All of the Gen Zers I've met are weird. They're definitely less reckless than the earlier generations and arguably more responsible. However, that responsibility comes from the fact they don't do anything. Their idea of a fun Friday night is playing Helldivers 2 with their friends online for an hour. They don't even fucking shit talk. Their rooms are unironically legit goonercaves. It's like they heard "Stay in your pod" and took it as fucking advice. A lot of them refuse to drive. They just don't see it as a necessity. They just aren't very social people.
Dear Gen Z, when I said "Stay In Your Pod and Eat The Bugs" it was a warning. You weren't supposed to actually do it you fucking tards.
Since this is a common perspective on Gen Z, I will attempt to explain their point of view to you.
The goal of social gatherings like a night out drinking, a grill, a party etc. is to feel good together. This goal is emotional fulfillment, which is shallow, and as such, can be more efficiently achieved using other means. Playing videogames with your friends online gives you a comparable emotional hit at a lower cost, especially in terms of setup time. For many, even parasocial relationships are enough to scratch the itch. This is rarely consciously realized, but you can observe it through revealed preference (actions, not words).
The proposition for zoomers you implicitly stated is to return to "being social". To rephrase, you suggest replacing one method of emotional fulfillment with another that requires more effort. This advice leaves the goal of emotional fulfillment unchanged and is instead concerned with the way to get there. Zoomers that are emotionally satisfied by what they are doing now will see no reason to change, and those that feel a deeper void within themselves already feel or consciously know that emotional highs are not enough to fill it. Our times are emotionally oversaturated. The attention economy is a competition for who can reliably fulfill the emotional needs of an audience. In such a world, yet another way to satiate one's emotions falls on deaf ears. It can't compete with the dopamine high the rest of the market offers.
Having given that reaction, here's proactive advice for filling the void:
1. Improve your understanding of the world.
You live in times of information overload. This is unprecedented. Before the Internet, information was scarce and alternative sources hard to come by. If you grew up with YouTube, you have likely listened to a huge number of people holding seemingly differing opinions. Ask yourself, and this is not a test, it is for your benefit, what assumptions you have about the world. Example: do you think non-profit charities are more moral than businesses? The clearer your picture, the more confident you can be in your actions to affect the world around you.
Take a break from consuming content and take notes on what comes to mind when you don't have anything flowing in from the outside. Sort it into distractions, bad ideas, interesting topics, good ideas, add whatever category you need. Use this to calm your mind and explore what you think, independently of what you've heard from other people - obviously including what you've heard from me. Analyze this post and figure out what you think of the subject matter, not just the post itself. If you find it hard, do it in small intervals, your capacity to withstand it will improve with time, as long as you commit to doing it.
2. Take responsibility for your life.
Get rid of self-deprecation, depression jokes, endless complaining, excuses, raging at nonsense, half-truths, euphemisms and anything that clouds your view of reality. Words have power, because they form your thoughts, and your thoughts inform your actions. Controlling what you say is the first step to controlling your thoughts, and that leads to control over your actions.
Taking responsibility means accepting that while not everything is your fault, you have a choice in how you respond. If something bad happens to you, you can curl into a ball and indulge in how bad you have it, or you can take some time to calm down, evaluate your options and act in a way that moves you forward from the spot you find yourself in. The choice between being a perpetual victim and taking responsibility for your life is perhaps the most important decision you will ever make. Choose wisely.
3. Set goals. Start small.
If you have a realistic view on your own situation and the context in which you live, find something you can improve. Don't try to start with everything, take one thing and inch it forward, day by day, until it no longer takes much effort to do. Then pick another thing, while making sure to continue the first thing. Exercise your will to the point where you can pick a reasonably sized goal, pick a path to it and then implement it in your life.
4. Choose a goal greater than yourself.
Maybe you are already doing things. Maybe you've heard the self-improvement spiel a million times already and you want something new. After you have a reasonably clear view and the capability to enact change in the world, you'll arrive at a crossroads. Where you go from here is your choice.
This is where faith, as I understand it, comes into play. This choice is spiritual in nature. You're choosing a foundation for your life, a way to distinguish right from wrong. For me, this foundation is the Christian God. An important consideration for this decision is to choose a framework that includes objectivity (a frame of reference external to any human), as that allows you to work with other people by enabling cooperation and external standards, which is not possible with subjective "my truth". Another is that this decision must be a true commitment in the sense that you must act according to what you've chosen - you need to remain vigilant and actively maintain your understanding, as well as evaluate if your actions match your stated convictions.
5. Community.
The next step after is to find like-minded people and/or convince people to follow down the same path. This step I cannot give you a recipe for. After the previous steps, this one you must figure out in the context in which you find yourself. You will likely run into existing communities and be disappointed that they do not understand your approach to life. You will likely have to start something of your own. You will likely have to learn from your own failures, as opposed to from the failures of others before you. Don't stress too hard about this if you don't have the previous steps sorted, everything in its proper order.
I believe if you approach this with brutal honesty and dig deep enough, you will find God, and he will guide your life. Good luck on your journey.