Weight loss support thread

Anyone have any experience with a Couch-to-5K program? I downloaded the C25K app and want to give it a try, but I'm not in a good position time-wise to start it yet. I have been doing some long walks since the weather warmed up, so I'm not starting entirely from "the couch," but I don't think I've run anywhere in years.
This is a late reply but I started couch to 5k two weeks ago and so far I've really liked it. I have tried running with another program a few times before but that one advanced too fast for me and I kept failing until I lost interest. C25k hasn't been easy either but I've succeeded so far and for the first time ever I've actually enjoyed running.

I'm glad I found this thread. Long story short I had some health-related problems in 2018, started binge-eating and ended up gaining 80lbs in a relatively short period of time. I've since lost 40 punds but my weight keeps fluctuating because my eating habits have always been terrible. Before I gained all that weight I stayed thin by switching between starving myself and eating in an unhealthy manner but now if I try that same technique I'll end up binging and gaining even more.

Last winter I once again gained some of the weight back (10 pounds to be exact) but this time I want to lose it and (some more) for good. My health-care provider offers an online weight-loss program and I started on it three weeks ago. I've been logging my meals, switching saturated fats into unsaturated ones, limited my sugar intake and started eating more fibre as well as fruits and vegetables. Things I should have done years ago but oh well, at least I'm doing them now I guess. I also started running three times a week and going to an aqua class (lame I know, it's mostly seniors there but I really enjoy it) once a week. So far I've lost 3 pounds and I haven't felt the need to binge once.

I'm currently weighing 161,8lbs. My first goal is 150lbs (-11,8 pounds) and my end goal is to reach normal weight which would be 137lbs for my height (-24,8lbs). I'm aiming for losing around 4 pounds a month so I'm hoping to reach 150lbs in September.

(Not to be sappy but I'm honestly relieved to find a place that is not all "haes" and "losing weight is impossible" It's so discouraging to try and make real changes while being bombarded with those messages.)
 
This is a late reply but I started couch to 5k two weeks ago and so far I've really liked it. I have tried running with another program a few times before but that one advanced too fast for me and I kept failing until I lost interest. C25k hasn't been easy either but I've succeeded so far and for the first time ever I've actually enjoyed running.
Yeah, if you don't enjoy the workout it's hard to stick with it. I always recommend people keep trying things until they want to find something to stick with.
Last winter I once again gained some of the weight back (10 pounds to be exact) but this time I want to lose it and (some more) for good. My health-care provider offers an online weight-loss program and I started on it three weeks ago. I've been logging my meals, switching saturated fats into unsaturated ones, limited my sugar intake and started eating more fibre as well as fruits and vegetables. Things I should have done years ago but oh well, at least I'm doing them now I guess. I also started running three times a week and going to an aqua class (lame I know, it's mostly seniors there but I really enjoy it) once a week. So far I've lost 3 pounds and I haven't felt the need to binge once.
Better late than never. Don't worry about people mocking you for doing an aquarobics class, it's exercise and they're NGMI. Only suggestion I'd make is adding in some actual swimming to build lean muscle in your upper body too to really torch the adipose tissue.
I'm currently weighing 161,8lbs. My first goal is 150lbs (-11,8 pounds) and my end goal is to reach normal weight which would be 137lbs for my height (-24,8lbs). I'm aiming for losing around 4 pounds a month so I'm hoping to reach 150lbs in September.
11 pounds in 3 months is definitely doable. Just keep your goals in mind and you'll make it. Don't worry too much if you fall short by a couple pounds, though. If you're less than you were before that's the most important thing.
(Not to be sappy but I'm honestly relieved to find a place that is not all "haes" and "losing weight is impossible" It's so discouraging to try and make real changes while being bombarded with those messages.)
Yeah, get out of the bucket of crabs. Fatties are the worst when it comes to coping, and none of them actually believe the bullshit they're spouting (it's why they're so sensitive despite claiming they're fine). Finding a good support line is extremely helpful to losing weight, but the HAES morons want all the praise with none of the work.
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Anyway, I'm also going to share my progress. I ended up really doing...something to my arm. No clue what it was, but the pain was bad enough I couldn't sleep through the night. There was a pulling pain up near my neck, shooting pains down my arm, and stabbing pains in my tricep. The worst was on a thin line running from the base of my neck to the top of my tricep, and my chiropractor was useless. I feel better now, though. I tried to keep up OMAD while I was recovering and was losing weight, but the depression of not being able to do anything other than sit on my butt and watch TV got to me (no shit, my arm was hurting so bad holding a controller or using a keyboard was too painful to do for any meaningful length of time) and the last week off I went overboard on eating. Total weight loss at the end of last month was 10 pounds, and it's holding because old habits resurfaced. I'll get there though.

