Off-Topic Losing people to transgenderism support thread - Support group for trans widows and other people who lost loved ones to troonism

[EvaBraunsGhost]

I used to be in two communities, The SiIvagunner community and the SS13 Community; both were tainted by trannies.
I used to be very open-minded about sex changes and heavy body modifications. Still, after seeing both of the communities ruined by PC going too far by tranny Gestapo's, I've realized that these people really have a fucking problem with not having reality their way.
Both communities have I encountered dealt with the same problems when trannies infested it.
Trannies get power, or a moderator troons out.
They will bitch about everything you do at first, for example, vocabulary, old jokes you used to make but isn't deemed alright by them anymore, the things you like.
Then they will slowly start calling people out who threaten their illusion of perfect reality, where they will force you to use the right pronouns or else you're labeled a bigot/nazi.
After all that, they asserted dominance over the community, they will go full wrong think banning spree.
'If you disagree with me, you get the fuck out of my sight because you are wrong,' that kind of mentality is something I despise, yet every tranny, it doesn't matter what community you are in, will think like this, that's why I left both.
I refuse to play pretend. I used to be in a terrible household with my mother and had to act as I agreed with her to avoid her anger outbursts. The internet was the only safe space I could be honest with my opinions.
I will not be forced to play pretend with some mentally ill figure again, not in real life nor on the internet.
If someone cuts off their arm, they are considered insane, but if someone wants to cut off their sex organs and pretend they are the opposite sex, they are stunning and brave?
Give me a fucking break.

 

[Crawdad]

Had a lifelong friend who started dating a girl and slowly he became nonbinary, then the girl started "transitioning", changed her name, and then had a kid (lmao). Now my friend never shuts the fuck up about gay and trans rights like it's the only issue that exists in the world. When they had the kid I just knew they where going to brainwash it and are already having conversations about how parents should pay for their kids transitions while its still an infant. What is interesting is the friend will still say the most racist shit and laugh along, but if you dare suggest anything about trans he won't speak to you for a month. I am hoping they are just doing it because its trendy and will eventually fuck off about it, but I doubt it sadly.

Unrelated bonus, my GF worked with someone who came out trans and used my name after GF mentioned it in conversations a few times. I try my hardest not to think about it.

 

[EllenDrawsRapeOfHerHaters]

I mentioned it in one of the other threads, but I had some friends of mine kill themselves. Both were biological women but got caught up in the trans shit. Its been a many years now and they were not really the most pleasant to be around towards the end, but I still think about them every now and again. They were both kind of outcasts, shy, nerdy and really into webcomics. They also had really shitty home lives, but that's to be expected. Question for any in the thread. Have you ever talked anyone out of this genderspecial shit? What did and didn't work? Was there a way you approached the subject that got through to them? Sometimes I think if I had said something, they might still be around.(I mean I did TRY to talk to them but that yielded fuck all).

They were such good artists and so fun to be around. I miss them sometimes.

The only thing that can help is setting a boundary. Say you will still be their friend, but you won't talk about trans stuff with them because you don't care.

I've met ftms in my online circles and they tend to detrans a year or so later. They never went on hormones or got surgery and they're always so grateful for it. Maybe I was just lucky.

 

[Aunt Carol]

What is interesting is the friend will still say the most racist shit and laugh along, but if you dare suggest anything about trans he won't speak to you for a month.

If any of this racism is online or on-phone, you gotta archive it, in case the RNG in his head ever decides you're the enemy in a way that deserves more than the silent treatment. When normies and jobs are involved, racism still trumps transphobia.

 

[The Silent Perjority]

Unrelated bonus, my GF worked with someone who came out trans and used my name after GF mentioned it in conversations a few times. I try my hardest not to think about it.

I think Crawdad is a great name for a Troon.

 

[Larry David's Opera Cape]

If any of this racism is online or on-phone, you gotta archive it, in case the RNG in his head ever decides you're the enemy in a way that deserves more than the silent treatment. When normies and jobs are involved, racism still trumps transphobia.

Kermit (says this^)
Constantine: Start blackmailing them now.

 

[deermeat]

Why does he post the most unflattering, ugly ass photos? Hes supposed to be a photographer. Ive seen his and his friends work, its not bad but not anything special or truly good.

But its just. How can you continuously post the most unflattering selfies? Say what you want about AGP degenerates, they do know how to catfish somewhat. They always slip up and post pics of themselves without sny angles or anything, but usually they try their best to make themselves as flattering as possible.

