🍗 Deathfat Corissa Enneking / fatgirlflow and Juliana "J" Aprileo / comfyfattravels - Delusional fat-acceptance lesbian couple, junk-food addicts with expensive taste, denied a mortgage due to excessive Doordash ordering

[Angry New Ager]

Staying properly hydrated when you're that fat is nearly impossible—there's no way she's consuming enough water to give her body what it needs, and is therefore chronically dehydrated.

She can slap on all of the moisturizer she likes, but it's not going to solve her root problem—any more than topical face cleansers and creams will help her acne, which is caused by eating garbage and having a fucked endocrine system.

Her problems with dry skin are just going to get worse as she heads toward menopause, and I can't even begin to feel sorry for her. It'll be the least of her troubles, TBH.

 

[GenociderSyo]

J IG:


Corissa IG:

 

[Coo Coo Bird]

Use as much pink as you want, you can't make zits cute.

 

[Otterly]

Corissa IG:

She’s depressed and struggling to manage basic activities because she’s hugely overweight. I’m grimly amused at the idea of turning 40 being magical - anyone felt magic at 40? I don’t think I did.
Is she still on a GLP1? I do wonder if they can cause this too. If your dopamine hits are from food, and you take away the food, what does that do to you mentally if you can’t find a new source? Someone who is willing to re arrange their live to find new sources of self soothing may manage fine, but I do wonder if the deathfats find that being on ozempic etc just strips them of all pleasure and that’s why they come off it (I know she had gallbladder issues, just wasn’t sure if she’d been put on something similar to try to help her diabetes.)
I’ve explained that badly, what I mean is that a regular fat person may manage to lose a pile of weight if they can just get hunger under control for long enough to do it. Mere appetite suppression works, like it works if you’ve got flu and have no appetite. But some people have created entirely different pathways in the brains that react to all the rituals around food and those aren’t the same as a regular chubby person? So when the appetite goes, it’s distressing to them because they feel like a whole chunk of their world is gone?

 

[Aunt Carol]

Use as much pink as you want, you can't make zits cute.

They've started making hydrocolloid acne patches in fun designs, at least.

I bet teens today appreciate the trend; I sure would have.

There aren't many situations that wouldn't be improved, at least a little bit, by not being fat and/or not being filthy. No wonder they're itchy and vaguely depressed.

 

[glass_houses]

There aren't many situations that wouldn't be improved, at least a little bit, by not being fat and/or not being filthy. No wonder they're itchy and vaguely depressed.

They're in a ton of debt and let's not beat around the bush: Julianna is dying. I know that I've stated in the past that I don't believe that Corissa is capable of feeling deep attachment to anyone else, but lately I've been wondering if she's really a full-blown narcissist or just has intensely narcissistic traits, and, in her own way, really does care for Julianna. In addition to that, Julianna pinned all her happiness on getting her breasts removed; anyone with two brain cells to rub together could see that the chances of this ever happening were minimal to zero, but bizarrely Julianna seemed to be genuinely convinced it would happen.

They are both ill, immobile, in constant pain and irritation, under constant financial pressure, watching the HAES movement that they built their lives on quietly enter its twilight hours while the weed and pills that they need to get through the day only become ever less effective. They need to strap devices to their face every night to stop them from dying in their sleep. Julianna is literally decomposing alive as her skin splits open and her blood inexorably solidifies.

The only way things are going to get better for either of them is a radical, complete 180° lifestyle change, complete with intensive substance abuse inpatient therapy. But they won't.

These HAES lolcows are fun to follow right up until they're not.

 

[Bibbity Bobbity]

When I was a wee young'n, we had a relative who was an internist. They maintained that acne in young women was hormonally cyclical. You could apply topical ointments, but that only did so much.

However. Looking like sandpaper with three bean salad on it? Whole other thing.

 

[Cuddlebug]

She’s depressed and struggling to manage basic activities because she’s hugely overweight. I’m grimly amused at the idea of turning 40 being magical - anyone felt magic at 40? I don’t think I did.

