Off-Topic Losing people to transgenderism support thread - Support group for trans widows and other people who lost loved ones to troonism

[Baraadmirer]

I don't know where else to post this but, I helped someone start their transing and feel bad about it a few years later.

This was back before COVID hit, and I drove them to the surgeon and back. I wish now that, I have seen what becomes of these people, I did not help this individual down the path of ruining their life further.

I've a similar story where a former trans friend of mine where they were committed to getting bottom surgery, but was at the time dealing with an infected body part. I told them to not make the surgeon's job hell if the infection spread before the operation and they got it looked at. A part of me hopes that any self-respecting doctor would not perform any surgery on someone who's battling a preexisting infection, but with what I've seen on here, I doubt that would have been the case.

 

[Candlelight Desolation]

It's a religion/cult. It really is. I'm not being hyperbolic when I say that, and I don't think others are either, I think on some level, though, saying "It's a religion" comes across as dismissive.

Gay and trans people aren't reproducers, they're recruiters. Makes you wonder why they have a "gay red shirt day" at Disney (a children's theme park).

 

[Mandals]

I have not spoken to them in a long time nor have the means to contact them anymore. I'm just hoping they turn their life around before the delusion takes the rest of their time.

It's sad to realise all this too late. Let's hope nothing too bad came of it. You wanted to help, you meant well. It's ultimately up to your friend to realise this isn't the right path, if they do.

Maybe you reach out to them again and talk about this? Or have you not had any contact with them anymore

 

[Kaiba Cuqk63]

Can't quote myself, but this is a follow up on something I shared about 8 weeks ago in this thread.

Basic synopsis is my friend has a kid that she's trying to trans. I have some sad updates today. First, I wanted to issue a correction about the child's age. I said before he is 3; however, when I was doing some spying on social media I realized he's probably more like 5 or 6, feels like everything post covid years runs together and sometimes I forget when all my friends are having kids.

I noticed a disturbing Facebook post in which she had taken this child and her younger daughter to a pride event. I am seeking further confirmation, but I believe her child is now "non-binary." His clothing and hair are, at best, androgynous, but I could see them having being picked out in the girls section. His nails are painted, and this was clearly not done specifically for pride as the polish is chipped. He is wearing, at minimum, blush and eyeliner.

He's got on a lesbian axe pin (????) and a they/them pin. As as I assume these freak shows put pins on to know who is open to anal sex, this is probably a signal of the child's alignment. I am doing everything I can to resist sending a box of broken glass to the mom with a paper that says "your son."

I HATE HER!!!!!! SHE'S KILLING HIM.

 

[Skeletron Prime]

One of my buddies from old times that I've kept in contact with trooned out a few years ago. He sometimes comes to visit me when he visits home, and...it's like talking to a completely different person from the guy I knew.

Spoiler

When I knew him, he was a sarcastic, nerdy stonewall. He'd rarely let his feelings show but he was a genuinely witty and smart guy. Unfortunately, a bad breakup, followed by being persecuted by lefty friends for coming on too strong to one of them, and losing a bunch of those friends to that destroyed his self-esteem. I stuck with him through all of that and even attempted to help rebuild those bridges to little success, as leftist cocksuckers aren't worth shit as humans. And then he met someone who is deep in the progressive kool-aid and all was lost. By the end of that relationship he had frozen his sperm and was determined to go on HRT, even while processing that breakup. He was a fucking mess.

Oh, and of course he cites watching RuPaul's Drag Race as the source of his "awakening". Another victim of the drag-to-trans pipeline. I don't think he's gotten the chop, I pray he doesn't. This also served as my peaking moment: I tried to be a good friend, but having one of the few friends who stuck with me from my teens become someone else I didn't know was a lot to bear...especially since he was one of the few old friends I still had a good relationship with.

When he visits me, I kinda wish he wouldn't. It is a painful reminder to me of how little we have in common besides where we came from, because I became friends with (not his real name) Paul, not Paula. He used to be a nerd, now he's an inner city trans hipster.

