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OrionBalls said:
Fuck off, with that shit.

I am, indeed, a bitch.

Culinary is still very much a man's world. The only way to get ahead is to be stronger, faster, and more precise than the competition.
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You're trying to get ahead in a man's world by showing them how you're so much better at acting like a man than other women are.

You're the "tough girl" pickme: you act as macho as possible, denigrate "feminine" traits like being pleasant/kind/sensitive, and you have the resultant emotional logjam to show for it. You don't want the men who employ you to think you're weak behind the line, so you keep your emotions to yourself and see every other girl in the kitchen as a threat. That's why you're being so hostile to me right now.

Thing is, I'm not in meaningful competition with you in anyway. I'm not gunning for your job, I'm not trying to steal your boyfriend, I'm not trying to ice you out from your friends. Apart from this single interaction we're having, I got nothing to do with you.

And at the end of the day, your male coworkers will still see you as a woman and inherently lesser than them, no matter how fast and thin you can slice the potatoes. You're never going to beat misogyny by leaning into it like this.
 
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Stan said:
You're trying to get ahead in a man's world by showing them how you're so much better at acting like a man than other women are.

You're the "tough girl" pickme: you act as macho as possible, denigrate "feminine" traits like being pleasant/kind/sensitive, and you have the resultant emotional logjam to show for it. You don't want the men who employ you to think you're weak behind the line, so you keep your emotions to yourself and see every other girl in the kitchen as a threat. That's why you're being so hostile to me right now.

Thing is, I'm not in meaningful competition with you in anyway. I'm not gunning for your job, I'm not trying to steal your boyfriend, I'm not trying to ice you out from your friends. Apart from this single interaction we're having, I got nothing to do with you.

And at the end of the day, your male coworkers will still see you as a woman and inherently lesser than them, no matter how fast and thin you can slice the potatoes. You're never going to beat misogyny by leaning into it like this.
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While I've nothing to say on behalf of OrionBalls, do you always have a psychoanalysis prepared for every woman that's in challenges with you? Because types like yours are always more vitriolic and hateful towards women that do not move in lockstep with them, than any man.
 
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Sergeant Major Buzzkill said:
That “Virgin White Girl vs Chad Asian Girl” and the two images simping over Andrew Tate has me dying. These chicks have below zero standards and it shows
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Not sure what it is with Azn women (and Azn-adjacent wimmins that try to ape them like weeaboos) and simping for the most sub-par of nerdy guys. You'd think that it's Silicon Valley-level entrepreneurs, but often times it's not even that. It's NEETS.
 
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umami's milk said:
While I've nothing to say on behalf of OrionBalls, do you always have a psychoanalysis prepared for every woman that's in challenges with you? Because types like yours are always more vitriolic and hateful towards women that do not move in lockstep with them, than any man.
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No, but I can spot a pickme in a hot second, and OrionBalls is certainly behaving like one.
I don't know where you get this idea that feminism is "vitriolic and hateful" compared to men. Men are insanely violent. I think you just feel threatened by the idea of women who don't live or die by male approval, because you can't control them with asspats and negging.
 
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Stan said:
No, but I can spot a pickme in a hot second, and OrionBalls is certainly behaving like one.
I don't know where you get this idea that feminism is "vitriolic and hateful" compared to men.
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I never said anything about feminism. I was simply describing your behavior. Hit dog hollering much? At least the Man-Hate thread was admirable because you guys were trying to take the fight directly to the moid's doorstep, but as always there's a constant undercurrent of woman-hate that lives in you and is waiting to pop out at a moment's notice.

Stan said:
Men are insanely violent. I think you just feel threatened by the idea of women who don't live or die by male approval, because you can't control them with asspats and negging.
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You're presuming a lot about me.

Sergeant Major Buzzkill said:
It’s the Asian niggas that look like ProZD for me.
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LMFAO. YongYeaheads BTFO. Probably because the voice is all they've got going for them.
 