I did.

Ain't going to go into detail to avoid an overt PL, but I was borderline disabled for about 5 years before I changed my diet and lifestyle and wouldn't you know it--all my "chronic" health issues vanished! At 40 I'm fitter than I've been since high school, which feels pretty magical. I don't even mind my gray hairs!

Coco could have enjoyed 40 had she stopped destroying herself and put in the hard work before it was too late. But it likely is too late, and she's just one bad step away from a ruptured disk or a blown out knee. Then the decline will really get going.

J might still have time, but she needs to change course immediately (and even then she'll have issues from saggy skin and likely has done permanent damage to her back and joints). Shame she'd rather stuff her face, though.

 

[The Judean People's Front]

When I was a wee young'n, we had a relative who was an internist. They maintained that acne in young women was hormonally cyclical. You could apply topical ointments, but that only did so much.

However. Looking like sandpaper with three bean salad on it? Whole other thing.

Someone way back in the thread described Coco's skin as "pepto-bismol colored cinder block" and that's pretty much all I can see now. The texture is uncanny. I've been doing a yard project involving cinder blocks and after reading this thread I look at them like, man, this thing could probably give Coco some skin care tips because at least it has consistent coloring.

Editing to ponder: what is with this trend of telling 40 year old and even late 30s women they're in perimenopause? It feels really early, but it's see it everywhere - particularly among the "child-free" set. I guess I get it, they have their varied reasons for wanting to believe their childbearing years are behind them, but I thought perimenopause was more a mid-40s thing if you're not dealing with a fucked endocrine system. Women have been having babies into their 40s for as long as people have been living well into their 40s, and it all feels very weird to me.

 

[Terfatron]

Her being so stressed about her 40s is all her doing.
Me and her are in the same age bracket and moving towards my 40s i feel better every day.
Just showing up and putting in the actual work does wonders for one self.

Corissa on the other hand have nothing going on right now. Fat camp is canceled.
Jay's surgery is canceled so she can't play the savior.
The bathroom is falling apart, just like her health.

40 can be "magical" if you started preparing for it early so to speak.
Most things are relatively easy until you're 30 and most things are easy to excuse due to age.
The body recover faster and even if you have health problems you bounce back.

It creeps up on you at 30.
Then you hit 35 and you realize "fuck, I'm not 19 anymore" and you start doing the work. Like PROPER.

Imagine waking up, being a huge potato who's only motivation is food. Your partner is useless because they're a even bigger potato with massive mental health issues who think the only way to go is a extremely invasive surgery.

She banked her whole identity on being "cute n quirky" and that shit just won't fly anymore.

She saw her true self in the mirror and she realize it's slipping fast. Health, looks and career. No wonder she's depressed.

 

[Otterly]

At 40 I'm fitter than I've been since high school, which feels pretty magical.

That’s great! Genuinely happy for you to have gotten healthy.

what is with this trend of telling 40 year old and even late 30s women they're in perimenopause?

Average age of menopause is what? 52 or something and things start to wind down several years before that. The age is highly variable though. I have also noticed a LOT of pushing of menopause and HRT recently, in the media. You can certainly notice changes from your early forties, but it’s often quite hard to distinguish that from just stopping your childbearing years. Often women find their periods and cycles are quite different after having kids, which coincides with that kind of age. Still pushing the idea that it’s happening to everyone in late thirties seems odd, most women who are normally fertile can conceive just fine up to 42 or so
So they’re probably trying to sell you something but being on the road to menopause is often quite a long process.
That much extra fat will do a number on your hormones - fat is a metabolically active and hormonal active tissue, it’s not just a passive store.

 

[Diet Coke 4 Life]

TBH, never felt different at 40 than 30. But then again, may not be a fucking slug. Sure, now mid 40s and feeling the hot/cold flashes and other hormonal bullshit, but am still not a slug so overall feeling real fuckin' fine. Better than a few years ago, actually, thanks to elevated fitness.

