Off-Topic Losing people to transgenderism support thread - Support group for trans widows and other people who lost loved ones to troonism

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I saw my troon the other day. He's a middle-aged man. He was dressed a lot like this.
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Yeah, this isn't a fetish.
 
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OhShitWatNao said:
This lurks deep in my consciousness, and yet every time I see it written out, it stops me dead in my tracks because it's really fucking true.
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There is a rapidly growing demographic of detransitioners. Most of them are still deeply unwell, but know that as time goes on it will be easier for more and more people to realize what they've been sucked into.

It won't fix the relationships and loved ones we've lost, but it brings me comfort knowing that somewhere, the people I've lost to this bullshit may end up at peace with themselves.
 
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It looks like we’re losing my niece and her parents to this crap. Kid is six years old in Seattle and has been put in an “LGBTQIA+ friendly” school with “PRIDE afterschool” programs for kindergartners, due to “bullying” that sounds like it didn’t really exist. Now, a year later, she’s “non-binary” and relentlessly pesters everyone into “honoring my pronouns” which are “they/them.” It’s the clearest care of indoctrination (and what I would call sexual abuse, too) that I have seen in real life.

I don’t think we can spend time with them now because my own child hasn’t been exposed to this insidious nonsense and I don’t want ‘em to be. The parents will NOT back down on their child’s “right” to “speak their truth” and “educate” our kid and anyone else in the vicinity. Uuuuuuuuuugghhhhhhh
 
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Simpers said:
It looks like we’re losing my niece and her parents to this crap. Kid is six years old in Seattle and has been put in an “LGBTQIA+ friendly” school with “PRIDE afterschool” programs for kindergartners, due to “bullying” that sounds like it didn’t really exist. Now, a year later, she’s “non-binary” and relentlessly pesters everyone into “honoring my pronouns” which are “they/them.” It’s the clearest care of indoctrination (and what I would call sexual abuse, too) that I have seen in real life.

I don’t think we can spend time with them now because my own child hasn’t been exposed to this insidious nonsense and I don’t want ‘em to be. The parents will NOT back down on their child’s “right” to “speak their truth” and “educate” our kid and anyone else in the vicinity. Uuuuuuuuuugghhhhhhh
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Hey, all you can do is keep your own kid quarantined from the rot. Take that win for what it's worth.
 
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I knew someone on Twitter for a few years, and we were part of a circle that also had locked vent accounts. We were never that close and I could never really call him my friend.

The writing was on the wall when I saw the contents of his locked profile; he posted a shitton of troon porn. Sure enough, a few years back he trooned out insanely hard and he now posts lots of brainrot on his main account. He once recently posted a pic of himself, with thick glasses and visible facial hair, which helped me hurl out that day's lunch.
 
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OhShitWatNao said:
This lurks deep in my consciousness, and yet every time I see it written out, it stops me dead in my tracks because it's really fucking true.
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A lot of millennials from my generation are trooning out too. Both millennials and zoomers are fucked.

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I found this guy’s Twitter (why are they all addicted to Twitter and insist on sticking around even when everyone else who remains there are hard right weirdos? Truly the worst site on the internet) and it’s all retweets of yuri fanart and cute anime girls and posts about how awesome being a transbian is. I don’t doubt that some of these people do feel body dysphoria but this is so clearly a fetish for this one, gross.

I sort of get why some sad incel would fall into the whole “if I can’t get a gf I’ll become the gf” thing, but why someone with a whole ass wife and kid would...
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What are you on about? A majority of Twitter have the same opinions as your average poster here. If you think Twitter is full of "hard right weirdos" that's a problem with YOU, not Twitter. Twitter is the last normie social media platform where the left and right are allowed to clash.

You want the "far right weirdos"? Jump on Gab.ai and search the term "Jews" and see how far you get.

Bluesky is the far left version of Gab.ai and they're just as retarded but maybe it'll be a great space for you.
 
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Used a third-party site to check my past Steam friends which included a gallery of their past profile pictures.. It's fucking grim how you see them go from wacky pictures to an OC/mascot to troon flags and lesbian yuri bait (and a few then back to whatever meme shit). The worst case literally has a goth loli with a background flag cut in half, troon/lesbian. He was a stock fag 12 years ago.

