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[monstrous bubo]

Bri’ish troon has a sad but none of it is his fault.


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Life isn't what I wanted it to beDiscussion (self.TransLater)
submitted 2 days ago by ThrowawayGwen
I've realised I have no ambitions left whatsoever. The things I wanted from life have all gone up in smoke.

I'm entering my 30s with nothing to strive towards, work towards or hope for. It's like I have little to no meaning anymore. I'm not even 30 and I've got literally nothing to strive towards. I'll be stuck in the same lonely routine for the next 20 years.

Years ago I'd wanted to be a teacher. That died. Then I was gonna work for the RQIA (they inspect nursing homes in my country), that went up in smoke too due to being bullied out of the care industry as it's not very trans-accepting, like at all. Then I was going to be a counsellor. That died too.

Working with animals died a few months ago. My dream of having SRS seems to have gone as well mainly because it's so expensive and I wouldn't have anyone to look after me.

I was gonna move away but the government of the place I was gonna move to got super transphobic so it would no longer be safe. Where I live now, although I experience hate crime and discrimination (it's Tuesday for me) the laws remain different. No bathroom bills and although I'm banned from certain women's spaces I can still access many of them.

And more recently, and I mean like recently as in a few days ago, romance is dead, which also means that so is being a mum and getting a dog.

There's nothing left that I wanted.

It's just one loss, but wave after wave, until it feels like there's nothing left to cling to. Not even a scrap of the future I'd dreamed of. And none of those were shallow dreams either. They were full of care, purpose, connection, and identity. It hurts.

My routine is I go out and do social stuff from time to time but then I come back to an empty apartment. That's it. Just attend friendly groups, hobby groups, go to the occasional event when I can afford to etc.

But I'm always, always coming back to the empty apartment. I truly spend as much time outside as possible, often overstaying my welcome at the stuff I attend because I hate the apartment. I hate it because this routine isn't something I can seem to break out of.

I don't know what to do with myself for the next 20-40 years. Everything feels dead.

Counterpoint: you were born in the first world, got a subsidised education, never went hungry, and have basic healthcare covered by the state. You are richer and healthier than most humans who have ever existed. You are a native speaker of the global lingua franca. You carry access to the world’s knowledge in your pocket. You have won the lottery of life. If you can’t make this work for you, kys as tidily as you can. No wonder your government imports third worlders in the hope they will give it a red hot go.

 

[Sean Andalou]

Talk about wanting to have it both ways ...


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Hiii! This is mostly directed at girls without bottom dysphoria who had orchiectomy:

How does it feel without implants? And if you have implants, how does it feel with implants?

I think I'll be going the way of orchiectomy in like 2 years so that I don't have to take AAs, but I think I might miss the shape of my scrotum. I never particularly liked my testicles, but when I imagine my scrotum as just an empty sack, I feel a little sad, so I think I might want implants, but I'm not sure how this feels. Any stories?

One reply so far.

I like the smooth look, if I wasn't dysphoric down they would love the smooth erection without testicles at all. Especially on estrogen, that erotic sensation along with an erection? Then again, I'm into futa.

 

[shatterspinel]

And more recently, and I mean like recently as in a few days ago, romance is dead, which also means that so is being a mum and getting a dog.

Most people get a dog for some light companionship when they’re going through shit and aren’t ready to date. I’m really hoping that they meant dog parent because dumb enough to know that you can’t take care of an animal but think you can manage a relationship, never mind raising human children.

 

[Anasa Tristis]

Skrmetti seething

Skrmeething!

 

[Tragi-Chan]

Bri’ish troon has a sad but none of it is his fault.

He’s not very specific about why none of these career paths worked out.

 

[The Skeksis Emperor]

Bri’ish troon has a sad but none of it is his fault.

Almost his entire account is just obsessing over not having a girlfriend and dying alone and how much he yearns for people and how he is touch starved (ugh). He's a very autistic male with boundary issues and he's throwing up massive red flags because of it. In a sane world, this would have been recognised in school and maybe a good councellor could have steered him towards being less pushy, so people would want to be around him. But we're in this world.

 

[Not A Cat Person]

Almost his entire account is just obsessing over not having a girlfriend and dying alone and how much he yearns for people and how he is touch starved (ugh). He's a very autistic male with boundary issues and he's throwing up massive red flags because of it.

The incel to tranny pipeline is so, so real.

 

[llama_aquisition]

I was gonna move away but the government of the place I was gonna move to got super transphobic so it would no longer be safe.

I always find it funny when troons suggest that the only reason they've not moved to another country is because of transphobia. I live in a different country to the one I was born in, and it may surprise you to hear that most countries do not in fact issue visas to NEETs with no discernible skills. The fact that you identify as a woman doesn't come into it.

Of course, this does rely on the assumption that someone like him would've even bothered to research what's involved in getting a visa in the first place. More likely he went to Disneyland as a child with his parents and has therefore decided he'd move to the US one day.

