Megathread Trannies posting their L's Online - Heckin valid people posting their funny misfortunes on the internet

There's always been weird sex cults and retarded degens because some people are just born broken. But before there were limits on how overt you could be and your ability to "recruit". The internet and "don't judge!" makes this stuff proliferate beyond the usual black sheep though.
 
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A pooner is upset the men she hooks up with aren't gay.

I labeled it NSFW bc this is a rant about gay sex as a trans guy. I am pansexual, and have had issues with my past partners of many genders being transphobic. But it is especially prominent and potent in the men I've been with.
It doesn't help that I live in the American Midwest. Outside of my circle of queer friends, people look constipated as they try to figure out what gender I am. They usually assume I'm a lesbian and then get confused when I talk about liking men and other genders too. Then, they treat me like a straight (but strangely masculine) woman.
The hoops cis(het?) men will jump through to prove that liking me isn't gay istg... I don't know how to explain to some of my cishet friends that part of the reason why I'm not dating rn, but especially not straight men, is bc I'm trans and people seem to always have an issue with it. They keep trying to get me to get back out there, but I am sick of the same stupid shit.
I'm tired of holding the hands of my lovers as they wrestle with the fact they are attracted to me. They hate the same thing that draws them to me. How are you going to tell me this isn't some gay shit, dude? We are wearing the same brand of boxer briefs.
I've tried to steer clear of the guys who are Straight and Proud, but even the ones who are bisexual or heteroflexible or straight but chill have issues with it. Some seem to put on an accepting front, but when it gets to the nitty gritty of it, they won't do anything too... queer. He needs to be dominant, he needs to top, etc. I keep being told what I want instead of them hearing me when I tell them what I want. I want to do some gay shit goddamnit. Even if I solely bottom, it is still gay. It's like they look past what they don't like (my body hair and my deeper voice) to get what they want (my full chest and malebox). I get it man, I am rather jacked in the box. But I want to be celebrated as a whole, not just for my hole.
They wanna fuck a 🚬 but are scared to do some 🚬 shit. Smfh
Some of the comments are just different levels of cope they're not having gay sex

white-meadow-moth [score hidden] 4 hours ago
I feel weird about it. I’m at a point in my transition where it’s pretty undeniable that the men I sleep with like men to some extent, whether or not they admit it to themselves. Like I look exactly like a fem cis twink until I take off my underwear. My bottom growth is even big enough to make a bulge in my underwear that could passably be a small dick.
And yet still I get “straight” men wanting to sleep with me??
I mean cis gays get this too, especially fem or twinky cis gays, so it’s not the biggest deal. But it also just starts feeling annoying because like, dude. Look at me. If you like me enough to want to go out of your way to fuck me, you’re not straight.

[–]flumen_tenebrarum- pansexual gnc trans man [score hidden] 4 hours ago
Exactly. And I feel weird when guys want to fuck a guy, but don't want dick, and then think that I fit the bill. Like, don't pretend you don't see the T-dick. My clit was big before T. Now, well, it isn't quite as big as you describe yours to be. I don't have a bulge in my underwear (yet). But you could definitely see mine from across the room. So they tell me that they don't want a guy with a dick and I'm like, well, let me and my fat cock just get out of your way then so you can find that guy. I'm not him.

Dabauwu [score hidden] 4 hours ago
I agree completely as a pan gender noncomforming trans dude from the midwest, it's a mess out here 😭
I'm just glad I have a partner because you could NOT get me to try and get with a gay man from my area. They already act like trans men aren't a thing and I'm TIRED LMAO


OneNerdyAce [score hidden] 3 hours ago*
I've totally been here. It's like they think it's "gay without commitments" or some kind of "trial run" of being able to dip their toes into queer dating without having to commit to the negative stigma
I am asexual homoromantic, so I only date men/masculine people, and I've run into this a LOT. I decided about a year and a half ago to only date men who are culturally queer, no cishet people, because I really don't think they can ever understand how invalidating it can be to be treated like a woman in bed
I thought it made me kinda unlovable, being ace and trans and autistic and disabled (P.O.T.S, hEDS) and unwilling to date hetero or "bicurious/heteroflexible" men, but after a lot of halfhearted looking, I DID find someone who understands and loves me for who I am. There are people out there that will respect you, so set your standards high enough to accept nothing less
My boyfriend is ace panromantic, and he understands the queer experience and has a trans sibling, has dated cis and trans men, and makes me feel like the most wonderful gem in the world just for being myself. There ARE people out there that will give you the relationship you want, you just have to be willing to sift through enough pretenders to find them
I thought I would never find what I was looking for, and would have to settle for someone that didn't meet my needs, but I was just being too pessimistic. Your experiences are valid, and not uncommon for FtM people, but they are not an indicator that all people will treat you like that, there ARE better men out there, you just have to be willing to go find them
(Edit: also I don't use my genitals for insertion, giving or receiving, and it's never been a problem for the men who are culturally queer, we just do what any other MLM couple does, it's not ever really a problem for someone who actually cares about you and thinks of you as a guy. It's a huge red flag for a guy to assume that you being AFAB means that you'll want or even accept PinV for intercourse, it tells you right away that they don't want to discuss boundaries they want to step all over yours to get what they want)

