Were incels avoidable?

[Bunny Tracks]

And that's what irks me about women. Any time a woman mistreats a man, the man deserves it. Every single time. I am a perfectly capable and mature individual, I am not a literal four year old who needs to be screamed at because I am watching a video on YouTube or because I missed a turn driving.

Look, I'm just gonna say it. Why do you keep trying to see your mother if she's hurt you so much? Why don't you just leave her like she left you?

 

[Don't Tread on Me]

Look, I'm just gonna say it. Why do you keep trying to see your mother if she's hurt you so much? Why don't you just leave her like she left you?

I tried to. After I grazed that car, I told her I wasn't going to speak to her ever again. I blocked her number. I was ready to shut her out of my life.

I even ignored her on her birthday.

But a few months later she sent me a letter in the mail, a real postal letter because it was the only way she could reach me.

My dad gets ignored by my two brothers. He reaches out to them as much as he can. I have no issues ignoring both of them, they're drug addicts and criminals. But I see how it hurts my dad that his own sons, who he worked hard to raise and provide for for eighteen years, just cut him entirely out of their lives. And I can't do the same to my mother. I just can't. I don't have it in me to be mean to anyone.

 

[Bunny Tracks]

I tried to. After I grazed that car, I told her I wasn't going to speak to her ever again. I blocked her number. I was ready to shut her out of my life.

I even ignored her on her birthday.

But a few months later she sent me a letter in the mail, a real postal letter because it was the only way she could reach me.

My dad gets ignored by my two brothers. He reaches out to them as much as he can. I have no issues ignoring both of them, they're drug addicts and criminals. But I see how it hurts my dad that his own sons, who he worked hard to raise and provide for for eighteen years, just cut him entirely out of their lives. And I can't do the same to my mother. I just can't. I don't have it in me to be mean to anyone.

My brother in Christ, I gotta point out how your past statements about being a rape apologist and misogynist contradict that last statement, not to mention the rest of this entire post.

 

[AnOminous]

I tried to. After I grazed that car, I told her I wasn't going to speak to her ever again. I blocked her number. I was ready to shut her out of my life.

So you can't even drive without hitting shit? Are you sure you're even a man? Because I'm picking up serious troon vibes off you. The only people I've ever seen who talk like you all end up trooning out. Might as well get it over with.

 

[Ultrapenguin]

My brother in Christ, I gotta point out how your past statements about being a rape apologist and misogynist contradict that last statement, not to mention the rest of this entire post.

Like I said before, this homey doesn't read like someone who actually hates women, actual misogynists/misandrists aren't usually that upfront about it. He's clearly just a frustrated and probably lonely weirdo.

Welcome to the club I guess.

Because I'm picking up serious troon vibes off you.

Man, that would be a twist.

 

[Don't Tread on Me]

My brother in Christ, I gotta point out how your past statements about being a rape apologist and misogynist contradict that last statement, not to mention the rest of this entire post.

I disagree. I stated to you, quite plainly, that I would never harm a woman. Just because I hate women, including my mother, does not mean I want to hurt them. I don't care if they are raped by other people, and I will not defend them or argue on their behalf in those instances. But I can't hurt anyone.

 

[Bunny Tracks]

I disagree. I stated to you, quite plainly, that I would never harm a woman. Just because I hate women, including my mother, does not mean I want to hurt them. I don't care if they are raped by other people, and I will not defend them or argue on their behalf in those instances. But I can't hurt anyone.

You do realize you not wanting to personally hurt them, but not caring if they do get hurt counts as being mean, right?

Doubling-back on the values you'd teach your hypothetical child for a sec, I noticed how you said "polite, loyal, and respectful", but nothing about love, kindness, empathy, and shit like that.

Why?

 

[Don't Tread on Me]

You do realize you not wanting to personally hurt them, but not caring if they do get hurt counts as being mean, right?

No. Apathy is just apathy. It's not mean to not care. It's neutral. Mean would be teasing or laughing at their suffering. Or inflicting it. Like I said, I just have my own life to live and I'm not interested in worrying about other people.

Doubling-back on the values you'd teach your hypothetical child, I noticed how you said "polite, loyal, and respectful", but nothing about kindness, empathy, and shit like that.

Why?

I have a negative opinion of empathy, I think empathy is overused. And I think it's mostly fake. You don't know what it's like to be someone else, no matter how similar of a situation you have been in to theirs. You also don't know all their extenuating circumstances. So you're never right when you try and empathize with anyone, and it's an empty gesture anyway. It's a waste of time and it encourages the sort of virtue signaling we see all the time these days. Too many people trying to pretend they're good people by crying about causes they have nothing to do with, not enough actual good people.

Kindness is fine but it's not something I would focus on. If the kid wants to be kind to others, let her. If it's not something that comes naturally to her, I'm not going to force it. She needs to learn to stand up straight, to look people in the eye when she's talking to them, and to say "sir" and "ma'am" a lot.

 

[The Last Stand]

I disagree. I stated to you, quite plainly, that I would never harm a woman. Just because I hate women, including my mother, does not mean I want to hurt them. I don't care if they are raped by other people, and I will not defend them or argue on their behalf in those instances. But I can't hurt anyone.