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LocalAnimeTard said:
Anyways give me tophats and jannies will probably pathetically ban me from this thread like they did in the man hate thread because apparently this website isn't free speech anymore once you criticize and laugh at femcels but I will just lol at the ridiculousness of this thread.
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The Woman Hate thread has just been mad over this thread even existing.
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Sayer of the N-Word said:
So is there any real difference between hyper femme trad pickmes and the ones who adopt male interests and mannerisms?
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Basically the only requirement for being NLOG or Pickme is thinking other women are shit and you are somehow different or better for this reason. This can manifest in a few ways of #tradddddd, the nerdy autistic, alt girl, or TOUGH GIRL behavior.

The male acting reaction is usually in response to being in a male dominated field, hobby, or career. Alternatively it could be the "raised by my dad" girls. You automatically are treated differently as a woman so you have to act differently to attempt to gain a crumb of respect.

If you have ever stealthed (knowingly or unknowingly) in an online chat and not revealed you were a girl for a long time you will understand what I mean when I say that revealing you are a woman on the internet or over game chat gets you treated "unequally" to the extent that men would rather you be a Tranny than a Real Woman (tm) because "hur dur real waman don't xyz" . It's a defense mechanism, usually. Albeit, a shitty one.

Basically how you approach the world and how you think other people think about you tells more about you than other people. If you feel you cannot act feminine or think for one second that being feminine is weakness that shows you lack positive matriarchal role models.

Girls who lack good matriarchal role models feel the need to be "macho" when in reality, to quote the Barbie movie, you can show emotion and be logical at the same time.
 
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LocalAnimeTard said:
I will just lol at the ridiculousness of this thread.
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I'm fine with dunking on attention-seeking pick me women on the basis that they have no grasp of reality or how stupid they look to the average person, but a lot of the dunking here just showcases how male-centric the lives a lot of bitchy women on BP are.

Meiwaku said:
to quote the Barbie movie
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I think it is important to note that some girls are naturally more masculine and there's a difference between that and the put-on behavior of pickmes.

Part of getting over being a pickme is accepting that women can be masculine, feminine, and everything in between and none of it is inherently better or worse.
 
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umami's milk said:
I never said anything about feminism. I was simply describing your behavior. Hit dog hollering much? At least the Man-Hate thread was admirable because you guys were trying to take the fight directly to the moid's doorstep, but as always there's a constant undercurrent of woman-hate that lives in you and is waiting to pop out at a moment's notice.
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umami's milk said:
Because types like yours are always more vitriolic and hateful towards women that do not move in lockstep with them, than any man.
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You didn't use the word, but "types like yours" here can probably only mean feminists. Don't play little kid games, we know exactly the "type of woman" you're imagining.

I was banned from the Man-Hate thread, because the moids will ban any woman who triggers their poor feelings. And I'm sensing that I've triggered yours, considering you're calling me a "vitriolic and hateful type" of woman. And I think that's because women that can't be controlled by you are scary to you.
Meiwaku said:
If you have ever stealthed (knowingly or unknowingly) in an online chat and not revealed you were a girl for a long time you will understand what I mean when I say that revealing you are a woman on the internet or over game chat gets you treated "unequally" to the extent that men would rather you be a Tranny than a Real Woman (tm) because "hur dur real waman don't xyz" . It's a defense mechanism, usually. Albeit, a shitty one.
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Stealthed on this forum for two years, can confirm that once I got doxed all the users who were calmly and rationally debating me started soyjacking pictures of my face, denigrating what I had to say, treating me like much less of a person than when I was just "Stan".
YMMV, I have a thread in Rat Kings so that probably made it way worse.

umami's milk said:
Well apparently not, since some posters in this thread see that deviating from anything feminine makes you a pick-me by default.
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No, that's not what we're saying.
pickmes are women who objectify other women and themselves in order to curry favor with a man.
maybe if I put it in really big text he will get it.
 
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Stan said:
I was banned from the Man-Hate thread, because the moids will ban any woman who triggers their poor feelings.
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Everyone is banned from the Man-Hate thread except the regular four posters, you're not special there. Why would moids be meddling in anything on BP? BP is run by women.

edit: aLSO HOLY shit stop waving your dox around everywhere. I might just go looking for it.
 
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