I got a MyZone fitness tracker last month, and once the pain relented enough to get me back in the gym I used it and found out I was underestimating my calorie burn by almost half (and keep in mind, this isn't the two or three hour conditioning sessions I was doing pre-arm fuckery. It was a half hour to an hour). What does that mean? Oh, nothing much unless you count starving yourself as a major problem, and it was probably the reason I lost almost a month's worth of training. So now I'm eating enough (back to three meals a day because I burn 1000 kcals a day at least between boxing lessons and swimming), taking HMB and creatine, and the soreness is almost totally gone. I still have tight knots up and down my arm, but I work on them every day and stretch longer before and after my workouts and they've been loosening up. Might need to start seeing a massage therapist every few months. Currently 280 and twenty pounds away from my first hundred lost! I'm so close I can taste it!
 
I'm finding things really hard when I go into the office since there are snacks surrounding me and people asking me if I want in on group take away orders.

It's so much easier when I am at home where I only allow myself to buy groceries of what I am allowed to eat, keep no snacks or drinks.
 
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I'm finding things really hard when I go into the office since there are snacks surrounding me and people asking me if I want in on group take away orders.

It's so much easier when I am at home where I only allow myself to buy groceries of what I am allowed to eat, keep no snacks or drinks.

Maybe keep a stash of low cal snacks at work to raid if you get tempted? I've shilled these on this thread before, but the crispy seaweed thins in the link below have really helped me in the past - particularly the strongly flavoured ones like wasabi and they're only 20-odd calories per pack: https://www.itsu.com/grocery/products/snacks/ The chocolate rice cakes might be more help if chocolate is your weak spot though.

Can't really help regards the group orders other than the usual "see if you can pre pack lunch" sort of thing, which you've probably considered already! Maybe make sure that what you take is full of non-fat sources of flavour like spices etc. If it's something legit tasty then hopefully you won't feel like you're missing out?

Sounds weird but I have one of those premixed spice grinder thingies in my bag that has chilli, citrus powder, garlic and all sorts in it. It means that if I end up having to grab a sad looking pre-cut salad I can at least put as much flavour to enjoy onto it without worrying about a high cal dressing (plus it travels/stores well without having to worry about leaks or spoiling)
 
Maybe keep a stash of low cal snacks at work to raid if you get tempted? I've shilled these on this thread before, but the crispy seaweed thins in the link below have really helped me in the past - particularly the strongly flavoured ones like wasabi and they're only 20-odd calories per pack: https://www.itsu.com/grocery/products/snacks/ The chocolate rice cakes might be more help if chocolate is your weak spot though.

Can't really help regards the group orders other than the usual "see if you can pre pack lunch" sort of thing, which you've probably considered already! Maybe make sure that what you take is full of non-fat sources of flavour like spices etc. If it's something legit tasty then hopefully you won't feel like you're missing out?