Concur with @Otterly about how the road to menopause is quite long - may know a woman in my 'hood that's been perimenopausal for nearly a decade now. But she's not a fat fuck and is relatively active in addition to being in her early 50s. Comparing her to Cori is like comparing apples to a lump of solid lard laying in the sun in a bucket (because let's face it, Cori ain't no orange). Otherwise spoken, Corissa isn't a prime example of what happens to the average woman on account of her being a land-locked manatee with the brain of an almond and skin made of course-grit sandpaper.

 

[BongoMongo]

Editing to ponder: what is with this trend of telling 40 year old and even late 30s women they're in perimenopause? It feels really early, but it's see it everywhere - particularly among the "child-free" set. I guess I get it, they have their varied reasons for wanting to believe their childbearing years are behind them, but I thought perimenopause was more a mid-40s thing if you're not dealing with a fucked endocrine system. Women have been having babies into their 40s for as long as people have been living well into their 40s, and it all feels very weird to me.

It's gearing women up into believing the menopause is The Worst Thing Ever and that it is TERRIBLE FOR ALL WOMEN and that YOU ABSOLUTELY NEED HRT to get through it. Nope you won't have an okay menopause. It never happens. For any woman ever.

In short to make $$$$. The medical industry has caught on that subscription based healthcare is a sweet cash cow and they want MOAR.

 

[#Ripley #]

It's gearing women up into believing the menopause is The Worst Thing Ever and that it is TERRIBLE FOR ALL WOMEN and that YOU ABSOLUTELY NEED HRT to get through it. Nope you won't have an okay menopause. It never happens. For any woman ever.

In short to make $$$$. The medical industry has caught on that subscription based healthcare is a sweet cash cow and they want MOAR.

not to PL too much, but postmeno is awesome.

 

[BongoMongo]

not to PL too much, but postmeno is awesome.

Good to know! You'd think from way we're lectured the menopause is LITERALLY HELL and no woman EVER has anything resembling a life EVER after it.

It's miserable for the fats because everything is worse when you're obese. Nothing ever is improved by being that size

 

[#Ripley #]

Good to know! You'd think from way we're lectured the menopause is LITERALLY HELL and no woman EVER has anything resembling a life EVER after it.

It's miserable for the fats because everything is worse when you're obese. Nothing ever is improved by being that size

Health is very important once you are over 50. All the bad living catches up. The foundation for your later years is laid in youth.

 

[DefCon Dumb]

Life post menopause is just fine for most women.

A modest amount of time paying attention to basic health keeps the process of age change fairly smooth for most women.

 

[unwieldy_object]

I’ve explained that badly, what I mean is that a regular fat person may manage to lose a pile of weight if they can just get hunger under control for long enough to do it. Mere appetite suppression works, like it works if you’ve got flu and have no appetite. But some people have created entirely different pathways in the brains that react to all the rituals around food and those aren’t the same as a regular chubby person? So when the appetite goes, it’s distressing to them because they feel like a whole chunk of their world is gone?

No, I think it's because they lose the dopamine hits that the food gave them and that must be unbearable for someone who has nothing else in their lives giving them those hits.
They are depressed and they are not moving much, so losing the single source of the good stuff natural hits is too much to bear.
It's not so much about the food itself, but what comes with it.

 

[Clotso Coof]

Juliana needs to get online and give us the twansphobic no-tits-chop content we really need.

Come on, fatty, let us know all the details and just how mean that anesthesiologist was to you. Then tell us how you're soothing all your gender angst and how it relates to starving Palestinian toddlers.

 

[multiverse]

not to PL too much, but postmeno is awesome.

Right? Zero complaints.

Corissa is miserable because she's fat, end of. Her skin problems, her hormonal issues, all of this is caused by her morbid obesity, sloth, and constant dehydration via soda. If she started drinking only water, she'd lose thirty pound in one munt and not be drier than the Sahara.