I have never ever seen women sniff out an abusive partner
I have time and time again seen them sniff themselves into a relationship with one
really obvious ones, too, guys recognised to be interpersonally extremely grug, short fused, insecure and tyrannical; obvious bad eggs people have to conform around, as men are often willing to, to build towards and maintain a social stasis that's not breaking into fights every day - it's like other men's wariness of their chosen suitor is the real seal of approval they're looking for