Trainwreck Alex Dacy / Alex Dzimtowicz / Wheelchair Rapunzel - 50% wholesome disability influencer, 50% that cash me outside girl

Quick Alex update. Attachments were being weird there for a minute, so I held off posting, then my screenshots got backed up and scrambled, and that leads to the messy update I bring today. Hopefully, the next update will be better.

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Video still; video at end of post.

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Video still; video at end of post.

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One of several billion selfies she posted.

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Still from video; video at end of post. It's really cute and shows how Ari responds to Noah.

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Didn't save the full video, but she was at a loud outdoor concert (or something similar; she didn't say what it was).

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Still from video; video below. Still putting Ari in that thing.

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Garage livin'.

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She posted a long thingie about another person with SMA; the other person posted a lot of offensive/inappropriate questions they get, and Alex says she gets similar questions. I neglected to save the video, but that was the gist of it.

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Grid post; video below:

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Another milestone for Ari: she can play by herself. Good work, kiddo.




She did a bunch of posts complaining about not being able to fall asleep, apparently not realizing that parents of children Ari's age generally don't get much sleep at all.

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No spoiler for this video of Ari laughing at her dad's tickles, because it's extremely sweet:



Back in the death trap vehicle.


Video from grid post.


This one was interesting. She talks about her (inappropriate and immature) feelings about the caregiving role, and she is slurring pretty badly.

 
This one was interesting. She talks about her (inappropriate and immature) feelings about the caregiving role, and she is slurring pretty badly.
Christ where do you even start with that. Alex that is just paying someone to be your friend who wipes your ass. No one wants that. No caregiver wants that, no friend wants that. Super weird.
 
This one was interesting. She talks about her (inappropriate and immature) feelings about the caregiving role, and she is slurring pretty badly.
She's struggling so much to swallow her spit and that makes it even more yucky to watch and listen to her.

I wonder for how long she will still have the ability to swallow, as others have noted its just getting worse and worse.

Edit: this has been up too but is she daydrinking now?
 
Wow. I questioned if Ari was bonded with Alex but those videos of her in the crib make it pretty clear that Alex is some loud object that holds a phone in front of her. Clearly Ari does not see her as her mother, caretaker, or playmate. Ari does not smile at Alex or jump up to the side of the crib to reach out to her or "talk" to her. All things that my little one would do if I was in the room. That must chap Alex's ass because she constantly touts how she is such a great disabled mom. Here is an idea, Alex, instead of screeching at your child with a phone in her face put the GODDAM phone down, look in her eyes, and talk to her softly.
 
Alex has been fairly active.

What are these photos?

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Caption and comments:

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Looks super safe.

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Swings are okay now.

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She can climb stairs now:

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There were ten billion stories about cooking this Asian dish, way too many to save. Alex kept saying that I am doing this, I am doing that, but it was all Noah: he was the one standing at the stove and doing the cooking, but Alex kept saying I, me, me.

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Stills; videos below.

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That's one way to put it, dipshit:

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She's pretending to be an involved parent again.

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The big update:

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The woman who can barely drink a cup of soup is going to live with Ari and cook for them:



Pretending she knows what it's like to be a mom:



Ari makes a beeline for the open dishwasher. All Alex can do is yell for Noah:



I truly hope the move doesn't materialize.
 
Noah’s thighs are SKELETAL in that photo at a park with Ari. I suspect he’s back on the Addies to cope with parenting solo and caring for the rotisserie-chicken shaped millstone hanging from his neck.

Regarding Ari getting up at 5am: there is zero benefit to dragging Alex out of bed too. She can’t help. Her main parenting move is screeching “DADDY!” to summon Noah. She isn’t breastfeeding. She cannot commiserate with real mothers. Sorry not sorry, she just can’t comprehend what it is actually like to be the primary caregiver of a child.