 

[lonahte]

Came home, found my boyfriend wearing one of my dresses and jerking off into my underwear. Bit of an anxious guy, but a seemingly normal musician/cook. I knew he'd crossdressed for like, Rocky Horror but nothing crazy. I had to navigate a bit of shit when I broke up with him because he instantly came out and troon shielded, and in a very progressive place, I suddenly had to describe what was really creepy behavior as him "discovering herself". We'd gotten along well before that, and I had no idea. Now I believe he is living as his brave and stunning self, and I destroyed most of my clothes after that. Now I'm very unnerved of trans people, especially mtfs.

I'm replying late... this is just disgusting. Creepy perverted behavior

 

[lonahte]

Hello, update on my situation.
She has de-transitioned once again!! Which I am very happy about. And I'm so relieved that she never had any surgeries, or got on testosterone. I'm just so relieved. It's like a huge weight had been lifted off my shoulders. She no longer has to deal with trans issues. She can now just be a pretty, cool tomboy. I just hope that this time, it's for good.
Lots of love to the people in this thread.

God bless, take care of her and yourself!

 

[Terfatron]

Can't quote myself, but this is a follow up on something I shared about 8 weeks ago in this thread.

Basic synopsis is my friend has a kid that she's trying to trans. I have some sad updates today. First, I wanted to issue a correction about the child's age. I said before he is 3; however, when I was doing some spying on social media I realized he's probably more like 5 or 6, feels like everything post covid years runs together and sometimes I forget when all my friends are having kids.

I noticed a disturbing Facebook post in which she had taken this child and her younger daughter to a pride event. I am seeking further confirmation, but I believe her child is now "non-binary." His clothing and hair are, at best, androgynous, but I could see them having being picked out in the girls section. His nails are painted, and this was clearly not done specifically for pride as the polish is chipped. He is wearing, at minimum, blush and eyeliner.

He's got on a lesbian axe pin (????) and a they/them pin. As as I assume these freak shows put pins on to know who is open to anal sex, this is probably a signal of the child's alignment. I am doing everything I can to resist sending a box of broken glass to the mom with a paper that says "your son."

I HATE HER!!!!!! SHE'S KILLING HIM.

Bro, I'm in the same boat but a mom and her NB daughter.
Same mom who unironically says she LOOOOOOVES dragqueens and take her daughter to pride.

It's such fucking bs because there's absolutely nothing you can do ut stand on the sideline and watch.
I know exactly how powerless you feel and it's a fucking awful feeling.

Tbh she's one of the reasons I optedout completely of social media. I just can't watch this go down the way it is.
FUCK THESE MOMS!!

 

[Ricardo Canitrot]

One of my buddies from old times that I've kept in contact with trooned out a few years ago. He sometimes comes to visit me when he visits home, and...it's like talking to a completely different person from the guy I knew.

a friend went a similar thing with a break up and cancelation but instead of faggin it up dude became a coke addict and whore hound lmao. your friend was always a fag.

 

[FedPostalService]

Bro, I'm in the same boat but a mom and her NB daughter.
Same mom who unironically says she LOOOOOOVES dragqueens and take her daughter to pride.

It's such fucking bs because there's absolutely nothing you can do ut stand on the sideline and watch.
I know exactly how powerless you feel and it's a fucking awful feeling.

Tbh she's one of the reasons I optedout completely of social media. I just can't watch this go down the way it is.
FUCK THESE MOMS!!

I remember a family lawyer saying that Munchausen by proxy mothers have disappeared but the levels of mothers trooning out their kids shot through the roof.

Just different symptoms of the same illness.

