Off-Topic Losing people to transgenderism support thread - Support group for trans widows and other people who lost loved ones to troonism

What became of your non binary housemate?
His TiM boyfriend visited and they did move in together. I remember when he was on his way to our place and the other housemate and I was gonna meet for the first time, I jokingly said "I bet five bucks that he's build like a linebacker" and he was legit the tallest and stockist man I've seen in a while. Legit built like a brick shithouse.
I haven't kept in touch, I'm not a fan of people who are so inept.
 
My younger brother came out as trans. My mom won't feed into it luckily. He's asked to be put on hormones and wants my mom to let him wear girl clothes but she refuses. My mom and I have spoken about it and she's hoping it's a phase/fad.

I moved across the country years ago, I just feel like if I was there I could have guided him away from it. The family back home won't let him "express" himself as a woman or refer to him as a her. I know my mom is just lost as for what to do though and I am too. She wants to put him in therapy, but she's in a state where they would go along with the delusion and happily put him on the road to getting SRS, so she's wary of trying it.

It sucks, I've tried talking to him. I used his birth name and pronouns and he instantly grasped onto that and said I don't love him. What the fuck.
You need to get your mom to understand that she needs to cut him off from the internet. Take his phone away, turn off the internet in the house, and make sure your brother is too busy with school and sports to have time to goon and hang out with troons in Discord servers. It won't be easy but it's his only way out.
 
You need to get your mom to understand that she needs to cut him off from the internet. Take his phone away, turn off the internet in the house, and make sure your brother is too busy with school and sports to have time to goon and hang out with troons in Discord servers. It won't be easy but it's his only way out.
fr if she checks the router traffic logs she’ll see where he’s getting told to do this
 
I am a longtime lurker, sorry If I mess anything up this is my first post here. I haven't used a bulletin board-style forum since like 2002.

I lost my childhood friend to transgenderism. She and I drifted apart after I drunkenly confessed to not understanding the ridiculous and illogical notion of non-binary. This was before she came out and when I still would say things like "I see a transwoman as a woman." (I was retarded.)

Today I saw a photo of my childhood friend and She had a wispy beard and no tits. Honestly, she looked happy and less fat. But I know this is only because she is getting attention from people for the first time in her entire life. She tried to come out to me as asexual in like 2016 and defend that it was an oppressed group just like homosexuals. I countered that no one was oppressing you for not fucking people. I fear that this pushed her to take more drastic measures.

Over the pandemic, She changed all of her social media and gamer tags to a gender-neutral name. I hoped from afar that this would all blow over. I became a TERF early into the pandemic after having the kind of fear response a small animal has when being stalked by prey while visiting a TIM's house before lockdown. He cornered me and asked me to join his polycule. I am a woman and have never in my life experienced such visceral instinctual fear I felt from a man. After this, I knew the whole thing was bullshit and found the r/gendercritical (RIP)

She has always been a fat quiet shy girl who liked anime and videogames. But so am I! And I haven't trooned out. I think I would have fallen for it and pooned if this shit was going on when I was younger. What an idiot narcissist I was. But this woman is 36 years old. I think she has terminal TDS. She is a self-harmer, terrified of men, and a virgin who still lives at home with their university professor mom, and weird porn collecting + children's movie-watching dad (oh shit I get it now).
 
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Caught my fiancee doing voice training lol this is it huh
Truly don't understand why people don't just let "the ick" fly freely when this shit happens.

Catch your boyfriend wearing your panties? Shrieking, pointing, laughing, retching- all understandable reactions. Why not let loose and go for it?

Catch your fiance practicing troonvoice on Youtube? Same deal.

If it doesn't snap your partner out of it, at least you will be on your way to escaping the horrific fate of being tied down to a troon.
 
I accidentally exposed the younger brother of a close friend of mine for trooning out, I was browsing Facebook and a profile of what was ostensibly a a chick appeared on the 'people you may know' tab, I recongnized the picture was actually my friend's younger brother on one of those apps with a gender changing filter, I thought it was some sort of shitpost and sent it to my buddy for a laugh and inadvertently caused a massive shitstorm since it turned out that was his secret troon profile, some of his family members were supportive and some of them weren't (to put it lightly) and the whole thing has effectively tore his family apart, I feel a bit responsible.

On hindsight it shouldn't have been that big of a surprise, he was a normal kid but ever since he went off to college he started spouting retarded progressive talking points all over social media and within a year he ended up trooning out, last I hear he even got the stinkditch installed.
 
Wife situation is better than is was a couple months ago. More good days than bad. Been going on more mini dates and the like since we hadn't been doing that as much recently with everything going on. She is still having sleep issues and has admitted that it's affecting her mood and anxiety levels in turn. Planning to ask if she can get a sleep study recommended by the doctor like @glass_houses suggested last month. At least I haven't heard anything along the lines of "gender dysphoria" or "if I started T, my life/body would be better" in a few weeks. Been doing best I can to support her and show her I'm here.

Meanwhile, trans refugee pooner reposted a Trans Lifeline post to a page of hers. Noted in a comment that she once called them while close to a breakdown over "politics" (like she often is, honestly) and appreciated how they will not call the cops even if you're in active danger. Ugh.

Notably, the post was about a tranny drag queen that was advertising that joke of a service. She has actually noted in the past that binge watching Rupaul's Drag Race and stanning certain drag queens during the pandemic made her "realize" that she was trans. Not joking. The rare times she is not posting paranoid posts about Republican politicians wanting to break into her home and stealing her T or deny her phallo, a lot of her tranny talk is reposting certain drag queens that she "identifies" with. I don't know if this is another form of pornsickness, but that's what she has said. Never cared for drag culture in the first place, but this is another reason for me to dislike it.
 
