Your morality on revenge

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I saw a thread of it, but the question was very vague.


Want to know how your moral code deals with revenge, what justifies it, and to what extent it can be applied.

I find that a commonly held approach says that it should be the legal system as an authority the only one who should judge & deal punishment, and if that were to fail, it just means that the justice system must be revised. For example, there was a case in which a mother purposefully murdered her daughter, but she ended up free from consequence. In such case, we can say that justice failed, and it should be adjusted properly so that these types of things don't happen again, but ultimately it follows that this authority solely has the right to act and deliver punishment, and no one else (if you don't agree with this, you can also post your thoughts).

But what happens when the justice system cannot deal with it because of real life limitations?
This is why the approach I'm asking about is practical (how'll you'll actually follow on your convictions) and not theoretical (the pretty thing written only on paper).

We're also under the assumption that there's no karma nonsense where by leaving them, they'll magically get what they deserve. Or that somehow they'll fuck up by their own hand, when it's not necessarily the case and is in fact unlikely of happening. But this is potentially your argument, so if you believe this, feel free to tell.


I can put some examples to give context, but you can bring your own:

Let's say someone comes to your property and vandalizes it (paints on it, destroys it, throws stuff at it from far away, etc) but you didn't have or just couldn't put security cameras/similar to protect it/catch the person, or it just wasn't enough, the police cannot do anything about it. Does this in theory give you the right to take revenge on this person, and to what extent? What if you saw them initially, and eventually you learn who it was but have no way of proving it, would you consider revenge if you know you'll get scot-free?

What if you learn that your neighbour kicked your pet that was running outside (on either your or public property), but again you have no way of proving it? Would you end up slashing his tires or something, and would that be a fair tradeoff?

What about if the annoyance is just constant but mild? Like someone going out of their way to be a negative in your day, but not to the point where it's illegal? Like being purposefully noisy near your property.

I've also heard of people annoyed specifically at pitbulls, where they condemn the owner to a great degree, but the pet as well. So the pitbull will end up injuring the other dog (in this case your own), does that justify any action taken outside of the law?
For this you can assume that the transgressors were not punished even after your reports.
 
If you're unwilling to get revenge, you make yourself a target. In a perfect world, revenge would be unnecessary. In ours, it's a defense mechanism.
 
How does committing another crime against a person or their property achieve justice?

Also, what if you're wrong and target someone who's innocent instead of the actual perpetrator? I don't think anybody would forget about the damage you did to them or their property because of your mistake. What if you killed them during this act? You can't bring them back to life so you're now a murderer.

The overall problem with revenge is it's a self-perpetuating cycle of destructive behaviors.
 
Revenge is a sucker's game. You get revenge, then they get revenge back, and so on, in an endless cycle of vengeance. Even if you kill them, someone will come after you for revenge. If you absolutely must take revenge, make sure the subsequent retribution falls on someone else, not you.
 
if you know 100% who did it, and the justice system fails to deal with the situation (because unlike you they have no way of knowing 100% who did it) then yes you are justified to take matters into your own hands.
however it is not that easy. you must be very careful, because taking justice into your own hands will likely involve illegal activity, and because of your previous problems with the target, the police will immediately look at you as the main suspect. so if you don't want to get jailed for your act of revenge, you need to do a good and clean job, leave no tracks and create no evidence. this is difficult.
 
For the morality it's a question of motive and equality, do you think the person who wronged you will continue to wrong people and deserves punishment or if it's just revenge for some personal slight. Bad dogs need to be put down but a dog that just personal pissed you off probably doesn't. When you're personal involved it also extremly easy to lose perspective on what the person actually did, say if someone fucked your wife it easy to want to kill him but the guy might not have even known she was married and is just a victim of circumstance (getting revenge on your wife is fair game) or if someone spread a rumor that fucked up your life you may want to lock them in a room for 15 year and trick him into fucking there own daughter but all the dude did was talk to much.

