Fair enough -- Truth is, I have not much to gain, and probably plenty to lose, by risking myself posting to KF.
That's why I'm inclined to listen, even if not necessarily believe, your points. It's well-known by now that anything that gets posted in this thread gets back to Luke and his sycophants immediately. Therefore anyone who's part of any leftist and/or trans circles in, not just London, but probably all of Ontario, is going to suffer consequences for being part of the evil hate site Mango Ranch.
Yes, they all read it and a few probably even post here, attacking their enemies. But if you lose that plausible deniability, the hypocrites will be the ones who attack you the most.
Of course, Luke knows who you are, so that cat is out of the bag anyway. You must know that this gives him power over you again, because he can expose and exile you all over again whenever he wants, to whatever degree he wants - photos, dox, anything he still has to smear you with.
Being wary of photos of the two of you is one thing, I get that. But it wouldn't take much to redact most of your evidence - from your face to your name - and post it. And as has been stated, a lot you can send to the mods and they'll verify it but not release it, because we like facts and evidence here, with a side of shitting on most people.
I think the thing to remember is you're not our target, your ex is. We're not your enemy, your ex is. We don't care about you unless you're lying to us, which doesn't sound great except that you know for a fact that Lucas and his circle wish you harm no matter how honest you're being.
Not a great position, I'll grant you. But only one group of people has even a chance of listening and believing - and it's not the group that routinely parrots 'believe victims/women,' because, well, they didn't believe you, did they.