 

[Dumcumpster]

I have a little update from my posts a while ago now. I have 2 friends that I've talked about so I'll try to succinctly talk about what's been going on lately.
So to start with my buddy who trooned out a little over a year ago I think, he's legally changed his name, goes by she/her now when before it was they/them, and is dating another troon(which is a whole rabbit hole I'm currently discovering). I think the "girlfriend" maybe, possibly, pink pilled my friend fully into into transitioning. I now have a lot of difficulty calling them my friend because of how different he is. They've become so sensitive and unironically mentioned they wanna "punch transphobes" despite weighing 100lbs when wet. I think my friends SO is manipulating him out of his money because he always talks about being broke. He's already passive and emotional so he's an easy person to do that to.

And a much shorter update my lesbain friend who was wanting to go by she/them recently got an ugly ass buzz cut reminiscent off a 2016 SJW. The hasn't said anything beyond that in terms of gender identity or whatever but I'm suspicious cause she said something along the lines of "I've wanted to do it pretty bad for a while"
I need a non fuckin alphabet friend group. Most of my friends are fine but I need a change up. I have no problem if your gay or whatever but just stop being cringe and annoying about it. And out of the 8 of us there the only 2 anything is going on like this.

 

[Jaws Of Hell]

More women (small or otherwise) need to stand up for this behavior to end. If we don't, these people (raging narcissists) get worse and think their actions have no consequences, which cannot be allowed. We need to start laughing, pointing, making comments and more.

While I wholeheartedly agree, it's extremely dangerous for us to express our opinions, and not just when it comes to gender. I hate that it is so, but we need male support on this one. MTFs are extremely entitled and will turn to all kinds of violence to defend their right to bully us, and handmaidens also feel emboldened to do the same when their troon masters enlist them.

Unfortunately most men don't see a problem with transgenderism because it has virtually no negative impact on them. MTFs, like all other men are more inclined to listen other men.

 

[Dumcumpster]

MTFs, like all other men are more inclined to listen other men.

I disagree with this because once a guy decides to troon out I've never seen an instance where another man convinces them not to. Not saying it hasn't happened, but i think a woman would receive less push back.

 

[Jaws Of Hell]

I dated a woman for a short bit just a few months ago. Liked pretty much everything I liked, could bullshit with her, was extremely attractive, ticked essentially all my boxes.

Just finished a sushi date and somehow got on the topic of hentai and how one of her girl friends was addicted to it. I mentioned how that seemed fairly rare as it's typically just guys. She then proceeds to tell me that, "Oh, well she was born a guy but now goes by she" and I regrettably knew I had to run.

Should've known her friends were the red flags as we made a Nazi uniform joke and she mentioned if she ever said something like that with her friends or posted it on Facebook, her life would be ruined.

Poor girl was probably a crypto. You could have fixed her.

Wait her 'affirming' friends used her like a hot potato sex toy? Jesus Christ.

From what I've seen women tend to troon out to escape being seen as sex objects. This is just more proof that it doesn't matter what labels a woman slaps on herself, she can't escape misogyny.

Surprisingly, he still has a girlfriend that he’s been with even before his transition. She’s sweet and supportive, but I really don’t think she knows the extent of his coomerism. I hate thinking that someone is a lost cause,

Many such cases, even outside of troonerism.

Hello, update on my situation.
She has de-transitioned once again!! Which I am very happy about. And I'm so relieved that she never had any surgeries, or got on testosterone. I'm just so relieved. It's like a huge weight had been lifted off my shoulders. She no longer has to deal with trans issues. She can now just be a pretty, cool tomboy. I just hope that this time, it's for good.
Lots of love to the people in this thread.

Was it spontaneous or did something happen?

 

[SIMIΔN]

While I wholeheartedly agree, it's extremely dangerous for us to express our opinions, and not just when it comes to gender. I hate that it is so, but we need male support on this one. MTFs are extremely entitled and will turn to all kinds of violence to defend their right to bully us, and handmaidens also feel emboldened to do the same when their troon masters enlist them.

Unfortunately most men don't see a problem with transgenderism because it has virtually no negative impact on them. MTFs, like all other men are more inclined to listen other men.