Sounds weird but I have one of those premixed spice grinder thingies in my bag that has chilli, citrus powder, garlic and all sorts in it. It means that if I end up having to grab a sad looking pre-cut salad I can at least put as much flavour to enjoy onto it without worrying about a high cal dressing (plus it travels/stores well without having to worry about leaks or spoiling)
I'm on a pretty strict diet currently because I'm trying to clean bulk, so I always bring my own food to work, it's just hard to stay strong when it's been months since I've had something delicious like fried chicken and I can smell it because my desk mate is having it lol.

Or when we have a work "event" where the boss orders everyone lunch and I just sit there eating my chicken/rice/potatos LOL
 
I'm on a pretty strict diet currently because I'm trying to clean bulk, so I always bring my own food to work, it's just hard to stay strong when it's been months since I've had something delicious like fried chicken and I can smell it because my desk mate is having it lol.

Or when we have a work "event" where the boss orders everyone lunch and I just sit there eating my chicken/rice/potatos LOL
Trust me, I feel that. Food is getting dropped on us in my office because of a snack lady. Since my job is sitting in the place where the snacks get dropped off, I shamefully admit sometimes my weakness gets the best of me.
 
It's been a little over a year for me of working out trying to get back in the same shape I was at in the military. Was at 215 in April 2021, now at 170. Also dropped from around a 44 inch ab circumference down to 36.5. It hasn't been anything magical or super hardcore, it's mostly just been a combination of diet and exercise. Started out with 3 days a week and switched over to 5 days a week around Jan/Feb. Pretty much cut all soda/energy drinks out of the diet and also switched to cooking fresh foods most of the time. The biggest hurdle to overcome IMO is the laziness factor when it comes to food - you can exercise a ton but if you're just eating fast food or processed crap you're either going to see an extremely slow loss or completely negate any work you've been doing.

That's not to say you can't have snacks or anything, I occasionally have a couple small cookies or a small bag of chips, but it's infrequent. Dinners I also tend to eat whatever I want, I just cut out or minimize sides. It's just having the willpower and resolve to keep it up, which threads like this legit help to encourage.
 
Started doing a super easy all-over workout to do for 15 minutes a day at first (sit-ups, then crunches, then arm circles to warm up my stiff shoulders before doing dumbell shit). I started out doing 15 minutes of huffing and puffing, and a month and a half later I can do up to 40 minutes with small breaks :)
Congrats dude now I want to know I was able to do Weight lifting for 10 minutes before being worn out and I keep grunting do you have any tips for lasting longer.
 
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Congrats dude now I want to know I was able to do Weight lifting for 10 minutes before being worn out and I keep grunting do you have any tips for lasting longer.
Tbh I started out with little 5 pound dumbells and did curls with a timer of about ten minutes. Then I'd do curls and other basic stuff while watching TV, take a twenty minute break, and do it again if I felt up to it. Over time I just got more willing to do one more set, and then worked my way up to twenty minute sessions before switching to 10 pound dumbbells, and once I'm back from vacation I'll see if I need to stick with 10 or go up again.

I'm not knowledgeable at all but as a fellow beginner, I'd say to not be afraid to take long breaks in between sets. I just conditioned myself into doing one 15 minute workout a day at first by doing 5 minutes followed by a long break, then doing it again.
 
Tbh I started out with little 5 pound dumbells and did curls with a timer of about ten minutes. Then I'd do curls and other basic stuff while watching TV, take a twenty minute break, and do it again if I felt up to it. Over time I just got more willing to do one more set, and then worked my way up to twenty minute sessions before switching to 10 pound dumbbells, and once I'm back from vacation I'll see if I need to stick with 10 or go up again.

I'm not knowledgeable at all but as a fellow beginner, I'd say to not be afraid to take long breaks in between sets. I just conditioned myself into doing one 15 minute workout a day at first by doing 5 minutes followed by a long break, then doing it again.
You are completely correct that taking breaks between sets helps, especially when you are training for strength improvements.

