shitposting site. Enjoy your impending midlife crisis, buddy boy.

 

[Lithuophile]

Good for her. What about your girlfriend? Is she better looking than any of these 5 women?

Look, my girlfriend isn't a supermodel, but she is easily 1000x more attractive than all five of those women. Not in twenty years, not even in thirty years would she age enough to look as mid as the women in that photo.

Sorry you married an uggo. Don't drag other people's girlfriends into your copefest.

 

[BradeRunna]

I don't get it either. They all think their holes are worth a million dollars. That's simply not the case. There are more women than men. About 5% more or so. This is how it is with any normal healthy population. There are always slightly more women than men. You know what happens when there is more of something? The value declines. You know what happens when there is less of something? The value increases. Basically, women aren't worth nearly as much as they think they are and its actually men who are worth more. There are less men after all.

Even the average looking ones the uglies and even fatties are all stuck up these days. It was getting pretty bad when I was younger. But it's a lot worse now.

Women are only worth what they are willing to do sexually. If they aren't willing to do anything sex wise, then they are worthless.

 

[Otis Mallebrok]

They're "perfectly normal" by the laughable standards of a fallen, decadent society at the turn of this wretched century. What you're really "happy" about is being a good little member of the herd and not stepping so much as five feet outside your comfort zone to aspire to something beyond mediocrity. If you were actually happy with the life you've chosen you wouldn't feel the need to prove anything to us semi-anonymous "losers" on this shitposting site. Enjoy your impending midlife crisis, buddy boy.

Why would I have a midlife crisis, when I have every thing I need in my life, including family? You don't, though. You are the embodiment of that very fallen, decadent society at the turn of this wretched century. Instead of family you have pornography, computer games and take-out food. Pathetic.

 

[Otis Mallebrok]

Women are only worth what they are willing to do sexually. If they aren't willing to do anything sex wise, then they are worthless.

So, what exactly are women willing to do sexually with you? Let me take a guess....

 

[Pomniman]

Why would I have a midlife crisis, when I have every thing I need in my life, including family? You don't, though. You are the embodiment of that very fallen, decadent society at the turn of this wretched century. Instead of family you have pornography, computer games and take-out food. Pathetic.

And yet despite allegedly having "everything you need" you're still here trying to prove something yet convincing no one because deep down you know you've wasted your life chasing society's approval rather than finding any sort of genuine fulfillment. You have to imagine everyone who disagrees with you as a some porn-addicted slobbish strawman because all you have to show for your gud boi points is a fleeting illusion of having "made it" that you don't even feel all that convinced by as evidenced by your presence and words here.

Cope, seethe, but especially dilate.

 

[Lithuophile]

chasing society's approval

Too many tradlarpers push the "get married and have infinity kids" slogan to the point where it just becomes an ego trip. It nearly ruined the idea of marriage for me and I seriously contemplated monasticism. What's the point of a marriage if you can't even love your spouse? What's the point of having children if you don't even acknowledge them as human?

My current gf has been nothing short of amazing and I hope to marry her out of love, not out of a desire to fulfil some white nationalist basement dweller larp fantasy.

 

[Otterly]

What magic do women create?

Not the person you were replying to but; a home. Children, and a comfy home to raise them in. This time of year? All the Christmas stuff, the shopping and the cooking and the wrapping of thoughtful gifts (yes for his family too, everything wrapped nicely.) a house that’s decorated nicely, it’s not fancy but it’s home. A garden that’s full of growing things, fruit and veg. Food cooked from said things in season. A kitchen full of nice smells of bread and foods. Cook pretty much everything from scratch. Clothes kept clean, mended, fixing things that break. Animals cared for, vet trips and walks and all that. Caring for kids. Endless late nights when they won’t sleep or scraped kids knees disinfected and tears wiped. baking, fun and crafts and sports with said children. Taking them out to play. Sewing, knitting cute things for them. All our curtains and cushions are things I’ve sewn. Kid wrangling; helping them understand their homework. Caring for aged parents. If he’s sick or tired he gets a lie in and a cup of tea (and I expect the same in return.)
Aside from having a fucking magic wand to magic up gold bags and a castle, I think that’ll do, no? I keep hearing men say that all they want is a home and a family, is this not enough? What more is needed?

Post a picture of the last thing you cooked from scratch

I have a freezer and a fridge full of food. 95% plus of what we eat is properly cooked, from fresh stuff. I think maybe this is a millennial american thing but most of the world cooks food daily and couldn’t afford take out more than a couple of times a month.
If you’re getting into a serious relationship you need to talk to each other and set out what your expectations actually are. If you are expecting a stunning looking woman to fall for you you need to be on that level physically as well. Most people aren’t; maybe they’re a bit shorter or uglier than they’d like, and they pair off accordingly (actually I see more stunning girls with mid looking men than the other way around.)

Women are only worth what they are willing to do sexually. If they aren't willing to do anything sex wise, then they are worthless.

Not a healthy way to approach building a partnership. Sex is one part of a larger whole that requires mutual respect, responsibility and trust. Seeing all women as whores will mean you end up among whores, which I’m sure is great fun for a while, but it’s not a plan for a happy old age.

 

[Pomniman]

Too many tradlarpers push the "get married and have infinity kids" slogan to the point where it just becomes an ego trip. It nearly ruined the idea of marriage for me and I seriously contemplated monasticism. What's the point of a marriage if you can't even love your spouse? What's the point of having children if you don't even acknowledge them as human?

My current gf has been nothing short of amazing and I hope to marry her out of love, not out of a desire to fulfil some white nationalist basement dweller larp fantasy.

