Let's be objective for a moment here. Jordie's current behavior on stream is at a tame and not unusual Rainbow Six/CoD streamer level. The only reason why he gets called "insanely toxic" at this point is because of his past.
Take This video for example
Breaking Banquet is doing everything in his power to portray Wings in the least charitable way possible. He's edited down a full evening of streaming into 18 minutes and it's still mild. This despite the hyperbolic title
WingsOfRedemption CRIES OVER LOW VIEWERS As He Gets CLAPPED In Rainbow 6 Begging Stream!!! Show that video to a third party and they would be baffled as why someone spent hours editing it.
As to him and Kelly? Not irregular for an overweight, lowish income southern couple. Her losing weight might even result in a divorce. Again, not uncommon. But there are videos on youtube describing Jordie as an abusive monster released every week and it reeks of cope. Now, the whining shit, well of course. Jordie has bitch in his blood. No amount of depression medication is going to extract it.