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Chromeo said:
I fast-forwarded from page 72 and saw this, what the actual hell just happened in this thread
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Everyone knows you can't talk about women, jacking it to anime, or wheter or not american cheese is real without the thread being derailed.

Though people can share their opinions about gaming here and not be shat on, which is an internet anomaly.
 
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PermaLurker69 said:
Everyone knows you can't talk about women, jacking it to anime, or wheter or not american cheese is real without the thread is being derailed.

Though people can share their opinions about gaming here and not be shat on, which is an internet anomaly.
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It has real cheese in it, but it's cut with too many non-curdled dairies to count legally in America. Its a sort of miracle whip vs mayonnaise sitchyation
 
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In the bus today, I saw a 15 year old talking on the phone with one of her friend.
The gist of it was that Brandon was in love with Vanessa and not her anymore. She said she was okay with it and started laughing, saying she's happy he found someone and that's if he's happy she's happy. She was smiling the whole time and trying to convincce her friend she was okay and not crying.

As soon as she finished the call she started crying loudly.
It was so cringe, I got off the bus a stop before my stop.
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If it was a guy I might have given him a peptalk to cheer him up.

What should have I done? I can't stand when people cry in public and I don't think I am fully equiped to calm someone down in public. Also I am 23, It would have been creppy to approach her even to just reasure her.
 
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RX-78 said:
Giving birth to her child is the single most natural thing a woman can do, where as being sliced open and having her infant cut out of her may as well be an alien abduction nightmare made real. Everything from hormonal balance to her subconscious state is completely fucked sideways by a c-section preventing the infant from passing through her birth canal, which denies that primordial bonding from properly taking place in almost every instance of the procedure. Ask a woman who has had a c section and, more often than not, they will quietly admit that there is a niggling little feeling in the back of their head that tells them their child never really felt like "their's".

TLDR: it causes the big mommy energy to fizzle out.
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It really doesn’t. I’ve done it both ways, and I wouldn’t choose a section as an elective procedure, but when the baby is out and handed to you the response is the same. Love, feed them, think ‘fucking he’ll that was awful but it’s fine now.)
Women can also have trouble binding after stuff like losing two litres of blood, after having their pelvis broken by a shockingly traumatic forceps birth with no pain relief whatsoever.
A breastfed baby will acquire the flora from the mother as well. The idea that a c section baby is automatically not bonded with is simply not true. I’m aware of the flora research (am scientist.)
 
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JamusActimus said:
What should have I done? I can't stand when people cry in public and I don't think I am fully equiped to calm someone down in pubblic. Also I am 23, It would have been creppy to approacch her even to just reasure her.
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Having been that girl, nothing was the best you could have done. Like you say, it's kind of creepy to involve yourself when the age difference is that big. What are you going to do anyway, say "childhood crushes don't matter in the long run"? At that age they do matter, a lot.
She'll cry, go home, cry some more, then in a little while her friends will come over and drag her out to do something to cheer her up, because they know full well she was lying when she said she's fine. She needs girlfriends, not some random man on a bus to come over to creep on her (of course not your intent, but it's what will be assumed).
 
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Otterly said:
It really doesn’t. I’ve done it both ways, and I wouldn’t choose a section as an elective procedure, but when the baby is out and handed to you the response is the same. Love, feed them, think ‘fucking he’ll that was awful but it’s fine now.)
Women can also have trouble binding after stuff like losing two litres of blood, after having their pelvis broken by a shockingly traumatic forceps birth with no pain relief whatsoever.
A breastfed baby will acquire the flora from the mother as well. The idea that a c section baby is automatically not bonded with is simply not true. I’m aware of the flora research (am scientist.)
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Agreed, have done both ways multiple times and bonding was not impacted even with the kid who needed a bit of extra help that I didn't get to hold for hours after birth (who was fine, no lingering effects). Obviously I'd have liked to get those hours back but the moment he heard my voice in the nursery he woke up and turned his head (he'd been sleeping the whole time) and we lit up like Christmas trees to see one another for the first time. Still makes me misty to remember. I'd have done anything for that little baby. Still would.
 
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Friend of Dorothy Parker said:
Your inability to read, reason, or think (or reply correctly) does not change reality. But bc I'm nice, here's the sort version: you, and your theories of childbirth, are full of shit.
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do you have a specific statement or assertion of mine you'd like to take issue with you or are you just bitchfaggoting bc my vocabulary is making you flashback to the hippie roommate in college who got laid more than you
 
mold said:
do you have a specific statement or assertion of mine you'd like to take issue with you or are you just bitchfaggoting bc my vocabulary is making you flashback to the hippie roommate in college who got laid more than you
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Hello, a month later. Glad to see you're still mad. The "specific statement(s) or assertion(s)" of yours I took issue with were the ones I called out in the comment you said you weren't "reading all that to figure out."
 
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I was reading the man-hate thread and someone mentioned some video of dancing chicks that was triggering some random MRA niggers so I watched it and all I can think to ask is what's the deal with Stanley cups? Is it like the female version of Yeti-brand shit or something?
 
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Balanced Boomer said:
I was reading the man-hate thread and someone mentioned some video of dancing chicks that was triggering some random MRA niggers so I watched it and all I can think to ask is what's the deal with Stanley cups? Is it like the female version of Yeti-brand shit or something?
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It's just a trendy tumbler right now. It's like any other trend tbh.
 
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Grub said:
I will never understand people who have no interests or hobbies. There are so many fucking things out there in the world how is it even possible to be interested in nothing?
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To be fair people would rather eat than buy into a hobby. We are in a rescission no one can't afford hobbies unless they have to sacrifice time or other necessities.


I'm a early/mid 20s suicidepilled autuist. Is there hope for me that a woman would actually like me or I have to settle dying alone or having to settle with a single mom who is cheating on me because I was the financially "safe" option.
 
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WhimsicalTrolli said:
As safe as a college student. But most couples in previous generations didn't have to worry about having wealth before finding a partner, they build wealth, now women just inherit wealth they didn't work for when they enter relationships.
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True that women in general seem to be less willing to bet on someone's potential like our parents and grandparents used to.
It's also that we tend to marry and date later in life.

It's easy to bet on someone you knew since you were 8/16.
 
WhimsicalTrolli said:
To be fair people would rather eat than buy into a hobby. We are in a rescission no one can't afford hobbies unless they have to sacrifice time or other necessities.


I'm a early/mid 20s suicidepilled autuist. Is there hope for me that a woman would actually like me or I have to settle dying alone or having to settle with a single mom who is cheating on me because I was the financially "safe" option.
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You have to try and handle that suicidal ideation before you get into a serious relationship, because the normal demands of a serious intimate relationship will only aggravate that.

Don't say "there is no point in trying to manage my mental health" because actually you do deserve to be well, or at least better than you currently feel. Thinking you don't is part of the illness.

So. Go see someone. Do talking therapy, pills, whatever seems to work. Be open to trying a range of things. But you deserve to get better.
 
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WhimsicalTrolli said:
I'm a early/mid 20s suicidepilled autuist. Is there hope for me that a woman would actually like me or I have to settle dying alone or having to settle with a single mom who is cheating on me because I was the financially "safe" option.
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Why would anyone like you when you don't even like yourself
 
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