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The Heartthrob said:
Maybe you should treat dating a bit more like networking. Go out and do the things you like, get to know other guys, and let them play matchmaker for you. I don't know if that's a good idea or a bad idea, but it's a new idea.
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An idea is an idea, and frankly, right now it's probably the healthier thing for me anyway. I'm still not uh...mended, shall we say over my last relationship. Rebuilding a friend network should be step one. Not trying to get back into a relationship.
Dean Pentel said:
I strongly recommend you do not get married.

I do not mean disregard monogamy or commitment to one woman. Rather, I think it's incredibly foolish to get the government involved in your relationship.
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I should say I've pretty much always seen marriage as a religious thing and form of commitment. We could go on and on about government involvement but, my mindset is more aligned than not with your sentiment.
More AWS-8Q Than You said:
They don't want solutions, they just need to feel their way through it.
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Ex showed me that exact same video. It's all fine and dandy, but I don't know how me saying "wow, that sucks" sounds genuine or is enjoyable to you. Plus listening to someone bad-mouth a guy at work for doing his job while you're not is maddening.

This reverts back to the forever child / teenager talk. Nodding along and affirming your "feels", not genuinely mind you, is just a maddening thoughts to me. But boys will be boys I suppose.
 
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Doctor John B. Zyklon said:
Ex showed me that exact same video. It's all fine and dandy, but I don't know how me saying "wow, that sucks" sounds genuine or is enjoyable to you. Plus listening to someone bad-mouth a guy at work for doing his job while you're not is maddening.

This reverts back to the forever child / teenager talk. Nodding along and affirming your "feels", not genuinely mind you, is just a maddening thoughts to me. But boys will be boys I suppose.
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Remember that women are far more driven by emotion, emoting about the problem to someone is part of how they work through it. It's annoying to us, because logic/solution based men just want to fix things. Thing is, to her, listening is helping her fix it. It is a pain, but this is one of those Manglish/Womanese things.
 
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More AWS-8Q Than You said:
Remember that women are far more driven by emotion, emoting about the problem to someone is part of how they work through it. It's annoying to us, because logic/solution based men just want to fix things. Thing is, to her, listening is helping her fix it. It is a pain, but this is one of those Manglish/Womanese things.
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Yeah, the trick is how to sound genuine...I guess? I got pretty good at it but holy fuck it's hard to agree when it's clear she was being the dolt of the situation. Much easier when your reactions are at least honest "Yeah, Becky does sound like a bitch." I suppose my hang-up is lying / not being genuine more-so than the not helping thing.
 
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Doctor John B. Zyklon said:
Yeah, the trick is how to sound genuine...I guess? I got pretty good at it but holy fuck it's hard to agree when it's clear she was being the dolt of the situation. Much easier when your reactions are at least honest "Yeah, Becky does sound like a bitch." I suppose my hang-up is lying / not being genuine more-so than the not helping thing.
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I recommend Dr. Manuel Smith's When I Say No, I Feel Guilty. Specifically the parts about responding assertively and Fogging, as he calls it. Respond in a way that doesn't agree or disagree, but suggests that she may be correct without invalidating her feelings. It's up there with No More Mr. Nice Guy as books all modern men should read.
 
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Harbinger of Kali Yuga said:
The problem is how wrapped up they are in politics and how much THEY refuse to date men they disagree with. In my experience women start all the fights about politics, not men.
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Politics is nu Religion. All this virtue signaling is women trying act like they're moral people to compensate for all their degenerate behaviors.

Girl can be bitches, alcoholics, whores, liars, and thieves. Just as long as they're not racist or bigots and they support the current thing, then they're good people.

Women will destroy the lives of other people, and still think they're good people because they have black or gay "friends."
 
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Harbinger of Kali Yuga said:
How many times have you heard women online say "alpha male" dudes are pricks and anyone claiming to be one is a loser? Many times. I've told chicks I've dated, as a joke, thinking they were in on it, that I was an "alpha male." The response was always, "ooooh, I like that." Now I personally think that shit is bullshit, but it really helped open my eyes.
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I always thought what they meant by that was self proclaimed ones. The physically and financially attractive, for both sexes, will always be prime pieces of meat.
 
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Doctor John B. Zyklon said:
An idea is an idea, and frankly, right now it's probably the healthier thing for me anyway. I'm still not uh...mended, shall we say over my last relationship. Rebuilding a friend network should be step one. Not trying to get back into a relationship.
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It's rough when you feel the clock ticking and when it seems like such a simple yet desperate need. But being a religious guy yourself, I'm sure you can relate to the idea that everything will happen in good time. Do what you can to focus on yourself and better yourself until then. Not in a way to attract a partner, but in ways that make you feel complete and others will take notice.
 
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