Do women on here actually like "alpha males"? From everything I've ever experienced both online and irl alphas have to lie to women about who they really are because they know women hate selfish, emotionally volatile retards. A hot "beta male" (selfless, loving, responsible, emotionally mature, tgoughtful, etc.) seems to be what women actually want.
I think there is a definitional issue here. Imo, even though these terms are kind of retarded, every "type" has both evolved and unevolved versions.
A true (evolved) alpha would be a natural leader and winner, which includes being "selfless, loving, responsible, emotionally mature, thoughtful, etc."
An unevolved alpha would be one that has no sense about context or who thinks that dominance = domination.
A sub-par or malevolent aspiring alpha would be a brutish asshole.
A true evolved alpha does not need nor require nor display selfishness and emotional volatility. They know when, whom, where, and why to cede or to push, and ceding appropriately is not a weakness.
Evolved betas also have emotional finesse but don't have a natural inclination to or don't aspire to lead as a base drive, though they certainly can when required or desired.
An unevolved beta is weak and incapable of doing what needs to be done, resting in ineffectiveness.
Nothing wrong with being alpha or beta; the key is being evolved.
As far as attraction, women may prefer either one, but healthy women want the evolved versions. Unhealthy women don't discern well between evolved and unevolved.
The same is true with the sexes swapped.
the thing is that most men are exactly the thing above (95%), tate fans are 0.00007% of the population.
this is the same as the images of men saying women are rotten by saying that they aren't capable of anything and other dumb shit which only applies on 0.00007% of cases, they are small cases with no basis on reality, most shitty men are shitty by simply being hurtful unkind monsters while people are just more caring but less present, not by not doing general stuff which is done by almost everyone. (self improvement is a natural human state, even if the person is totally alone or depressed they improve by having better sociability or doing their hobbies like crafting things, improving their mind and body, making art or simply being social which is what happens on most men and women, the thing is that most men and women cannot relate by having too separated interests and thus causes them to not be attracted, similarity is the best sign of a good and enduring romantic relationship for a reason).
This is the reason it's better to see directly with people rather than making assumptions.
The reality is that irl most people don't want to talk so anything doesn't happen while retards make their presence become more apparent, no one has arrows by not having sociability and community so they focus on the first thing they see and the person who is seen first normally has a reason for doing this and sadly isn't normally something which is good, that's the reason social connections should return.
I feel as though you may have some good thoughts (some), but ruthless editing, capitals at the start of sentences, more punctuation, and a couple of returns for readability would help immensely. And/ or consider a
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