So I heard that the average american male has laid with 7 maidens in his life, is this the truth?

That sounds like a really fulfilling relationship.
Love/Relationship is not the same thing as sex. But, that is a commonly held belief, I was guilty of it (thinking I had to be in love with someone to have sex with them) when I was young.

As you get older, you come to realize that you can have sex simply for the sake of sex without any emotional attachment. And that plays the same way for men and women. I've had plenty of one-night stands and I have been the one-night stand many times as well.
 
all the pussy is going to the top 20 percent of guys just like the money
It's probably even worse now due to Tinder.
kill all sex havers
OK Elliot, you are the most supreme of gentlemen.
We’re talking about a gender that considers 80% of men below average. If you can meet the wildly overinflated expectations of women, then sure, you’re just fine. But there are guys who’d have no problem in 1990 that would struggle in 2020. It’s all tied into the growth of dating sites and apps where women get dozens of messages daily. If you don’t think this won’t have disastrous consequences to society, you’re lying to yourself.
I don't know if that's actually true, but fuck dating apps.
Love/Relationship is not the same thing as sex. But, that is a commonly held belief, I was guilty of it (thinking I had to be in love with someone to have sex with them) when I was young.

As you get older, you come to realize that you can have sex simply for the sake of sex without any emotional attachment. And that plays the same way for men and women. I've had plenty of one-night stands and I have been the one-night stand many times as well.
Many incels and people at risk of becoming incels do at least start out as romantic "Nice Guy" types. To be honest they often lack the looks and social standing for a fling and the emotional maturity or financial stability for a relationship. And they often fail to understand this fact.

Edit: Also I would like to add that it would probably be a good idea to address the fact that girls often pretend to like you to get something out of you. A lot of guys don't realize that fact especially in the early years of puberty.
 
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I don't know if that's actually true, but fuck dating apps.
It's kind of true but also not. Trying to hook up with hotties on a dating app as a man is like shooting a resume to a highly competitive job, you're probably just going to end up on the pile of other resumes. It's not due to overinflated expectations, it's just that you're one of forty or fifty other cunts who also tried.

Just talk to people in person so you have a chance to stand out and you'll be fine.
 
It's not like wealth distribution where the the top 1% of guys are keeping an exclusive harem of 50% of all women that nobody else can fuck, on a societal scale the median and average are gonna be about the same. Maybe I'm being too optimistic, but in the age of dating sites the guys that aren't getting laid aren't trying hard enough in one way or another. Track your calories, do a basic PHUL or PPL split, wait at least three minutes before bringing up how nice her ass is, and you're golden.
Good joke.

The average woman actually using a dating site is a 5/10 hambeast, a single mother, or someone whose son insufferable you bail after the first date.

The hot ones are on them for a few days, line up 10-50 guys and pick the best from that list. Or they already found someone and are usually the apps for validation/their OF side business.

Also, women these days have a ridiculously high opinion of themselves and have extremely high standards. Like if you're average.... Your only options are fatties and single moms. That's why college is important for meeting people, it puts lots of young adults together for a few years at a relatively equal playing field. Ex. You're all mostly broke and see each other daily or weekly.

Guys who are above average or who know who to fake looking wealthy or well travelled can SMASH weekly or even daily. See the Tinder Swindler guy.
 
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Dude I never did any of that shit and I had plenty of sex in my younger years. I mean shit, at one point I got silly with it and slept with 3 different women all at the same time, and it was mostly because I was in a band, not a fucking uggo (nor anything special), and I have the gift of the gab as we call it. I think of it was highly effective lying, but shit, do what you can do. Either be gifted into wealth, being that top 1% of guys who are naturally beautiful, or just do what most men do and lie your arse into the bedroom. Making them laugh is highly effective.

I find with a lot of young men they lack the, hmm, will is not the right word, the fearlessness of actually making a move. I mean, I have been rejected, stings the first time but then after that its just funny and you learn from it. Its strange how ill prepared younger people are for the world, and they fucking talk about their politics all the time. All serious about it as well, its fucking retarded. DOesnt matter what side you find yourself on, leave that shit for when you have a better relationship with the woman.

Its why I laugh when people on here and mostly 4chan when I used it the odd time, and they say women are all woke as shit. Some are yeah, but seriously, get to know some women and you will hear some of the most racist shit you have ever heard in your life. A few times even a fucking cunt like me has thought "Fucking hell love, clam down, we shouldn't advocate for genocide as a thing, just deport them, fucking hell!"
You sound like a Britbong and it's know that in Bongland women go APESHIT for any cunt in a band because they believe that MAYBE this guy will be in the next Beatles.

Meanwhile in 2022 you'll get your life DESTROYED by some vengeful harradian with a few well placed FB posts and phone calls.
 
The average american deflowered seven virgins? I find that hard to believe because of the supply and demand involved.
 
Seems about right. Not that it’s anyone’s business how many people I (or anyone else) have fucked, and those that brag are probably exaggerating.

But I’m glad that I hovered around the average before settling down. Practice makes perfect.
 
I spent the first part of my sexual life being committed to the women I was with and had very low partner numbers in my earlier years and preferred partnerships. That changed in my later 20's and lower 30's simply due to this crazy idea that was being promoted by the guys I knew that it was common to screw lots of women and so I started going after lots of girls. So I ended up in the higher percentage.

But I've now been married for quite some time and am a family man and happy.

Again, man has always been defined by the ability to control and manipulate his primal urges rather than succumb to them and while I've no doubt that there are those on this forum who'd suggest it is entirely possible to raise a family unit while being loose sexually, my experience through observation has been as a general rule entirely the opposite. I find that men and women who while raising a family unit engage is promiscuous behavior tend to do poorly ar raising a family and often their children reflect behavior learned.

There are of course exceptions but from what I've seen the rule holds true.

Sleeping with a lot of women I think is a trophy won my people running their own races. Meaning they they come first - and last.
 
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At what age is this average man when he's been with 7 women?

By KF standards i'm pretty old. I'll say this - it gets much easier as you get older. The standards of single women ease significantly and even slow fucks like me learn what works. All that to say, age significantly affects your number.

theres this hot little thing at my work but shes like 10 years younger. i mean i just had my 24th birhday so im good!
 
I would say its uncommon tbh, I was lucky during my college days and had some success at the bars before shacking up with my wife. But I know alot guys who are 20+ range who hasn't even had kiss nor been laid.
 
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