 

[Larry David's Opera Cape]

Talk about wanting to have it both ways ...

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How does this retard even separate his feelings about his testes (internal, not directly seen, somehow dislikes) from his scrotum (external, fully visible, somehow he loves)?

 

[Otterly]

Years ago I'd wanted to be a teacher. That died. Then I was gonna work for the RQIA (they inspect nursing homes in my country), that went up in smoke too due to being bullied out of the care industry as it's not very trans-accepting, like at all. Then I was going to be a counsellor. That died too.

Oh dear, that’s a lot of things..

Working with animals died a few months ago.

-and animals too! I wonder why…

He’s not very specific about why none of these career paths worked out.

It occurs to me that they all need backgrounds checks.

 

[Sean Andalou]

How to deal with being financially dependent on transphobes?

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As the title suggests my (18, f) family doesn't believe in gender transition. In a nutshell, they think that all trans people are mentally ill. I haven't come out to them and really don't know if I ever can. But I can't move away because I'm in college full-time and the little money I can make isn't enough to afford my own place. Whenever I present the even slightest bit of fem they ask weird questions and make rude comments about it.

I don't want to boymode 24/7. I don't want to feel like I'm living a lie. I am who I am, and I don't want to push that aside because they can't accept it. But, if they start to seriously suspect it they'll push & push and it'll be a painful struggle. I'm at a loss for what to do, so any advice is appreciated.

Turned 18, and that means they can legally throw him out. Right?

 

[Neko GF]

Extremely common PinkNews L:

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[Vyse Inglebard]

"PEOPLE DON'T HATE US ON AN INSTINCTUAL LEVEL, THE MEDIA WERE AKSHCUALLY AGAINST US THE WHOLE TIME, BRAINWASHING PEOPLE TO HATE US!"

 

[Tetopettenson]

Almost his entire account is just obsessing over not having a girlfriend and dying alone and how much he yearns for people and how he is touch starved (ugh). He's a very autistic male with boundary issues and he's throwing up massive red flags because of it. In a sane world, this would have been recognised in school and maybe a good councellor could have steered him towards being less pushy, so people would want to be around him. But we're in this world.

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these kinds of people piss me off so bad holy shit. they look at a bunch of women rejecting them and blame all of these individuals without realizing that theyre the common denominator. instead of trying to fix the man theyve been given the lifetime to be they decide it makes so much more sense to try and become a woman. bitch women dont like you wtf is pretending to be one of them gonna do

 

[theshep]

 

[VargReallyDidNothingWrong]

WTF is it with pooners and jockstraps?! It’s like it’s more popular with them than with actual men. Can’t think of a man who uses them except like football players.

Fetishization of what the other gender considers a "traditionally masculine" piece of clothing that they finally get to wear as part of their gender affirmation.

It's literally the same as when a hairy legged fridge hon decides that the best way to be "femme-presenting" is to put on a heart-shaped pink pleather choker, thigh highs with garter belts and a pleated skirt with stiletto heels (to go to the supermarket).

 

[RazorBackBacon]

He’s not very specific about why none of these career paths worked out.

He encountered a single roadblock and gave up.

"We were making steady advancement until people cottoned on to us being freaks."

 

[Necrosan]

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Lately I was very close to break up with my girlfriend. The transition is heavy on me, I've been trying really hard for the passed year to be ok with it, and I'm not, and it's killing me. I mostly keep thing to myself, and then it explodes, wich is not an healthy way to navigate this change.

My therapist thinks I'm forcing myself to stay in the relationship because I am too codependant - wich is defenitely part of my personality, we've been working together for the last 3 years, she knows me very well, and I know I can trust her when she says that I am being harmfull to myself.

Problem is. I love my girlfriend. And there is absolutely no problem in our relationship, appart from the fact that I don't feel confortable with her transition. So leaving her for that motive is unbearable.

We identified that part of the problem is that I don't want to tell her when I find her unattractive when she tries on some new dress, or hair style, and that it is part of why I pretend everything is ok until I explode out of anxiety.

I though, ok, there are some things I can't manage to talk about - like how do I tell my partner that I dislike her hair when she already feels dysphoric about her hair. And I'm not sure that she really is ready to hear about it. I need to be reassured about that.

Also, having my partner transitionning means I need to change my representation of her to embrace the new version of her. And part of me wants to believe that it is possible because she is not planning any surgery anyway, so all I have to do is to get used the her new aesthetic. Wich is not a little thing, but in theory, it sounds possible.

And I wanted to get advice about that, ANY ADVICE AT ALL, and I though it would be good for us to get advice about that together.

So we planned a session with a couple therapist who is supposed to know a bit about transiton and about heteronormativity and the consequences of social dynamics on the individual mental health. Blabla. I though "that person will be able to give me food for thoughs about how to change my reprensentation of my partner in a smooth way".