The practical reason to avoid revenge is the risk reward and the chain it creates. If you go stab someone who wronged you it probably feels really good for like 3 minutes but now you're a murderer and everyone they know will probably get the same idea as you. Even if you try to go machiavellian it's going to take years of effort and resources. If you somehow find a grand treasure on fired sandwich island and become a counte so you can financially ruin someone and getting there friend to kill him for you, once it done and the post revenge clarity comes in your out years of time and effort for a very momentary satisfaction.
 
Depends on what is considered revenge or not.

Most people would say that Amleth killing his uncle was revenge. What about when Beowulf ambushed Grendel and slew the monster and his mother, was that revenge?

Was the Trojan War an act of revenge for the kidnapping (sort of) of Helen? When SEAL team 6 killed Bin Laden was that revenge?

Seems like it's justice when you get someone else to punish someone that wronged you and it's revenge if you do it yourself.
 
People should either be caressed or crushed. If you do them minor damage they will get their revenge; but if you cripple them there is nothing they can do. If you need to injure someone, do it in such a way that you do not have to fear their vengeance. - Niccolo Machiavelli

I think that people tend to interpret this quote as an endorsement of violence, however, I interpret it at face value. If you seek revenge, it will be sought against you, so you had better be willing and able to completely incapacitate someone: physically, financially, etc.

So, to answer your question: it depends on what’s done to me. My freedom is valuable to me, moreso than a sense of justice- a concept that I have long come to terms with is not a consistent feature of life. If someone were to vandalize my property, for example, I’m not going to risk my freedom to seek revenge and to prevent them from harming me in the future. I also think that revenge is something relative to quality of life. People who are happy and content and well-off probably aren’t going to ruminate on getting back at someone if their car gets keyed. TL;DR For me to consider getting revenge on someone it would have to be easy, anonymous, and/or legal or the initial offense would have to reduce my quality of life to the extent that risking my freedom by incapacitating someone is worth it
 
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Revenge is just emotional indulgence, and it should be seen that way.

Plus an obsession with retribution or grudges often leads to a lack of growth, because if you believe you deserve revenge that means you've shifted focus away from yourself and whatever responsibility you hold for what happened and thus won't avoid winding up in the same position in the future.

That's modern victimhood culture in a lot of ways: people would rather live recklessly then cry or get mad when someone takes advantage of them, rather than just protect themselves from the start.

That said there's a bit of a blurry line between revenge vs. justice/deterrence. I'm sure tons of people engage in revenge over petty shit while telling themselves it's justice.

Revenge is a sucker's game. You get revenge, then they get revenge back, and so on, in an endless cycle of vengeance. Even if you kill them, someone will come after you for revenge. If you absolutely must take revenge, make sure the subsequent retribution falls on someone else, not you.
There's a lot of media out there with that message, but idk it kind of seems like revenge is only a cycle if you aren't very thorough about it.
 
The only reason REVENGE CUCKS exist is because we are undergoing HUMAN DOMESTICATION by the PEDOPHILE ELITE that controls our society and they don't want us seeking righteous vengeance upon them.

Never let them know it was you and the "cYcLe oF rEVeNge" faaaaaaaags complain about will never happen.
 
Charles Bronson taught me everything I needed to know about revenge
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anyone against has consumed too much modern media with the same empty platitudes
we just don't call righteous vengeance or reprisal vengeance

if you believe in the justice system or that one should exist, you believe in vengeance
Right, there's an important difference between revenge and vengeance. Vengeance is based on a desire for justice, revenge is retaliation for emotional reasons that doesn't right any wrongs or make whole any losses

For example, suing someone who injured you in a car accident is vengeance, you're making them pay for the injuries and cost they inflicted on you so you are made whole or as whole as possible. Sabotaging their brakes so they slam into a wall and injure themselves is revenge. You're no better off as a result and they are worse off.
 
How does committing another crime against a person or their property achieve justice?

Also, what if you're wrong and target someone who's innocent instead of the actual perpetrator? I don't think anybody would forget about the damage you did to them or their property because of your mistake. What if you killed them during this act? You can't bring them back to life so you're now a murderer.

The overall problem with revenge is it's a self-perpetuating cycle of destructive behaviors.
Gary Plauche, perhaps?
 
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