[–]Twinkalicious [score hidden] 3 hours ago
They treat trans women like me as if being attracted to me is gay, they are so backwards
It just never gets old how trannies and pooner's complain about the only people willing to hook up with them. But because it invalidates their fetish they can't take it.
Anyone who says that Auto Androphilia isn't a thing should be forced to read this. The only difference between this and transbians is that the pooner lacks the upper body strength to actually commit a rape.
 
Starts with idk… Bikini pics or racy movies. Then you move on to soft core then hard core. Before you know it, you’re watching throat gagging or anal sex or prostate milking or whatever. And that’s just what sites like Pornhub push at you.
It doesn't anymore. Here's something beautiful about the internet - people just skip straight to throat gagging and anal sex (which are not even considered extreme nowadays). There are no softcore porn mags, zoomers hate movie sex scenes, "bikini pics" are not a thing since sex is everywhere in ads, video games, social media, fanart etc. If I were to go to the main page of Pornhub right now, it would mostly be very degenerate and extreme. Kids these days just hear about porn one way or another, then simply go google "porn" and that's what they see, that's their first impression of what sex is. With that perspective it's not surprising that so many zoomer girls hate men and sex, and zoomer boys think all women are whores.
 
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It’s just a such a bullshit thing to say, I had a discussion with someone who claims to not be transphobic and also says trans women are women, say that “bathrooms are based on sex not gender”. not it fucking isn’t, the definition of woman: “an adult female human” next, find the definition of female definition B of female: “someone who’s gender identity is opposite of male.” it seriously is not that hard to understand, I could maybe understand an argument against pretransition trans people but even then it’s still kind of iffy. And what do we do about intersex people? “oh but intersex people actually lean towards more to one sex than the other!” so what? they still have different results of their sex based off of what type of test they take. “oh but a muslim wouldn’t feel comfortable with a ‘biological man’” I really don’t care because this muslim woman wouldn’t fucking know a completely passing trans woman is a “biological male”. “what if we just made a 3rd bathroom for trans people” as nice as this sounds to me because it would stop utter morons from bantering me with their hateful worldviews, a third bathroom every where on earth is unrealistic as fuck, we can’t even get basic human rights let alone convince the government to mandate a third bathroom. “I was sexually assaulted by a trans woman in a bathroom so I don’t want them in the bathroom with me.” oh my god, I hate this “point” so much, it generalizes the trans community, is always made out of bad faith, is illogical as personal experience is not evidence, and it just is annoying, I get it, you’re traumatized by a trans person, but if you don’t want a trans woman in the women’s restroom then trans men enter the women’s instead, I’d love to see how many court cases this cause, on top of this illogical statement, you are just as likely to be SA’d by a trans man in the the women’s restroom than you are to be SA’d by a trans woman. I seriously can’t with people who are this obsessed with pretending to be supportive of trans people because deep down anyone who says they should go to the restroom of the opposite gender is not supportive in the slightest.
... personally, I still can’t believe troons buy the "history is on our side" guff.

The idea of history having a right side originated in 19th century Marxian mysticism.
It was even sort of plausible at one time if applied to industrial workers.

But troons? 8)

I must admit I do not think trans women should be in the men’s restrooms.
That is just sort of a liberal compromise between being in women’s restrooms and not existing. :christine:
 
Someone found out about the Fashion Police and doesn’t like it one bit. According to this tranny, TERFs making fun of men in dresses reeks of insecurity, particularly because they will never get to be included in I dunno, Mean Girls, for being catty bitches about men in ugly dresses. Not like that women have critiqued each others fashion forever, or that men saying they’re women because they’re wearing pigtails and miniskirts is ludicrous.

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I also think being catty about trans women's / transfems' appearances or desirability is a repulsive way to comport yourself regardless of your own positionality (even your relationship to transmisogyny)

you're not going to be in Mean Girls, you're not going to make it in Dimes Square, Charli XCX won't write a song about you, Azealia Banks is not going to be your best friend on twitter. explore other personality traits and behaviors for yourself

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no aesthetic or stylistic choice could ever be as tired and dull as making this your personality

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it also reeks of insecurity

The best part is that he claims that the person that replied to the hella transphobic ET meme with “EEK” was another troon having a fun ribbing with a “TERF guy mutual.” Completely due to internalized transmisogyny, of course.