No matter where I met these people, they all ended up connecting. Me trans, see other trans, add trans, trans!!!! Absolute surface level vanity between these faggots farming potential sex pests.

My own little lost troon case just told me of them seeing another tranny and smiling cause "they're in this together". He didn't see the sunk cost fallacy manifest.
 
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This isn't really losing somebody to troonism because I never liked the guy in the first place because he was annoying but still I need to talk about this.

There was this kid I was in cub scouts with who always seemed off in some regards. Annoying as fuck. Always tried to ignore him in middle school and in high school.

Junior year of HS, he starts wearing a tail to school so he's obviously a furry. Troons out in Senior year.

What brought this back to me was in college a couple people who turned out to be in the marching band at my HS was talking about him and how they thought for a moment the tail was something like butt plug.

I was right for ignoring him
 
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Simpers said:
It looks like we’re losing my niece and her parents to this crap. Kid is six years old in Seattle and has been put in an “LGBTQIA+ friendly” school with “PRIDE afterschool” programs for kindergartners, due to “bullying” that sounds like it didn’t really exist. Now, a year later, she’s “non-binary” and relentlessly pesters everyone into “honoring my pronouns” which are “they/them.” It’s the clearest care of indoctrination (and what I would call sexual abuse, too) that I have seen in real life.

I don’t think we can spend time with them now because my own child hasn’t been exposed to this insidious nonsense and I don’t want ‘em to be. The parents will NOT back down on their child’s “right” to “speak their truth” and “educate” our kid and anyone else in the vicinity. Uuuuuuuuuugghhhhhhh
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I'm unfortunately not really surprised it's Seattle because furry paedos love to roam there. For example, one of 4lung's (a furry paedo musician) friends passed out a furry pro-paedophilia zine to unsuspecting children in a Seattle playground. I can't make this shit up man...
 
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I saw an old friend on facebook, yesterday. I didn't like it.

We worked together for 6 years, he was perfect, literally perfect at the job, a gigantic guy who was as gentle as a lamb with every patient, also a big wall of muscle other staff could descretly use as a shield when drug users and youth members of the healthcare clientele became mentally ill.
He would go from an addict using his own piss as a weapon, clean up, then be tenderly spoon feeding an Alzheimer patient her supper. John was a big loveable bear, so strong inside and out.

I find it very hard to put into words what he is now. When he left he had a fioncee and big plans. I cannot even look at the pictures of him. He's gaunt and sad looking, his eye's aren't the eyes I know. He's tits now.

I can't help but feel guilty. I know it's absurd, but I was a wallflower, I went with the flow too much. There were signs.
 
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Monolith said:
Someone I knew in middle school. I didn't meet this guy again, but my dad met his dad a couple days ago. According to my dad, both he and his sister trooned out since Covid.
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It's even worse when both people in a family troon out. Sorry to hear that man - what did your father say about it?
 
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LillyTheBestGirl said:
In most cases, it's a good idea to try working things out with your family, but if they aim to push this shit on your child, it's better to cut them off completely, as sad as it may be
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💯 agree.

@Simpers

I would recommend to read

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To help mitigate the risk to their children. And avoiding contact. This is social contagion, it moves via social contact.

I’d have the same rule if someone trooned out at my kids school, again once the mind virus gains a toehold it is difficult to eradicate.
 
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Sloppa said:
Why are the Authors of these things always Jews? Seriously asking.
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No idea where you got that from.

Take it or leave it. No difference to me. The book is a rare insight to the rogd madness, and they hope to help parents manage the contagion when it reaches their house, and affects their children.

Knowing shitlibs, in 10 years we’ll have an even bigger social contagion that will test parents. I just want to be ready for the next wave of shitlib rot.
 
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Maxwell Carter said:
It's even worse when both people in a family troon out. Sorry to hear that man - what did your father say about it?
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My dad's the kind of person who mostly tries to be nice about it, but he's peaked to some degree. He takes some trannies seriously, but not this time.

He pointed out that this guy had a lot of mental health problems, back when I knew him, and that I shouldn't be surprised. In any other generation, he'd join a subculture.
 
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