This, women need to keep themselves safe from men, especially men who think they have a license to impose themselves on others.
I used to read Roosh's PUA forum when I was younger and in my anger-phase. They didn't mind troons, because they saw it as the competition destroying themselves.

I disagree with this because once a guy decides to troon out I've never seen an instance where another man convinces them not to. Not saying it hasn't happened, but i think a woman would receive less push back.

I never thought about it, but you are probably right, especially for the BeTheGirlfriend types. Men can't convince someone not to troon, but they can provide an environment to help their friend love themselves enough not to mutilate themselves for superficial approval.

One of my buddies from old times that I've kept in contact with trooned out a few years ago. He sometimes comes to visit me when he visits home, and...it's like talking to a completely different person from the guy I knew.

Paul is dead. If he didn't care enough about you to reach out in the past, then you shouldn't cry over spilt milk.

 

[Redoniblueoni]

I disagree with this because once a guy decides to troon out I've never seen an instance where another man convinces them not to. Not saying it hasn't happened, but i think a woman would receive less push back.

They won't listen to men telling them this but especially not women. Remember, MTFs hate women much more than your average male. They think we are feeble minded bimbos and act out their fetish as such. A woman "rejecting" their transition in this way only serves to make them cope/seethe even harder as they view it like the big meanie cissies are shooting down at them. They are much more likely to lash out and get physical at women who naysay as opposed to men. They know we are at a physical disadvantage and fully intend to use that against us.
I don't care. Naysay anyways. Women are not weak and we shouldn't stand down and let men who can't even bathe take our rights and sacrifice our safety.

 

[Dumcumpster]

I think overall it depends on who they surround themselves with. My friend group is mainly comprised of "yaass gorl be your true self don't reflect on your trauma gorl just be yourself!" So being the only straight guy in the group my word in it would matter much much less. Even if out of everyone in our group we've been friends the longest. Which hurts but I digress.

Remember, MTFs hate women much more than your average male.

Trust me I am very aware. I think the catalyst for my friend transitioning was his gf of many years rejecting his proposal around the same time mine said yes. Correct me if I'm wrong, but was it Dylan Mulvaney that said "it's not about being a woman it's about being better than woman"? If it isn't him I don't remember where I got that quote but it always stands out to me when this topic comes up.

 

[Not A Bunny]

but I believe her child is now "non-binary."

Correction: your friend identifies her child as "non-binary".

 

[Redoniblueoni]

I think overall it depends on who they surround themselves with. My friend group is mainly comprised of "yaass gorl be your true self don't reflect on your trauma gorl just be yourself!" So being the only straight guy in the group my word in it would matter much much less. Even if out of everyone in our group we've been friends the longest. Which hurts but I digress.

Trust me I am very aware. I think the catalyst for my friend transitioning was his gf of many years rejecting his proposal around the same time mine said yes. Correct me if I'm wrong, but was it Dylan Mulvaney that said "it's not about being a woman it's about being better than woman"? If it isn't him I don't remember where I got that quote but it always stands out to me when this topic comes up.

I think it was likely for him to troon already and was most likely thinking of it prior. He was hoping for his gf to become a wife and then he'd troon. Because she said no (what did she know?) he decided fuck it and did it anyways. My brother was engaged for awhile before trooning, but she left eventually post troon. I think they're hoping it'll keep them around for it, if they already had the idea to troon prior to proposing that is. Which according to them they've had their whoooole lives no matter how untrue that is in reality.
Also yeah I think deep down they all want to be better than women. Most never admit it but it ultimately comes down to the fact they are men and men love to turn lots of things into a competition. Pooners usually don't attempt to be better than men.

 

[TETRABAX]

I had a weird autistic friend I grew up with since middle school that I bonded with over RuneScape. Unfortunately the first crumb of pussy he got was from an autistic nonbinary/trans Tumblrina who immediately started to convince him that he was actually a woman and started to transition him.

I really miss running nats with that nigga