Well, my ass.

We spent 2h talking about the relationship, established that we are very much in love, that we have very good communication skills, and that there is nothing to fix there. The only thing I can to is to seek individual therapy around what the transition does to me and if I can adjust to it.

And not a fucking advice on how I can fucking do that.

So now I am angry anf frustrated, because it's the only alternative to being sad and desperate.

I feel like there are no ressources for us out there to navigate the transition of my partner.

Here on this forum it's mostly about :

1 - Arrival : "I'm freaking oooooooooout !!!!"

2 - guilt and self-harm : "how do I push myself to help my partner and accept anything that is happening even though it feels weird and unconfortable ?"

3 - concern : "be carefull, remember to take care of yourself too, seek therapy"

4 - giving-up because we have no tools to provide : "you are not a bad person for leaving"

Where are the god damn tools people ??

I DON'T CARE BOUT BEING A GOOD OR A BAD PERSON !!

I KNOW MY FEELINGS ARE VALID !!

WHY CAN'T WE TALK ABOUT THE BABY STEPS IT TAKES TO DECONSTRUCT THE REPRENSENTATION WE HAD OF OUR PARTNER, TO DECONSTRUCT THE HETERONORMATIVITY WE HAVE WITHIN, AND BUILD A NEW REPRESENTATION OF OUR PARTNER THAT FITS THEIR NEW LOOKS AND OUR BOUNDARIES ?????

WHERE ARE THE FUCKING RESSOURCES TO DO THAT ????? OR TO JUST AKNOWLEDGE THAT I CAN'T TO IT ????

(and here, I am screaming, because I am fucking sad and need to fight that feeling with anger, don't take it personnaly).

Woman asks for tools on how to fix her infernal relationship, doesn't realize she is asking a forum full of them.

Although, if she is looking for actual ways to fix the problem, I can redirect her to this short and sweet post:

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My egg cracked a few months ago and I came out to my wife. She didn't take it well and would not even talk to me about it. Since then our relationship has deteriorated. I'm now at my mom's house three states away from home.

We have a counselling session scheduled in 1 week.

I suspect experiences like this are not uncommon. Is there a light at the end of the tunnel?

This is how you do it, lady. Take all the notes you need.

 

[monstrous bubo]

Although, if she is looking for actual ways to fix the problem, I can redirect her to this short and sweet post:

User name is Bukkake-San. No wonder his wife is sick of his shit.

THREAD TAX: the universe is in conspiracy against a Hawaiian princess


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Spoiler: the tale of woe

Not a good startDiscussion (self.TransLater)
submitted 16 hours ago by RudeBlood4320

Monday I received my prescription for ev. On same day my insurance decided to flex its muscles by refusing to pay for my prescription using such excuses like prior authorization required, provider not in network and here’s the best one, we need to see medical records, labs showing serum levels and pertinent mental health records showing diagnosis and past treatments for gender dysphoria. Un freaking believable. But it get more archaic.

I decided I would just pay cash and bypass the bullcrap. Now the pharmacy has to put their 2 cents in by saying we don’t have it in stock we got to order it, be here by Wednesday. Wednesday I’m anxious really anxious by 3pm I hadn’t heard from pharmacy so I go there. They said oh our distributor(yes singular)doesn’t carry it so you’ll have to go elsewhere. I’m like when you going to call me and tell me know what is going on?

So I’m try to get digital prescription transferred to Costco. Easier said than done. Then preferred pharmacy call and tells me they “MAY” be able to get it from a different supplier by Friday. Here I am waiting, which sux big time. I’ve no idea what the next issue is going to be. My attitude is not good. Patience is shit all to heck and now I’m late for work. Mahalo nui loa, Willow

 

[Sean Andalou]

Creative financing.


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so ive been wanting to get bottom surgery for a while now an im wondering if i could pull out a loan or a morgage for it because i dont know if i would ever have enough money for it

Clarification: It is not a pussy.

People at the top of the comments aren't taking the question seriously enough.
Sample.

I can see it now: “Fuck. I’m late on my pussy payment.”

Hope they don't repo my pussy.

... i was like oh god repo movie is going to become a reality

Scrolling down to a serious answer (with 278 upvotes so far).

Mortgages and loans are leveraged against assets. Aka if you fail to pay they take your stuff. It’s why banks can repossess peoples houses. You would need to leverage it off some other asset, like a car (and then agree to let them hold the car or that you will not damage it during the contract). The asset must have value to the bank, so your future pussy doesn’t count.

In short, if you have the assets to do it, it might be worth looking in to. Otherwise no. Also you will pay more in total.

He could mortgage his house to finance his ... ahem ... home improvement project.
But I guess if he had a house he would have done that already.

Perhaps a small business loan?
Just convince a banker there will be sufficient "pussy" related income to make it a good investment.

Wait. I've got it. A student loan.