How you can apply this later in your progression is to do your max, wait 3-5 minutes to recover that strength and then do (or try) to do it again. This helps you keep the weight per minute up higher than if you waited less time between sets but did "drop sets" where you took the weight progressively downwards from the top.

I'd also throw out there that you don't have to sit there for 10 minutes curling a weight you can easily do (no matter how bad you think you are, if you can curl it for 10 minutes straight you are crushing it at that weight level). Just try 15 pounds, but instead of timing it, count the amount of reps you do and aim for 5, moving up the volume until you are satisfied at that weight level. This is definitely more sustainable in the long run and will free up time for you to try some other things. Like if you are developing your biceps, you'll maybe wanna also try doing a little work on your triceps. You can do that with the same dumbbells; just put one behind your head and start from it low, cupped in both of your hands so that the bar is vertical instead of horizontal, then extend your arms to bring it high and repeat. This will work the back of your arms as well and add some variety to the training.
 
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(Not to be sappy but I'm honestly relieved to find a place that is not all "haes" and "losing weight is impossible" It's so discouraging to try and make real changes while being bombarded with those messages.)
It's a little sad when people have to come to the horrible Kiwi Farms just to hear people be reasonable. Fat women do indeed tend to be terrible, and I think there are a lot of them who don't like to recognize how much their weight is an honest reflection of their attitude and who they are as a person.

Obsessing over one's weight isn't going to be helpful, especially if it causes them to not to do other things or makes them overly worked up; hell, an appropriately anxious person will be hyperventilating by the time they climb the stairs regardless of their weight. Neuroticism makes people ache, it causes inflammation, it increases blood pressure, it just isn't good for you in general.
That said the idea of being obese makes no sense just on a practical level divorced from what anyone else thinks, it's just inefficient and a little dumb to haul that much extra weight around constantly. A person doesn't have to be an adonis, but if being bogged down to that extent doesn't bother someone, then I think they need to examine why the state of their body as a tool seems so unimportant to them.

You are completely correct that taking breaks between sets helps, especially when you are training for strength improvements.

How you can apply this later in your progression is to do your max, wait 3-5 minutes to recover that strength and then do (or try) to do it again. This helps you keep the weight per minute up higher than if you waited less time between sets but did "drop sets" where you took the weight progressively downwards from the top.

I'd also throw out there that you don't have to sit there for 10 minutes curling a weight you can easily do (no matter how bad you think you are, if you can curl it for 10 minutes straight you are crushing it at that weight level). Just try 15 pounds, but instead of timing it, count the amount of reps you do and aim for 5, moving up the volume until you are satisfied at that weight level. This is definitely more sustainable in the long run and will free up time for you to try some other things. Like if you are developing your biceps, you'll maybe wanna also try doing a little work on your triceps. You can do that with the same dumbbells; just put one behind your head and start from it low, cupped in both of your hands so that the bar is vertical instead of horizontal, then extend your arms to bring it high and repeat. This will work the back of your arms as well and add some variety to the training.
My grandfather was a freak for push ups, and I have to agree with him. If you keep your back absolutely straight and go below parallel (I usually go until I brush my nose on the ground, since that way you get some kind of tactile feedback), do however many of those a day and you will notice the changes in your chest and shoulders fairly quickly.

Personally I think exercises like pushups and pull ups are way more enjoyable rather than screwing around with weights, and the ability to get on the ground and do them at any second and have them be done with is going to be a monumental benefit. I just got off my chair as I was writing this and did 15. They're immediate, there's never any lead up to dissuade yourself. Didn't do them earlier? Then do them now right where you are, they'll be over before you know it.

You can only do so much to reduce the physical work you need to do, but you can do a whole lot to reduce the mental work. The less deliberate the process of getting exercise is the better, and the more organic and useful the strength you gain from it will be. At least that's how I look at it.
 
Trust me, I feel that. Food is getting dropped on us in my office because of a snack lady. Since my job is sitting in the place where the snacks get dropped off, I shamefully admit sometimes my weakness gets the best of me.
I totally know that feeling, due to working at an essential job during the height of covid, people kept bringing my workplace pizza and crap almost every day for three months straight, it was insane.

