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I want my gf to unfollow someone who wears a Nazi ringPersonal Write In (
self.TwoHotTakes)
submitted 3 months ago * by
drmuffin1080
My (24m) girlfriend (25f) currently follows a guy on instagram who wears a nazi ring. Apparently it’s to honor his grandfather. He’s a friend of her friend, and they knew each other from high school. She doesn’t want to unfollow him because it “doesn’t affect her directly.” I think that’s absolute bullshit.
She told me “It’s not like you don’t follow shitty people.” But if there’s anyone immoral that I follow, I don’t know it. Hell I barely know a quarter of the people I’m following well.
The mutual friend has a birthday coming up. I told my gf that if I’m there, I will call him the fuck out. She is getting mad bc it’s her friend’s bday and she doesn’t want me to make it about me. That’s understandable, but frankly I don’t feel comfortable around someone who wears a nazi ring.
She thinks I’m being overdramatic.
Edit: update
I’ve been banned from the party. My gf will be going, but her friend is very offended. I’m in utter disbelief atm. Apparently I’m the asshole.
Edit: update
We made up and I felt like I was being overdramatic. But then I read the comments again and definitely feel like I’ve been manipulated into feeling like I’m wrong. Y’all are right. Me being okay with it means I’m supporting this shit. We are very mad at each other right now. I love her. But I feel like my feelings have been minimized and dismissed. I’m not happy