I get that some parents aren't the best, but good God. What is wrong with you?

 

[AnOminous]

I disagree. I stated to you, quite plainly, that I would never harm a woman. Just because I hate women, including my mother, does not mean I want to hurt them. I don't care if they are raped by other people, and I will not defend them or argue on their behalf in those instances. But I can't hurt anyone.

So you're not just a hateful asshole, but a complete pussy too.

Definite troon material.

 

[Bunny Tracks]

I have a negative opinion of empathy, I think empathy is overused. And I think it's mostly fake. You don't know what it's like to be someone else, no matter how similar of a situation you have been in to theirs. You also don't know all their extenuating circumstances. So you're never right when you try and empathize with anyone, and it's an empty gesture anyway. It's a waste of time and it encourages the sort of virtue signaling we see all the time these days. Too many people trying to pretend they're good people by crying about causes they have nothing to do with, not enough actual good people.

Kindness is fine but it's not something I would focus on. If the kid wants to be kind to others, let her. If it's not something that comes naturally to her, I'm not going to force it. She needs to learn to stand up straight, to look people in the eye when she's talking to them, and to say "sir" and "ma'am" a lot.

Okay, so the statement about people with mommy issues being sociopaths was true then. Good to know.

Jokes aside, you feel wronged by women, and get mad when people don't empathize with you, and yet you yourself think empathy is overrated, and pointless. Seems pretty telling, not to mention hypocritical.

And judging from your comments about you hypothetical children again, I don't think you want an actual child. I think you just want someone to control.

 

[Don't Tread on Me]

Jokes aside, you feel wronged by women, and get mad when people don't empathize with you, and yet you yourself think empathy is overrated, and pointless. Seems pretty telling, not to mention hypocritical.

Yes, I am a hypocrite, as is pretty much every other human in existence. If people aren't willing to empathize with me, why should I bother with them?

And judging from your comments about you hypothetical children again, I don't think you want an actual child. I think you just want someone to control.

Then I suppose it's a good thing I'm not going to have one.

 

[Stabmaster Arson II]

Yes, I am a hypocrite, as is pretty much every other human in existence. If people aren't willing to empathize with me, why should I bother with them?

Dude, just get a dog. All you have to do is feed it walk it, and don't beat it and they think you're the best thing ever. If you're too much of a sped for women the animal kingdom (well dogs at least) will welcome you.

Cats will be able to smell the loser on you and leave. Get a dog. It's the safest way to live out your control issue.

 

[Bunny Tracks]

Yes, I am a hypocrite, as is pretty much every other human in existence. If people aren't willing to empathize with me, why should I bother with them?

See, I don't think you actually can empathize.

I think you can hold a conversation with someone if it's about something you like just as we did briefly with Yugioh, but the moment you get bored, the mask slips.

Then I suppose it's a good thing I'm not going to have one.

Yeah, probably. Thank god btw, because a child raised by a low-functioning sociopath wouldn't turn out very well.

 

[Begemot]

I disagree. I stated to you, quite plainly, that I would never harm a woman. Just because I hate women, including my mother, does not mean I want to hurt them. I don't care if they are raped by other people, and I will not defend them or argue on their behalf in those instances. But I can't hurt anyone.

What if this hatred of women would be helped if you became a woman through transitioning?

 

[PeggieBigCock]

What the fuck is going on in here

 

[Dude Snakes]

I missread the thread as Are Incels Adorable? lol.

 

[Ferryman]

No. Apathy is just apathy. It's not mean to not care. It's neutral. Mean would be teasing or laughing at their suffering. Or inflicting it. Like I said, I just have my own life to live and I'm not interested in worrying about other people.

I have a negative opinion of empathy, I think empathy is overused. And I think it's mostly fake. You don't know what it's like to be someone else, no matter how similar of a situation you have been in to theirs. You also don't know all their extenuating circumstances. So you're never right when you try and empathize with anyone, and it's an empty gesture anyway. It's a waste of time and it encourages the sort of virtue signaling we see all the time these days. Too many people trying to pretend they're good people by crying about causes they have nothing to do with, not enough actual good people.

Kindness is fine but it's not something I would focus on. If the kid wants to be kind to others, let her. If it's not something that comes naturally to her, I'm not going to force it. She needs to learn to stand up straight, to look people in the eye when she's talking to them, and to say "sir" and "ma'am" a lot.

That's a seriously maligned view of how empathy and human interactions work. Its not about being 'right' or knowing precisely how someone feels, its about being able to view the world from their perspective and understand how they *may* feel based on what you can glean from their behavior. While I will agree that too much empathy is definitely a bad thing, being unable to empathise with others is just as bad, if not worse. One mindfucks you, the other makes you seem like a detached weirdo / sociopath.

 

[PipTheAlchemist]

I missread the thread as Are Incels Adorable? lol.

The answer to such a question being yes, of course

 

[Just A Butt]

I genuinely wasn't aware that adoption agencies were leery of giving out kids based on family size, I figured there were so many in the system that they would welcome anyone who could afford it.

calm down, Epstein