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editing a skirt onto a shriveled, wrinkly alien trying to pass as human, as a caricature of trans women, is not subtle. the pun does not make it any more subtle. this is the kind of open disgust for trans women you see on TERF and fascist hangouts alongside rants about TIMs And Moids etc.

which isn't surprising because specialmouse is both TME and also a self-described radfem who just barely bothers to keep up a “trans women inclusive radfem” crypto veneer to his transmisogynist seething

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medusadyke, on the other hand, is a trans woman with so much internalized transmisogyny that she reduces herself to bonding with a TERF mutual over shared misogynist contempt for trans women as Ugly Boring Bitches

both parties serve important roles for each other: the crypto flatters the trans woman as Not Like The Other TGirls, in this case the TGirls Who Dress Cringe. in the other direction, the trans woman is useful as a leashed attack dog for the crypto, and helps the crypto maintain an (in this case extremely thin) facade of deniability

the more pathetic and lowly party is a subjective question

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I think it's interesting how many people with Transmisogynists DNI or Trans Women Are Women in bio (and even a few intensely transmisogynistic trans women as above) continue to be mutuals with this miserable TERF guy

It’s just a such a bullshit thing to say, I had a discussion with someone who claims to not be transphobic and also says trans women are women, say that “bathrooms are based on sex not gender”. not it fucking isn’t, the definition of woman: “an adult female human” next, find the definition of female definition B of female: “someone who’s gender identity is opposite of male.” it seriously is not that hard to understand, I could maybe understand an argument against pretransition trans people but even then it’s still kind of iffy. And what do we do about intersex people? “oh but intersex people actually lean towards more to one sex than the other!” so what? they still have different results of their sex based off of what type of test they take. “oh but a muslim wouldn’t feel comfortable with a ‘biological man’” I really don’t care because this muslim woman wouldn’t fucking know a completely passing trans woman is a “biological male”. “what if we just made a 3rd bathroom for trans people” as nice as this sounds to me because it would stop utter morons from bantering me with their hateful worldviews, a third bathroom every where on earth is unrealistic as fuck, we can’t even get basic human rights let alone convince the government to mandate a third bathroom. “I was sexually assaulted by a trans woman in a bathroom so I don’t want them in the bathroom with me.” oh my god, I hate this “point” so much, it generalizes the trans community, is always made out of bad faith, is illogical as personal experience is not evidence, and it just is annoying, I get it, you’re traumatized by a trans person, but if you don’t want a trans woman in the women’s restroom then trans men enter the women’s instead, I’d love to see how many court cases this cause, on top of this illogical statement, you are just as likely to be SA’d by a trans man in the the women’s restroom than you are to be SA’d by a trans woman. I seriously can’t with people who are this obsessed with pretending to be supportive of trans people because deep down anyone who says they should go to the restroom of the opposite gender is not supportive in the slightest.
... personally, I still can’t believe troons buy the "history is on our side" guff.

The idea of history having a right side originated in 19th century Marxian mysticism.
It was even sort of plausible at one time if applied to industrial workers.

Never liked the “right side of history” argument for many reasons. Trannies and their allies using it to justify some of their most monstrous behavior has been a major one. Very similar to how you know to avoid any narcissist posing as an “empath.”

I had always taken their reasoning as being cribbed from similar statements I heard about the Nazis losing WWII or the wins minorities gained during the Civil Rights Movement. Don’t know how many of them have read Marx beyond a day in grade school, but many trannies do claim to be some flavor of commie…
 
editing a skirt onto a shriveled, wrinkly alien trying to pass as human, as a caricature of trans women, is not subtle.
Sometimes subtlety is not the most effective approach. 8)

... but many trannies do claim to be some flavor of commie…
Bourgeois adventurists. Lenin didn't care for 'em.
... In a petty-bourgeois country, which is passing through a historical period of bourgeois reconstruction, it is inevitable that a motley assortment of intellectuals should join the workers, and that these intellectuals should attempt to form all kinds of groups, adventurist in character in the sense referred to above. ...
The old boy didn't know the half of it. :lit:
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At no point do they take into account that the wife just had their entire world blown up. Most parent's won't allow their kids to associate with them, so she and her children are about to be social outcasts. Apparently they're now lesbians (because that dude in a skirt will get very upset if they don't call themselves such). That whole life they've planned out and built for themselves, their spouse and their kids just evaporated... and god forbid they don't immediately affirm their husband's delusion, lest they be called a bigot. Heaven forbid they ask the troon to take a minute before transitioning so they can adjust to the idea... because that's making them deny their true self (even though they did it long enough to entrap a wife and sire a few kids).

Additionally, there are two options of what happened here and neither make the tranny a victim:
1: They've always had 'gender dysphoria' and lied to their spouse about it (and likely jerking off while wearing their wife's underwear).
2: This is a new proclivity that popped up (likely caused by porn) and they're demanding that their spouse go along with it.
TBF, gays have been doing this to women since the 90's.