Speaking of which, my friend was up to visit and I definitely ate terribly the three days he was up. I have a hard time saying no when people ask "Would you like fries with that" or whatever which is the oldest trick in the book when it comes to sales.

Luckily I am back in the saddle when it comes to my eating plan and been riding my bike. Only problem I am having is I am having a hard time remembering to record my food. I often forget and it is hard to set a reminder when I don't eat at consistent times.
 
If you maintain your foundation with 80/20 ground beef + eggs + bacon + home made bone broth the cost is not that high.

It's nice to eat a steak, but I only eat it when I can get it at a really good discount.
Often those sort of prices are when you buy the whole loin (and not pre-packaged steaks)

After a while, you actually reduce the volume of food you are eating, as the fatty food is satiating.
And I don't buy any more junk food or snacks.
Any pointers on this, what I always struggle with is what does a day look like regarding amounts
 
It's a little sad when people have to come to the horrible Kiwi Farms just to hear people be reasonable. Fat women do indeed tend to be terrible, and I think there are a lot of them who don't like to recognize how much their weight is an honest reflection of their attitude and who they are as a person.

Obsessing over one's weight isn't going to be helpful, especially if it causes them to not to do other things or makes them overly worked up; hell, an appropriately anxious person will be hyperventilating by the time they climb the stairs regardless of their weight. Neuroticism makes people ache, it causes inflammation, it increases blood pressure, it just isn't good for you in general.
That said the idea of being obese makes no sense just on a practical level divorced from what anyone else thinks, it's just inefficient and a little dumb to haul that much extra weight around constantly. A person doesn't have to be an adonis, but if being bogged down to that extent doesn't bother someone, then I think they need to examine why the state of their body as a tool seems so unimportant to them.


My grandfather was a freak for push ups, and I have to agree with him. If you keep your back absolutely straight and go below parallel (I usually go until I brush my nose on the ground, since that way you get some kind of tactile feedback), do however many of those a day and you will notice the changes in your chest and shoulders fairly quickly.

Personally I think exercises like pushups and pull ups are way more enjoyable rather than screwing around with weights, and the ability to get on the ground and do them at any second and have them be done with is going to be a monumental benefit. I just got off my chair as I was writing this and did 15. They're immediate, there's never any lead up to dissuade yourself. Didn't do them earlier? Then do them now right where you are, they'll be over before you know it.

You can only do so much to reduce the physical work you need to do, but you can do a whole lot to reduce the mental work. The less deliberate the process of getting exercise is the better, and the more organic and useful the strength you gain from it will be. At least that's how I look at it.
I like to try push ups. But my elbow joints keep hurting. So I guess it's a form issue?
 
Any pointers on this, what I always struggle with is what does a day look like regarding amounts

Currently I have three eggs + bacon (or all beef sausages) fried in ghee first my first meal.
Then later in the day a second meal with about 500g of ground beef patties topped with melted cheese.
Up to a couple times a week I will have lamb/steak/chicken/roast (whatever I can get at discount) instead of the ground beef.

l also have a large cup of bone broth (lately, in the morning)

If I am still hungry, I got some pemmican.
But the fattier the meat, the less I get peckish
 
Currently I have three eggs + bacon (or all beef sausages) fried in ghee first my first meal.
Then later in the day a second meal with about 500g of ground beef patties topped with melted cheese.
Up to a couple times a week I will have lamb/steak/chicken/roast (whatever I can get at discount) instead of the ground beef.

l also have a large cup of bone broth (lately, in the morning)

If I am still hungry, I got some pemmican.
But the fattier the meat, the less I get peckish
Thanks, looks doable.

I did keto before and enjoyed the results but found it a pita with counting carbs etc, so have been looking for something simpler even jest to try for a season
 
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