But he doesn't. I just don't get it. Not only does he post unflattering images, he posts selfies where he looks like hes clearly trying in some way TO BE flattering. Its like, is this nigga dumb? Is he fucking blind? Its the absurdity of it all. Theres zero self awareness.

He is one of those people who prior to trooning out didnt look bad, I viewed him as "gender envy" myself. Very average. I cant get over how retarded he looks. Hes a shit human being yet I cant help but pity him. Hes in a polycule where his primary partner is some morbidly obese whale. Meamwhile he used to bring in baddies, yet he fucked all of it up himself by being a sleezy cheating whore.

I don't get it, man . Narcissim? Addiction? I don't understand. How do you fumble so badly?

 

[Misogenes]

But he doesn't. I just don't get it. Not only does he post unflattering images, he posts selfies where he looks like hes clearly trying in some way TO BE flattering. Its like, is this nigga dumb? Is he fucking blind? Its the absurdity of it all. Theres zero self awareness.

I hope people can start publishing actual troon studies again, especially in psychology. There has to be some downright fascinating comorbidities in their brain-meats, especially once they start marinating in excess foreign hormones and horse piss.

From my own armchair, I'd guess that narcissism could explain the unwarranted vanity. After all, when you think you look like a solid 10, angles and proper photographic techniques wouldn't be required to show that off, right? If it's you, any photo will look amazing because you look amazing.

Or maybe they'll need to come up with a novel name for the narc-delusional-gooner combination for the DSM-VI.

 

[toilet_rainbow]

My wife was diagnosed with tennis elbow after almost a year of pain and suffering from it. She’s rebounding quickly after starting a medication regimen for it. Time will tell how much it will actually help and for long, considering how long it took for her to finally seek further help for it.

I post this here, because part of the reason she held out from seeking a second appointment after her first in the spring was the trauma she endured at the gender clinic. She’s now terrified of the mental health system as a whole because of it and other past traumas, and was convinced that she would be committed or forced back into the clinic if she told the doctor just how negatively the nerve pain was impacting her not just physically, but mentally. I know her troon friend is also against mental healthcare of any kind (unless it’s transition related, of course!). Wonder how much that affected her as well. While I am fully aware that it’s ultimately her duty to actually get the help herself, considering that she only finally called the doctor for a follow up after I reassured her that if she just told the doctor that her quality of life tanked from it (which was the truth) that they wouldn’t automatically commit her…

…I’m fuming. Not at her, but that such a simple pain to treat was stretched to prolonged, suicidal level pain because troons whispered into her head. I swear that just three days into starting the medication that she was the most proactive, calm, and playful she’d been in months. It was that easy?! That preventable?! As if I didn’t hate transgenderism (and that specific troon) enough already…

We’re definitely not in the clear, but as I’ve said, trying to keep her accountable and doing my best to support her. Her bouncing back from finding a way to deal with her pain is promising to me. To us in 2025.

 

[Ed Special]

We’re definitely not in the clear, but as I’ve said, trying to keep her accountable and doing my best to support her. Her bouncing back from finding a way to deal with her pain is promising to me. To us in 2025.

Hell yeah, give her a big ol' bear-hug for all of us! Y'all's recovery thus far has been a source of hope for me, and hopefully everyone else here.

 

[Helvetia]

well, i pushed back, and surprisingly other people were in favour. I asked where he'd heard the name from, separate from me, and genuinely struggled before sending a Wikia article from Assassin's Creed. Someone else brought up that it would be confusing for us both to use the same nickname, and the tranny already had a nickname (bamba, after the Israeli snack, which he ate almost exclusively one semester (why yes, he is fat))

He then asked me, in the group, if I'd consider going by another nickname rather than the one that's just a shortened version of my name. Say it was Annalise - he's asking me to go by Lise instead of Anna. I refused, but at this point, another person stepped in and said I was going to continue being called "Anna", and he was going to continue being called Bamba, as no one called him by his birth name before he transitioned.

I am genuinely concerned he's going to start skinwalking me, though. I have a semi-distinct style of dress, and he's suddenly started researching it and mentioning how nice some of the clothes from this style are. I can't really cut him off because we weren't particularly close to begin with, but I almost don't want just to see how far he takes it.