I hope Alex is getting kicked out of Noah’s familial home. Clearly the strain of caring for Ari and Alex has been extremely detrimental to Noah’s health. If he was my child, I would be doing everything in my power to determine the best and most effective way to peel that stanky ratchet bitch off my son. Maybe convincing her that they need to “move out” and getting her stuck in another house without a car is his family’s best chance at exorcising her from their own home.

ETA: I meant getting ALEX out. Not Noah. Not Ari. Just Alex.
 
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I want to know if she accepts ANY input from her "cooking assistant" (Noah) or if she expects the full Ratatouille treatment. Like, if he said "I think the noodles are probably done" does she shriek ableism at him? Also, I'm so glad I will never have to eat and pretend to like the stuff she "wings" - that noodle dish looks like spaghetti covered in Sriracha mayo, and I'm worried that legit might be what it is, because it's Alex.

ETA: yeah looks like those OF pics might actually be fairly recent. Gross.
 
I hope Alex is getting kicked out of Noah’s familial home. Clearly the strain of caring for Ari and Alex has been extremely detrimental to Noah’s health. If he was my child, I would be doing everything in my power to determine the best and most effective way to peel that stanky ratchet bitch off my son. Maybe convincing her that they need to “move out” and getting her stuck in another house without a car is his family’s best chance at exorcising her from their own home
God, I hope not. Even if Noah is managing as primary carer for both mum and bub, staying in his parents house gives him a backup for when he's just not coping. Taking care of an entire place- even just a small unit- would be incredibly stressful for him right now. When he needs to get away from Alex now, all he has to do is walk upstairs; any unit she rent will be one level and open plan, there will be no escape.

Moving out would be a huge mistake. It'd be great if it were just Alex by herself, but Noah is her carer and she also has legal custody, (and if memory serves, Noah isn't even on Ari's birth certificate) I strongly doubt that living separately is an option for him.

I've no doubt that everyone in that house is thoroughly sick of each other, but Noah really needs his family right now. Putting off moving out until Ari starts kindergarten would probably be the best way of doing it.
 
Just an aside, but Alex mentioning things to help her cook, if she engaged with an Occupational Therapist that's literally their job to help people with activities of daily living. They are the experts on how to help people do day to day tasks, including knowing what equipment is most appropriate.

But whether it's a funding thing or Alex just not seeing the value in it, she doesn't seem to engage with any Allied Health professionals that could improve her quality of life and independence.
 
if memory serves, Noah isn't even on Ari's birth certificate
The Smiths made him get a paternity test in the time since they have been living with them. They didn't say whether or not this was to update the birth certificate, but I can't figure why else they'd have done that since Ari has his whole-ass face.

They are the experts on how to help people do day to day tasks, including knowing what equipment is most appropriate.
I can just imagine Alex trying to stir/check on noodles with a long-handled spoon and flinging boiling water all over herself in the process. She really should be working with an OT but we know she knows best about literally everything, guys.

As far as them moving out, I'm gonna guess it's just Alex blustering because she's stifling under the Smith house rules. I can't see her getting a place, arranging a caregiver, organizing the move. And with what money?? - nah she's just angry at the Smiths about something and is doing a veiled BPD threat.
 
You can bet grandma and grandpa Smith don’t want to see their beloved granddaughter taken away and left in the care of Alex and Noah. Noah may be stepping up but he’s also got his own problems, including youth, and raising a daughter and being a carer for Alex is too much for him alone. Noah knows it, they know it. The only one who doesn’t is Alex.

Alex can talk all she wants but she 100% dependent on another for her care, feeding, housing. She’s stuck where she is. She should be very grateful she has a nice house and nice people who will love and raise her daughter while she slowly dies. But that would mean facing reality and thinking of what’s best for her daughter and that ain’t happening!
 

That baby is cute as hell and I wish nothing but the best for it.
I actually take no pleasure in suggesting that the best thing for Ari would be for her to lose her mom before she's really aware of her. I don't know what to think of Noah; she's obviously bonded with him so he's doing something right but I'm sure it has a lot to do with how much support he's getting from his family.
 
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