Once it became "acceptable" to "be your true self" all the bisexual guys craving dick blew up their marriages to be full-time gay and their wives who might have multiple children and have been planning on spending their life with said guy, were required to smile and praise their former husbands for being true to themselves or face being called a homophobic bigot.

It's the exact same playbook.

At least when your husband runs off with a 20 year old secretary/stripper/etc. women are allowed to be angry at him being a cheating lowlife. If it's because their husband "discovered themself" as gay/a woman then they have to be happy their life is being destroyed.
 
It's the exact same playbook.
I don't think it is - sure, it's heartbreaking / frustrating if your husband comes out as gay, especially if you can't properly grieve and be angry in public. BUT. There's no question there will be a divorce and the relationship is over. With men coming out as "trans" they usually expect the relationship to not only continue, but also to center full time on how stunning and brave they are at every moment. The woman is also forced to "identify" as a lesbian and will often be demanded to take part of demeaning sex acts.

With a guy coming out as gay, at least the marriage is dead.
 
why did literally everything bad or immoral in society today start in the 60s and 70s?
A couple of theories:

1: Growth of the alternative lifestyle. San Francisco, LA, NYC, Stonewall, etc. before the gay rights movement, there was actual laws about not doing gay shit in public, or transitioning, etc. I will admit, gay people exist. I doubt conversion therapy works. But Trans shit has to be a severe mental illness. we are the only intellegent species on earth that attempted to cut off our bits, and live life as a different gender, outside of like, frogs and clownfish.
2: Removal of Gender Dysphoria in DSM-5, that sent it to a nuclear explosion of trans people.
3: the "live and Let loose" style. if someone came out as gay, what if they felt like a girl? What if they wanted to transition into one and live as a girl?


There's a fix to this, but it's gonna be tough.
1: Ban sex changing hormones, surgeries, etc, and punish doctors who do it. It's going to be unpopular, the admin who proposed this is going to be called a "trans genocidal maniac", but it needs to be done. Most people, shockingly, find trans people gross. I mean, who's the "hottest" trans person you know? EXACTLY.

2: Support serious mental help for people who express gender Dysphoria. A hot take of mine is don't try religious style conversion therapy, all that ended up doing is turning gay people off from religion and further making their deeds public.
"Oh, I had to go to Gay Camp, and I got traumatized by the Bible, so please don't bring it up near me. Now, here's another trans character in a kids show."
You have to be direct with these people, and get to the root of their condition, rather than just "wishing the trans/gay away".

There's a few more steps I'm missing, any ideas?
 
What would you fill in the blank, that could contextually scare the troon straight?
Let's twist and reclaim "affirm". She affirmed his ass right out of the house.
These times of social decay are a byproduct of where we are and any pushback (which is inevitably coming, people are turning on the formerly popular "two consenting adults" and "live and let live" stuff these days, seemingly.) will destroy movements like this.
Agreed. Faith in tech and progress, elite overreaching, and a linear view of history leading to Utopialand lasts only so long
The only way these ideas succeed is when they are permitted to.
And the tech to do it is available, accessible and affordable. Those supports will drop out eventually too, but not soon enough.
These are fucking terrible people.
We all are. We permitted the destruction and redefinition of human institutions that carried us into the 21st century for the coom.
I was called to HR office with someone else there and suddenly was told I'm getting fired.
In France? Nobody gets fired in France. That's wild.
Who the fuck addresses their parents by name?
That comes and goes out of fashion, but that has been going on in progressive families since the 1970s.
so feminine in the ways that they speak, write, feel...
Female hysteria aside, they're also incredibly spoiled. The products of "self esteem" building.
Like I look exactly like a fem cis twink until I take off my underwear. My bottom growth is even big enough to make a bulge in my underwear that could passably be a small dick.
And yet still I get “straight” men wanting to sleep with me??
She's never heard about how men seek a bit of "strange", apparently.
why did literally everything bad or immoral in society today start in the 60s and 70s?
It was a very short period of incredible technological, social and political change. And global change. The Vietnam war (which was the last war manned by the draft), the Pill, 2nd wave feminism, Roe V Wade, divorce, the Civil Rights movement, Stonewall riots, widespread drug use, etc. The opening up of China by Nixon. Arguably it was the beginning of globohomo and American hegemony. "Youth Culture" and the Me Generation. And the hare brained idpol we're enjoying today.

Ironically there were lots of warnings against the path the West was taking with all those things and much more, but faith in tech and progress (and the march of individual rights and wants gaining more importance over community/collective needs) was much stronger than the fear of going the wrong way.
 
which isn't surprising because specialmouse is both TME and also a self-described radfem who just barely bothers to keep up a “trans women inclusive radfem” crypto veneer to his transmisogynist seething
“trans women inclusive radical feminist” is wild. This is what tumblr does to people, I guess.
 
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