[–]uterine_blackmail 1 point 20 hours ago
Trust me, she has told people. You think she has kept it a secret, but she hasn't. It takes literally a second of her time to text someone or talk about it.
The could very well pretending they are shocked. We have been instructed at work not to bring up any trans topic with the trans person and when she came out to me, I had to clutch my pearls. What do you expect a decent human being to do? To say that she looks manly? I don't want to hurt her feelings, but she asked me to keep it a secret, and everyone knows she is trans, except for herself. They literally refer to her as "the trans person."
I do not know what you look like, so please take my words cautiously. I am 100% certain your friend has talked about you. As for you being stealth, I am less certain. Maybe you are truly unclockable, but if I had to guess, I would say that there are definitely several people who clock you and don't say anything and pretend they are clueless.
[–]Right-Zookeepergame7[
S] 1 point 20 hours ago
i mean if you think she looks manly then yeah. it’s better than letting her walk around thinking she passes when she doesn’t lol. that would be awful to find out about for me.
why do you seem so set on the idea that people can clock me?? i don’t really understand. i was pretty happy in what my friends had told me but now you’re making me question myself and them again :/ i also highly highly doubt my friend has told anyone. her boyfriend not so much.
[–]uterine_blackmail 1 point 3 hours ago
I am not saying that you are clocked, but if I had to bet, I would say that you are indeed clocked. It's more probable than not. How can I say that? Because every single trans woman who believes she passes doesn't pass. Maybe they can pass at a quick glance.
[–]Right-Zookeepergame7[
S] 1 point 3 hours ago
so you’re telling me no trans women pass??