At the end of the day every trendy ideological movement that tells you how society ought to be is self-aggrandizing horseshit no one really lives up to in the way they want to. That's not to say I think getting married or having kids is bad, but no one should force themselves to marry and knock up whatever they can scrape up from the bottom of the barrel just for the sake of not being alone; if anything that's just as pathetic as living a completely debauched hedonistic lifestyle, because you're abandoning any and all standards you had out of raw animal fear — willfully becoming a kind of subhuman flesh automaton with no real agency, ironically enough.

 

[Spud]

Not a healthy way to approach building a partnership

I don't want a partnership with a woman, I'm want her burning genuine desire. I'm normal not a gay cowboy, I see calling your SO partner as extremely unromantic, you want to spend the rest of your life with this person and the best word you can describe them with is partner? I'd rather be called a flesh dildo than partner. Besides relationships are inequal by nature as there are things one of you are better at then the other and physical difference you can't hand-wave away. Chasing the false god of equality is why society is full of nigger and tranny propaganda rather than accepting that we're different and those difference can lead to different outcomes. Besides if you're not having sex with one another you're just glorified roommates, what's the point in marrying someone who doesn't desire having sex with you?

 

[Justa Grata Honoria]

I would settle

If these words left womans mouth you would all be chimping about being beta bucks and the man who accepts it is a cuck.

I am just pointing this out

 

[Pomniman]

If these words left womans mouth you would all be chimping about being beta bucks and the man who accepts it is a cuck.

I am just pointing this out

"Settling" is implicitly an action for losers because it means you're going for a hollow approximation of whatever you actually wanted. Doesn't matter which gender you apply the idea to.

 

[Bill Evans 45]

everything wrapped nicely

That's my thing. Mrs Bill giftwraps like a T-Rex on speed.

actually I see more stunning girls with mid looking men than the other way around

For which I am eternally grateful.

I would settle for someone even uglier than the girls in the picture if the intangible were top tier. (Charming, nice, maternal, funny, witty, interesting etc)

This is really important. During the course of a marriage, physical appearance will change through age, maybe illness or injury. In the long run, it's the person not the packaging that matters.

 

[Otterly]

I don't want a partnership with a woman, I'm want her burning genuine desire.

That’s part of it. That’s the only glue that binds you together at the start when there’s no other shared history. Desire and romantic love. But marriage IS a partnership, it’s a long term arrangement that will inevitably involve a lot of ups and downs and bad times and good. If sex is the only thing that keeps two people together there will be trouble down the line when one of you is injured, sick, or recently had a baby. What if you get hit by a IED when deployed and she’s wanting to bang young officers while you’re in hospital? Not so good.
The idea is that many things keep you together so that as one ebbs and flows it’s not disastrous. If money is all that unites you and one loses their job then you’d be stuffed, but if you’re still in love and enjoy each others company then that keeps you going until a new income stream is found. Sex is an important part of marriage, and differentiates marriage from other ties, it’s not the only thing. And nobody’s hot at seventy, but hopefully you’re still hot for each other AND enjoy each others company.

That's my thing. Mrs Bill giftwraps like a T-Rex on speed.

A good marriage is indeed a partnership where one partner’s insistence that it’s covered and fine and the kids just rip it off anyway can be matched by the other’s judicial application of some ribbon and neat corners…

"Settling" is implicitly an action for losers because it means you're going for a hollow approximation of whatever you actually wanted. Doesn't matter which gender you apply the idea to.

Depends. If the expectations were unreasonable, then it’s not settling so much as adjusting to reality. If someone demanded and expected someone with film star looks, a yacht, and a bank balance to match, then ends up marrying some great guy who is above average, have they settled or just realised what’s important?’ Settling for something you actively don’t want is different. Realising that some things aren’t so important is just growing up.

 

[Pomniman]

Depends. If the expectations were unreasonable, then it’s not settling so much as adjusting to reality. If someone demanded and expected someone with film star looks, a yacht, and a bank balance to match, then ends up marrying some great guy who is above average, have they settled or just realised what’s important?’ Settling for something you actively don’t want is different. Realising that some things aren’t so important is just growing up.

Ma'am, this is a shitposting webzone, none of us will ever grow up even in our 80s or 90s.

 

[Otterly]

Ma'am, this is a shitposting webzone, none of us will ever grow up even in our 80s or 90s.

Imagine the nursing homes in 2060. It’s going to be hilarious. Half the inmates shitposting and at least five percent demented troons who keep asking where their penis is. What larks we will have

 

[Kovachs]

So many people, in trying to describe the family life, are far too sentimental.

It's easy to see all the little egoisms and injury in their ideal.

 

[Pomniman]

So many people, in trying to describe the family life, are far too sentimental.

It's easy to see all the little egoisms and injury in their ideal.

I get the sense that a lot of people are way too invested in the practical side of wanting a family or in the social signifier of not being single/childless for their own good. Everyone wants these things if they're honest with themselves, yes, but if you take these kinds of matters too seriously early on that tends to backfire later on in life in a huge way also.

 

[JamusActimus]

This is really important. During the course of a marriage, physical appearance will change through age, maybe illness or injury. In the long run, it's the person not the packaging that matters.

Yeah longevity is also an important metric.
Having your partner in good health looking 10-20 years younger is so good. I would be so lucky if I have that.

If these words left womans mouth you would all be chimping about being beta bucks and the man who accepts it is a cuck.

I am just pointing this out

Maybe the choice of word was not perfect. The idea behind my post is that I would date someone I am not lookmatched with (ugly) if she had top tier intangibles.

 

[Wuornos]

Is not being a misogynistic cunt addicted to violent and degrading porn that much of a big ask? Plenty of men manage that every day.