 

[GluttonousManSlob]

well, i pushed back, and surprisingly other people were in favour. I asked where he'd heard the name from, separate from me, and genuinely struggled before sending a Wikia article from Assassin's Creed. Someone else brought up that it would be confusing for us both to use the same nickname, and the tranny already had a nickname (bamba, after the Israeli snack, which he ate almost exclusively one semester (why yes, he is fat))

He then asked me, in the group, if I'd consider going by another nickname rather than the one that's just a shortened version of my name. Say it was Annalise - he's asking me to go by Lise instead of Anna. I refused, but at this point, another person stepped in and said I was going to continue being called "Anna", and he was going to continue being called Bamba, as no one called him by his birth name before he transitioned.

I am genuinely concerned he's going to start skinwalking me, though. I have a semi-distinct style of dress, and he's suddenly started researching it and mentioning how nice some of the clothes from this style are. I can't really cut him off because we weren't particularly close to begin with, but I almost don't want just to see how far he takes it.

I'm glad you stood your ground. Him asking for your nickname confirms the skinwalking. Whether or not you want to watch a greasy AGP try to steal your identity is up to you. On one hand, his antics might peak your friend's group. On the other, troons love violating peoples' boundaries and you'd be giving him what he wants.

 

[armfleshween]

A few months back I posted my own story about detransitioning, but interestingly enough, on the 23rd I got some news from my grandmother. We were sitting next to each other, her fumbling the ribbon of an ornament between her fingers, when she mentioned my cousin by name-before clarifying that she meant "Miles." I immediately knew. It's obvious to anyone with the slightest idea of what poonerism manifests as, but regardless the realization hit me hard in the chest. Ultimate sonic autismo bullshit.

I was disappointed, but not surprised-even though I never wondered if she could ever be on the path to poonery after my grandma a year before told me that my cousin was apparently a lesbian and showed me a picture of her with short hair. I identified as trans then so I thought nothing of it, thankfully I never told my grandparents so I never embarrassed them with my nonsense. But I had completely forgot about that until my grandmother told me that my cousin pooned out. I'm not surprised now because her and I were very close as kids because we were so similar. So it makes sense that she went down the same path I did when we are just so similar. It's tragic.

But the real reason why my grandmother told me, and by proxy my mother (who knew about my detransition), was that my cousin threw some Christmas party and invited all her immediate relatives except for one. The resident family member who is a typical conservative and isn't afraid to voice her opinions on Facebook. My great aunt disapproves of the poonery and it's strange how now I agree and side with her. A year back I had the typical retarded politics of any other tranny, I would never agree with her on anything other than that antique furniture is superior and Victorian houses are cool as hell. But despite that, my grandmother expressed her disapproval towards her sister who was brave enough to stand up against my cousin possibly castrating herself in the future. She said that it's better to just "roll with it." I'm from down South so arguments over politics is frowned upon so I voiced my opinion my own way, saying "It ain't worth it."

And it ain't.

I knew how I thought when I identified as trans. Maybe it's just me being as stubborn as I am, but nothing no one said penetrated the levels of delusion I built up to avoid accepting reality. I could only convince myself out of it. And that was after a year and 3 months on steroids mutating the hell out of my body, after by chance I tossed a coin to see if I wanted to continue and suddenly felt a twinge of doubt when I got two out of three for heads. That's a trick my dad taught me to help reveal our true feelings on a matter, we both struggle to identify how we feel and primarily feel our emotions as physical sensations. Before I'd tossed the coin and was fine with the result of continuing the hormones or kept flipping the coin until I got the result I wanted, which was continuing the hormones. Nothing seemed to break through my own delusion. What followed that tinge of worry when I gave myself permission to continue the hormones was a 24 hour ego death, where I undid all the arguments I had for transitioning that I believed for over a decade, from a little kid to an adult.

So all and all it isn't worth it. For me it's not worth fracturing and straining your relationships with your family over something that needs to be realized by the person themself. The issue with this day and age is that everything is moralized to a point where people just plug their ears when they hear something that meets the small list of requirements for it to be considered wrongthink. They'll never ingest what you say, no matter how sensible you are being. No matter how courteous.

But most of y'all are a lot more brave than I am and are willing to argue with friends or family over something you think is morally imparative. I'm a bit too much of a doormat and I worry about my friends and family cutting me off just enough that I never stress-test their beliefs in something. Except with my dad because he's normal and we are extremely similar so we ultimately agree on everything.