Planning to ask if she can get a sleep study recommended by the doctor like @glass_houses suggested last month.
As a someone who until recently suffered from horrible sleep issues, I highly recommend getting it fixed ASAP. If you aren't getting enough sleep or it's bad quality sleep it can drive you insane. It most certainly will make exiting conditions worse.
My case I got an anxiety medicine that also causes drowsiness when given in low doses and wake up calls every weekday morning. It felt pretty retarded at first as a full grow adult have a doctor telling me my bedtime routine and have someone checking if I'm getting up on reasonable hour but it's been working great and my health overall has improved alot. I actually get stuff done and I'm not constantly cranky because I'm getting regularly about 7-8 hours of sleep. The calls are ending soon too as they were just a backup until I got my new schedule working.
 
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Well, turns out someone I know is a closeted tranny. He doesn't know that I know, so I'll be tormenting him by referencing his height, chad jawline, and him looking like my boyfriend while we're doing things together
Yeah be careful tho


Lamb murdered Kemmerly after she commented he was a “handsome man,” which sent him into a violent rage as he saw himself as a woman. Lamb strangled the woman to death, and left her nude corpse in a cornfield. The young student’s body was found approximately five days after her death on December 7.
 
Truly don't understand why people don't just let "the ick" fly freely when this shit happens.

Catch your boyfriend wearing your panties? Shrieking, pointing, laughing, retching- all understandable reactions. Why not let loose and go for it?

Catch your fiance practicing troonvoice on Youtube? Same deal.

If it doesn't snap your partner out of it, at least you will be on your way to escaping the horrific fate of being tied down to a troon.
Some dudes don't take kindly to mockery. I would imagine troons take themselves very seriously. Like if you've dredged up the self-delusion necessary to cross dress in public, you're probably super delusional about where you fit in society and anyone who shatters that delusion is risking violence.

And a real woman mocking their attempt to ape femininity... I would imagine fists would start flying quickly.

I'm a dude and I'd have no problem laughing at a dude in a dress. But I would imagine a 5'2", 80 pound woman might stay quiet until he's out of earshot.
 
Some dudes don't take kindly to mockery. I would imagine troons take themselves very seriously. Like if you've dredged up the self-delusion necessary to cross dress in public, you're probably super delusional about where you fit in society and anyone who shatters that delusion is risking violence.

And a real woman mocking their attempt to ape femininity... I would imagine fists would start flying quickly.

I'm a dude and I'd have no problem laughing at a dude in a dress. But I would imagine a 5'2", 80 pound woman might stay quiet until he's out of earshot.
I'm a small woman and still decided to come out and tell my brother he has "MALE entitlement". He did pull a fist on me and to this day my family will gaslight me into saying it never happened, say it wasn't that bad, if it was I deserved it (or worse) anyways, ect. I outed myself as a dissenter in that moment and I don't regret it.

More women (small or otherwise) need to stand up for this behavior to end. If we don't, these people (raging narcissists) get worse and think their actions have no consequences, which cannot be allowed. We need to start laughing, pointing, making comments and more.

Also troons have a fake woman alter ego, their troonsona. It's a MPD style created version of themselves they think they need to live as to be happy. Anything, or anyone, that threatens their view of this fake ego is akin to a murderer in their eyes. Their fake self > real self and must be protected at all costs. It's a narcissistic mask taken to a new extreme, a narcissistic bubble that gets popped and narcissistic rage slips out after. Narcissism is more common in men, but in men like these, it is even more common AND more dangerous.
 
Truly don't understand why people don't just let "the ick" fly freely when this shit happens.

Catch your boyfriend wearing your panties? Shrieking, pointing, laughing, retching- all understandable reactions. Why not let loose and go for it?
Because the woman in question probably fears being hurt or killed. She also fears being socially ostracized. Women are not like men. They are not strong. They do not have principles. They will not do something socially uncomfortable just because that's the right thing to do. They are too weak to resist, in other words, and deserve to be exploited by the Troons!
 
why is there so many blsck troons and poons? Granted, the numbers are extremely small... But still. It's like seeing them align with KKK members or some shit.
Bro, these people literally bring up black women as "proof" why men should play in womens sports. They straightup call black women men and insist they could easily be mistaken for one.
Look how many troons are incels and MRAs. Oh, my bad. I forgot. Look how many "reformed" incels and MRAs there are.

In the grand scheme of things though, you are unlikely to find minorities in "solidarity" with progressive ideology. The ones that are racist enough to say "fuck white people" aren't on their knees kissing the hands of self-hating whites either. Even in places like Baltimore, progressive events are reserved for the downtown areas. Ie, the wealthier areas. You won't find that shit in the hoods, especially not the ones so bad where fast food places refuse to operate in.
 
a 5'2", 80 pound woman might stay quiet until he's out of earshot
A woman that size needs to be in a refeeding ward, wtf.
Because the woman in question probably fears being hurt or killed.
If that's true- sincere fear of being brutalized and killed- there are far larger issues than troonery in that home. And every minute spent crying to Reddit or the Farms or whatever about troonery is a minute that should be spent urgently addressing the need for an escape route.

If it's just a melodramatic thing someone says because of actually fearing rejection, meh.
 
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