 

[Larry David's Opera Cape]

I have a semi-distinct style of dress, and he's suddenly started researching it and mentioning how nice some of the clothes from this style are.

I'm guessing it's some kind of "core" that has instagrams devoted to it, something like that.

This guy is going to become dangerous. Reiterating again- if you haven't read "The Gift of Fear" now would be a great time to do so. Listen to your gut. Don't feel silly or trivial or apologetic or like "I'm overreacting." This guy could not be giving off louder warning bells if he was showing up to meetings with zip ties and chloroform.

 

[Sinner's Sandwich]

I am genuinely concerned he's going to start skinwalking me,

Open your eyes! He is already doing it! Stop doubting what's right in front of you and get the hell away from that sick tranny monster!

 

[Helvetia]

I'm guessing it's some kind of "core" that has instagrams devoted to it, something like that.

even worse, it's modern hanfu.

so something that literally only works on petite women. he's 5"11 and 140kg (320lbs) - it's embarrassing watching him try and find a brand that even makes clothes that big, let alone hanfu style.

Open your eyes! He is already doing it! Stop doubting what's right in front of you and get the hell away from that sick tranny monster!

he's just so genuinely pathetic I can't stop watching. he's like a pooner in a man's body. i'm not a doormat or anything, just so detached from him that it almost seems stupid to worry about.

The Gift of Fear"

reading it now, thank you.

 

[Aunt Carol]

I tossed a coin to see if I wanted to continue and suddenly felt a twinge of doubt when I got two out of three for heads.

A Psychological Tip

Spoiler: 1966 poem by Piet Hein

Whenever you're called on to make up your mind,
and you're hampered by not having any,
the best way to solve the dilemma, you'll find,
is simply by spinning a penny.

No - not so that chance shall decide the affair
while you're passively standing there moping;
but the moment the penny is up in the air,
you suddenly know what you're hoping.

 

[FiveStarAce]

even worse, it's modern hanfu.
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so something that literally only works on petite women. he's 5"11 and 140kg (320lbs) - it's embarrassing watching him try and find a brand that even makes clothes that big, let alone hanfu style.


he's just so genuinely pathetic I can't stop watching. he's like a pooner in a man's body. i'm not a doormat or anything, just so detached from him that it almost seems stupid to worry about.


reading it now, thank you.

I kinda want to know where this is going, but this shit is scary. The best way to navigate this is probably brutal honesty, and communicating clearly that you are freaked out, uncomfortable and scared by the dude. You don't even have to justify how you feel about it, just let people know and try not to get dragged into politics.

 

[Daguerrean]

My wife was diagnosed with tennis elbow after almost a year of pain and suffering from it. She’s rebounding quickly after starting a medication regimen for it. Time will tell how much it will actually help and for long, considering how long it took for her to finally seek further help for it.

I post this here, because part of the reason she held out from seeking a second appointment after her first in the spring was the trauma she endured at the gender clinic. She’s now terrified of the mental health system as a whole because of it and other past traumas, and was convinced that she would be committed or forced back into the clinic if she told the doctor just how negatively the nerve pain was impacting her not just physically, but mentally. I know her troon friend is also against mental healthcare of any kind (unless it’s transition related, of course!). Wonder how much that affected her as well. While I am fully aware that it’s ultimately her duty to actually get the help herself, considering that she only finally called the doctor for a follow up after I reassured her that if she just told the doctor that her quality of life tanked from it (which was the truth) that they wouldn’t automatically commit her…

…I’m fuming. Not at her, but that such a simple pain to treat was stretched to prolonged, suicidal level pain because troons whispered into her head. I swear that just three days into starting the medication that she was the most proactive, calm, and playful she’d been in months. It was that easy?! That preventable?! As if I didn’t hate transgenderism (and that specific troon) enough already…

We’re definitely not in the clear, but as I’ve said, trying to keep her accountable and doing my best to support her. Her bouncing back from finding a way to deal with her pain is promising to me. To us in 2025.

Trauma trauma trauma trauma. Your wife is not going to get involuntarily committed for saying her elbow hurts, Jesus Christ. This isn’t her trans friends fault she just sounds retarded

 

[You're MDNWU]

but I almost don't want just to see how far he takes it.

The troll in me is curious just how far he'll go to skinwalk.

Dating anyone? I know he's a fat retard, but it'd be fucking hilarious if he tries to date someone similar, if just by name alone.

Am surprised the friend group is (currently) standing their ground as most push for zero conflict at all costs.